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First date/ social dress sense

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By *uperS77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

So with this amazing weather and going into the summer, what do the ladies or guys like to see a man wear for a first encounter? Shorts shirt but what would u find acceptable or abhorrent as footwear etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socks, sandals, 3/4 khaki trousers, fishing vest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring flats ladies. Sometimes I just want to dance

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would find almost any clean footwear acceptable except crocs.

I'm not a huge fan of trainers with a suit a la Nigel Havers on Bidding Room though.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Socks, sandals, 3/4 khaki trousers, fishing vest.

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If you wear that Jonny you've pulled

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

My first pof meet had socks and sandals lovely man we still chat but my eyes kept being drawn to them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socks, sandals, 3/4 khaki trousers, fishing vest.

"

This sounds like a horror story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socks, sandals, 3/4 khaki trousers, fishing vest.

If you wear that Jonny you've pulled "

100%, never in doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socks, sandals, 3/4 khaki trousers, fishing vest.

This sounds like a horror story "

Rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect a guy to put the same amount of effort in as I do.

Zero.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Not shorts. Quite sure it’s not that hot.

Smart shoes a definite yes. Says a lot about a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socks, sandals, 3/4 khaki trousers, fishing vest.

This sounds like a horror story "

Is it because he forgot the bucket hat?

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

if you wear shorts, don't wear sandals and socks, please. You will just look stupid, whoever you are.

Just dont.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Always a dress with heels. Sometimes a sundress and sometimes a figure hugging, knee length dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not shorts. Quite sure it’s not that hot.

Smart shoes a definite yes. Says a lot about a person. "

Bluetooth shoes on sale now? Damn keep up with technology is difficult

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Anything as long as it's not sports wear, that's such low effort.

Smart/denim shorts with a polo/tshirt are always good.

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By *uperS77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Anything as long as it's not sports wear, that's such low effort.

Smart/denim shorts with a polo/tshirt are always good."

But what about shoes?

And commando or respectful

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Anything as long as it's not sports wear, that's such low effort.

Smart/denim shorts with a polo/tshirt are always good."

I love a mam in sportswear and would be quite happy if he turned up in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress in a way that reflects you and makes you feel comfortable. Don't worry about ladies expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything as long as it's not sports wear, that's such low effort.

Smart/denim shorts with a polo/tshirt are always good."

Wait until I move my tracksuit pictures out of friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rock up in a mankini every time.

Winner winner

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Bring flats ladies. Sometimes I just want to dance "

I can dance in my heels. You’ve seen me

Kx

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

It doesn't matter what you wear if I like you it's coming off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear what im wearing like it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever the man feels comfortable in

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Whatever the man feels comfortable in

"

My Girl did not like what I was wearing on our first fab meet. But I was Myself and comfortable in my own skin. By then end of the meet we'd had a great time and left together hand in hand. The rest now is all history. I agree wear what feels like you.

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