FabSwingers.com forum: Advice to younger self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If by some strange quantum mechanics you travelled in time and were able to meet your younger self, what single piece of advice would you give in order to live a happier more fulfilled life?

(In any context you feel appropriate)

Will x

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Don’t ever by a Happy Meal. It’s just broken promises….

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Don’t ever by a Happy Meal. It’s just broken promises…."

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Spend more time with family you don't realise how much you will regret that when they are no longer here

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Take sleeping tablets when you get old because then you won't wake up at 5 I'm the morning wanting to piss .then have job going back to sleep and then feel fucked for the rest of the day .

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Invest and save instead of spending it out drinking.. apart from that nothing smashed my youth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitcoin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I said no to that one person think my life would have been so different today

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Don’t ignore or suppress your own feelings, make yourself the number one priority in your life. You can’t be there wholly for others unless you are emotionally regulated.

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By *otallysmoothMan
over a year ago

Telford

Not be so shy, and experiment with sex earlier.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Dont wait for things to happen. Dont be shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bother paying extra off your student loan. There's no benefit to paying it off quicker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the girls and the drink.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"Bitcoin.

Your right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak up and tell people so that you get help sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it’s okay to feel the way I felt and that it was gonna turn out great.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

That girl you fancied and didn't have the courage to tell her how you feel for ages... she will end up breaking your heart in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sunderland will play Charlton in the 1998 playoff final… save all of your pocket money and tell dad to put it all on a 3-3 draw and losing on penalties

Clive Mendonca to score a hat trick

Good lad…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never eat yellow snow.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Do everything!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your ass in gear and move on with your life. Go for 'that' training and go for 'that' job before night shifts claims your soul

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wish I said no to that one person think my life would have been so different today

Do you feel it’s held you back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t ignore or suppress your own feelings, make yourself the number one priority in your life. You can’t be there wholly for others unless you are emotionally regulated."

That sounds like sound advice. What was the result of not doing this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't bother paying extra off your student loan. There's no benefit to paying it off quicker. "

Haha definitely.

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple
over a year ago

northamptonshire

Invest in Google, apple, and Tesla. Buy as much bitcoin as humanly possible lmao

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Avoid procrastination, trepidation, analysis-paralysis... and take that leap of faith. The regret isn't worth it.

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By *Bacchus.Man
over a year ago

Torquay

Don't do any of the things that seem like a great idea in the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get your ass in gear and move on with your life. Go for 'that' training and go for 'that' job before night shifts claims your soul"

Me neither did night shifts most of his life and he’s convinced it’s the cause of most of his ill health now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say yes to a lot more things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do everything!!"

Except Jimmy Saville? I’d definitely avoid that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out and see the world! It's huge and an exciting place to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't do any of the things that seem like a great idea in the moment "

Do you have an example?

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Speak. Whether its just being confident enough to voice your opinions, or being able to tell people that youre having a hard time and struggling. Something i still dont do as much as i should, but definitely better than i was. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speak. Whether its just being confident enough to voice your opinions, or being able to tell people that youre having a hard time and struggling. Something i still dont do as much as i should, but definitely better than i was. X

There are a lot of people on FAB that are very good at the first of those traits

Glad you’re finding your voice - hiw have you gone about that? X

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Be happy with who you are,you’re not as useless as you think you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t wait any longer. Run. J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put 2K on Leicester winning the league. Oh, and dont go riding on certain days, you smash you body to pieces.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Keep your toys in their boxes and don’t throw them all away ££££££

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

It's ok. It wasn't your fault.

It's ok to tell people and its ok to remember.

Don't hold the pain and anger in. It will nearly kill you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put 2K on Leicester winning the league. Oh, and dont go riding on certain days, you smash you body to pieces. "

Put everything you have on Leicester winning the league BUT do so that each bet does not tip £1 million because that's all the bookie's pay out ..it's a hidden trick by them ..£1 million is their top pay out not matter what your docket is worth over it ...they were 5000/1 to win it at the start of the season they won it and also 5000/1 at the Christmas.. absolutely no one thought .. especially the bookies ..that they'd win it.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

Also ... ethical non monogamy. Remember that and don't need afraid to talk about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If by some strange quantum mechanics you travelled in time and were able to meet your younger self, what single piece of advice would you give in order to live a happier more fulfilled life?

(In any context you feel appropriate)

Will x "

Trust your instincts, they're there to protect you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put 2K on Leicester winning the league. Oh, and dont go riding on certain days, you smash you body to pieces.

I'll let the young me know, thanks

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Go to university away from home and don't spend so much time thinking being too short for your dream job has ruined your life!

It gets better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *Bacchus.Man
over a year ago

Torquay

"Don't do any of the things that seem like a great idea in the moment

Do you have an example? "

Countless nameless women and cocaine primarily

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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago

Near the River

Enjoy your life fully- especially when you’re in your 20s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking. Will return in 2044 unless skynet takes over

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Glad you’re finding your voice - hiw have you gone about that? X "

I guess with age ive realised not to place so much emphasis on trying to be 'cool', whatever that is, or liked by the popular people. Friendship is quality not quantity, and true friends will still like you even if you dont have exactly the same opinions on everything. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time is the most valuable gift you will ever have in life ,dont waste it , use it wisely

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