FabSwingers.com forum: Group sex and watching

By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t find that uncomfortable

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By *ornyOAPMan
over a year ago

Fethiye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm uncomfortable even if someone is just next room listening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, they are just taking it all in and enjoying the moment

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "

No. I'm an exhibitionist so I quite like being watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not, we live someone watching xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

So, not in a sort of dynamic where they watch?

Not really, maybe they're just taking it and catching their breath for a minute. I've never had a moresome but I guess if Bob just stared at me as I was doing all kinds to Peter, I'd feel a bit uncomfortable. If he's just watching for a bit and getting his perv on, fair enough.

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By *Darkhorse69Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire/ South Yorkshire

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "

No it’s a turn on!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Isn't that part of it though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, not in a sort of dynamic where they watch?

That is so Bob.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No…once I’m in the zone, I couldn’t care less who’s watching…

I really enjoy sitting back at times and just watching the action. It’s part of the fun…joining in and watching and building up the excitement…

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm always too busy to notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all but emmm I do play up on it when I know someone watching

I will give it old big pornstar moans and such

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope

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By *uriousirish7Man
over a year ago

cork

I’ve no idea, I really must find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope "

Or the old about to splat so decided to splat somewhere on you like you wouldn’t notice had that one before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t find it uncomfortable. I like to catch their eye J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody will be along shortly to explain the dynamics and differences between a MFMFMF and MMMFFF and MMMMF and MMFMM and FFFFM and FFMFF and how they best work.

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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope "

Oh I meant someone who is involved, not a bystander

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "

Nah. Myself and the Mrs regularly sit back and watch each other have fun. Mind its because we are old and knackered and need to take a breather.

If its been agreed up front, we also use that opportunity to take photos.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope

Or the old about to splat so decided to splat somewhere on you like you wouldn’t notice had that one before "

A simple ‘may I’ would help

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope

Oh I meant someone who is involved, not a bystander

Oh that makes things easier. That’s not uncomfortable, we all need a rest now and then. Haha

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

Any time we were in a group setting we never noticed the people looking. For me it's definitely a focus thing. I'm not paying any attention to who is looking. And maybe I'm also showing off a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope

Or the old about to splat so decided to splat somewhere on you like you wouldn’t notice had that one before

A simple ‘may I’ would help"

Yes it definitely would help

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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?

Nah. Myself and the Mrs regularly sit back and watch each other have fun. Mind its because we are old and knackered and need to take a breather.

If its been agreed up front, we also use that opportunity to take photos."

I love watching partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you feel about it Lacey?

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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"How do you feel about it Lacey? "

Personally I enjoy watching, particularly watching my partners. I don't find it uncomfortable when someone who's involved takes a back seat to watch for a bit either. If anything I think if everyone involved enjoys that too then it removes the pressure for every person to be directly involved at every moment. I was just curious about how others felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you feel about it Lacey?

Yeah that’s exactly how I feel about it. I’ve done it to take more of a break really, we’re not machines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s natural to take a step back and admire the view for a short period of time. Our first meet he stood and just watched for a while and then joined back in and we enjoyed putting on a show.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It is fun , and horny to watch others having fun , especially your partner. Even better knowing you can join the fun when you’re ready/ recovered

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

There was a time during a foursome that myself and the other lady settled back to watch and we got talking and after a while we were told to shut up and help or leave the room.

It was a really good chat

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"How do you feel about it Lacey?

I think this sums it up perfectly. I actually love a bit of watching too, but it's got to be natural, hasn't it? Ebb and flow, rather than any one person feeling like they're detached - unless specifically wanting/agreed to be a voyeur!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Never been in that situation where someone in the room isn’t an active participant.

Not sure how I’d feel about it, if it is was more than just a quick breather. Always had in my mind, if you are in the room then you are joining in.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

" Always had in my mind, if you are in the room then you are joining in. "

In spirit if not in body

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?

Nah. Myself and the Mrs regularly sit back and watch each other have fun. Mind its because we are old and knackered and need to take a breather.

If its been agreed up front, we also use that opportunity to take photos.

I love watching partners

It really is good fun to watch them enjoy themselves and to be able to do that clearly, as opposed to while you are also participating.

I’m not against watching strangers have fun in a club but its not the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

Not at all! I find it incredibly erotic watching or being watched so it actually adds to the sexy vibe!

Cherry x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Not a voyeur. It's a participation sport

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Nah, not at all... it's a group activity, everyone has different moments.

Though that's from the experience of everyone knowing each other pretty well.

But then even if it was more of a stranger thing, I wouldn't be like "oi stop slacking Clive, we're on job-and-knock 'ere son"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, it's happened in a group session in a club. I'm quite an exhibitionist so really enjoy being watched.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, not at all... it's a group activity, everyone has different moments.

Though that's from the experience of everyone knowing each other pretty well.

But then even if it was more of a stranger thing, I wouldn't be like "oi stop slacking Clive, we're on job-and-knock 'ere son"

That is so Clive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried groups multiple times now each time resulted in me losing interest and putting my pants back on

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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Nah, not at all... it's a group activity, everyone has different moments.

Though that's from the experience of everyone knowing each other pretty well.

But then even if it was more of a stranger thing, I wouldn't be like "oi stop slacking Clive, we're on job-and-knock 'ere son"

Clive never pulls his weight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a voyeur. It's a participation sport

Tell that to cuck making my sandwiches

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Not a voyeur. It's a participation sport

Tell that to cuck making my sandwiches "

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By *Bacchus.Man
over a year ago

Torquay

I'm an exhibitionist sexually, other than that I don't like to be the focus of attention

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do

Be tied up waiting your turn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a voyeur. It's a participation sport

Tell that to cuck making my sandwiches "

I hope he's not using Busman's butter. You'll be in for a wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do

Join in alongside the man and pleasure her too?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do

Join in alongside the man and pleasure her too? "

Ruby, I'd be joining in with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do

Don’t neglect the balls and maybe stick a finger between the buns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do

Be tied up waiting your turn?"

Oh now you are talking.. Ding, back in the room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t neglect the balls and maybe stick a finger between the buns"

Good sandwich advice

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do

Don’t neglect the balls and maybe stick a finger between the buns"

Steady, you'll be shooting like a fountain fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do

Don’t neglect the balls and maybe stick a finger between the buns

Steady, you'll be shooting like a fountain fella"

Dropping nuts like coconut tree to be precise

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Nope, I like it! It's not usually me though

Mrs TMN x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No, as long as they are still interested, suportive and enjoying what's going on. It's a very different when someone is clearly bored or not happy with what their parnter is doing/having do to them.

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By *ablo_1Man
over a year ago

colne

Yeah suppose

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Sometimes it can get very hot and steamy so sitting back and having a breather and just watching the fun for a bit isn’t really a issue ..

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope

Oh I meant someone who is involved, not a bystander

It depends on whether they look like they are enjoying or not, if they aren’t then maybe just check in on them discreetly

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"No, as long as they are still interested, suportive and enjoying what's going on. It's a very different when someone is clearly bored or not happy with what their parnter is doing/having do to them. "

Surely if this occurs then they need to review their personal rules, it’s not for everyone and maybe it’s not for them . No one should endure watching what their partner is doing ( unless that’s what they’re into )

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Rest does u good ready to go again for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of the couples I've met, the husband just likes to watch anyway, so no, doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

You get some people who go just to watch. I'd rather take part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "

I don’t know, I must not have. I’m fine with someone taking a breather, did we wear them out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if playing and watching fine if just watching then they are told to go away im not a show for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, not in a sort of dynamic where they watch?

"Doing all kinds" to me is great! However, i dont know any one called Bob who can watch

P xx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No that's one of the good things, people can take a little break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind a several people watching in a club open play room setting. It’s when someone has to be told no on several occasions that bugs me as it ends spoiling everyone’s fun.

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By *ubandsubCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Littlemisssub loves being watched, personally, id rather be right in the thick of the action, but sometimes its great to step back and watch her having fun.

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

"Isn't that part of it though?"

It is for me. Love showing off, and you can’t beat watching people who know you’re turned on by them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't care are mind as I'm to busy to notice others watching are getting involved xx

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually too busy to care plus often am audience at parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one bit.

It’s only natural for those involved to wanna watch this magnificent pagan beast in full primal mode.

In all seriousness though… I do enjoy watching at the odd interval myself, it’s all part of the overall experience and gives us horny conversations that go on for weeks afterwards

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "

Would love to watch you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t find it uncomfortable at all; we love an element of exhibitionism / voyeurism. Sometimes L will ask me to sit out and watch for a bit while she performs and then call me back - drives me wild. Almost as much as when she takes a time out and watches - mmmmm

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

" magnificent pagan beast in full primal mode.

What a brilliant sentence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "

Isn't there times for everyone to just have to watch , isn't watching at some stage all part of it ?

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Not in the slightest because I’m usually the one stopping and watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, sometimes I like to watch and others enjoy being watched.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "

Only if it's a news reporter

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

It's fun to just watch them have a little one on one time, especially as they are just getting started, I enjoy the sensation of jealousy watching her cunt penetrated the first time, but then can't resist joining in to add to her pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i think this is the key point

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?

Only if it's a news reporter

Or Louis Theroux

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"No, as long as they are still interested, suportive and enjoying what's going on. It's a very different when someone is clearly bored or not happy with what their parnter is doing/having do to them.

Oh i think this is the key point"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?

Only if it's a news reporter

Nothing we haven’t seen on channel 4 after dark

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?

Only if it's a news reporter

Or Louis Theroux"

Not sure us lot are classed as weird enough for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it can get very hot and steamy so sitting back and having a breather and just watching the fun for a bit isn’t really a issue .."

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

No. In fact, during our last five-some we don’t recall being overly aware of the audience we’d obtained. We were too busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sometimes you just need to take a breath and enjoy the moment so why not sit back and enjoy the moment.

As long as they don't have a cuppa and a biscuit (Jaffa cakes) . X

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Not at all, they are just taking it all in and enjoying the moment

Quite literally

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

It helps getting your cock hard again.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It's when they pull out the kit kat and the flask of tea that's the worry.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

As long as theirs no loud conversations taking place which can be a total turn off.Then theirs nothing wrong with sitting back and taking it all in .

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I used to love just sitting back and watching my ex get gangbanged.

I would hope she is enjoying herself far too much to even notice or care who is watching.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

For me it was never the watchers I minded, rather the annoying furious locker key rattling that couldn't stand, put it on your other wrist guys!

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Been watched few times by groups of guys just watching and wanking not joining in with us . Massive turn on for us both having them egging us on to perform xx

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