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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We thinking about leaving

Can you chance our minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er if you wanna go, go??

If you wanna stay, stay??

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Well its difficult without knowing what your reasons for wanting to leave are.

Do you mean the website, the lifestyle, the country?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly could. Do you want us to

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We thinking about leaving

Can you chance our minds "

I take it you mean change ? But anyway the answer is no simply because if people want to stay ...they stay ..if they want to go .. they'll go ..it's like the song " should l stay or should l go "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If truly in two minds let chance decide heads you stay tails you go but this choice was given to you and you alone to decide your fate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We sick of being let down all the time ppl arrange to meet and then cancel on us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your hearts.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Just hide for a while and come back when ready.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"If truly in two minds let chance decide heads you stay tails you go but this choice was given to you and you alone to decide your fate "

Or do this and see if you are disappointed with the result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We sick of being let down all the time ppl arrange to meet and then cancel on us "

Find better people to meet?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Neither.

Hide your profile and have a break.

Then in your own time you can decide if you want to come back or not.

So many people leave, delete their account, then come back and have to start all over again.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"Er if you wanna go, go??

If you wanna stay, stay?? "

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Should I stay or should I go now?

If I go there will be trouble

An' if I stay it will be double

So come on and let me know......

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By *randy LoveWoman
over a year ago

My bed.. But I'd sooner be in yours.


"We sick of being let down all the time ppl arrange to meet and then cancel on us

Find better people to meet? "

Or continue to meet all those you've met before..

Or stick to club meets only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you change your mind I’m the first in line.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Honey he's still free, take a chance on him......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you know how you feel, a bunch of strangers don't know.

Go with your gut instinct.

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"We sick of being let down all the time ppl arrange to meet and then cancel on us "

I totally understand that. Im the same. A run of deadend chats and phone calls. Then ghosted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I can't and won't attempt to change your minds. The decision to leave or remain is for you as a couple to make and is not for us to persuade you to take a certain course of action.

In my opinion seeking persuasion from random strangers to stay makes me think that your approach to Fab is all wrong.... I could ask you to persuade me otherwise OP but I won't

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I can't and won't attempt to change your minds. The decision to leave or remain is for you as a couple to make and is not for us to persuade you to take a certain course of action.

In my opinion seeking persuasion from random strangers to stay makes me think that your approach to Fab is all wrong.... I could ask you to persuade me otherwise OP but I won't

NBVN x"

Ya but it's people here that have left them down .

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I'm a serial leaver. I have left, deleted and come back numerous times since 2016.

Only you can answer what you should do.

If you enjoy the site then stay. If it annoys you or you find it pointless then most certainly you should leave.

But as the poster above stated the desire to stay here has to come from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We thinking about leaving

Can you chance our minds "

I have cake.

But fuck it, I’m not sharing.

Hope this helps

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

We were let down too many times too. It hurt. So we don't meet now. We are not swingers. I'm back here to chat with friends and to give myself blue balls from dreaming about the people I could meet on here

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"We thinking about leaving

Can you chance our minds "

Why leave and lose the 40+ meet verifications you've managed in the 9 months since you joined?

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We sick of being let down all the time ppl arrange to meet and then cancel on us "

So how will posts on a forum change that for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day only you can decide

Is it working for you - can you change things to make it work

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By *c_FingersMan
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"We thinking about leaving

Can you chance our minds "

Depends on why you want to leave?

Elaborate on that and I’ll give you my two Penney’s????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, you could just hide your profile for a while, have a little break. It would be a shame to lose all those lovely verifications you've got x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A different approach. Just use clubs for a while. Look for great people and the rest of life follows

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"Follow your hearts."

Agree with this

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

If you stay there will be trouble

If you go there will be double

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

Sometimes having a break for whatever reason is good, we are probably on our 4th profile now because for reasons outside of swinging we needed a break and it’s worked for us at the time, and when family things are sorted we return. Do what works for you x

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