FabSwingers.com forum: What turns you off

By *rivervader OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

Looking at my profile what stops you from wanting to meet?

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

You’re married and she doesn’t know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do this to yourself?

Why not focus on what positives you bring to the party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren’t here to meet regardless but I would say that the fact you are married and playing away would put people off.

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton

You won't meet single men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do this to yourself?

Why not focus on what positives you bring to the party?"

Mini sausage rolls

Crisps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I start??

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Try a picture with a smile

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Why do this to yourself?

Why not focus on what positives you bring to the party?"

I would agree here

What can you offer meets op,sell yourself ,maybe some more pics on your profile.

There are men on the forum in your situation who do well here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) You’re married and she doesn’t know you’re on here.

2) You feel sorry for yourself a lot of the time.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"You’re married and she doesn’t know "

LvM

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Nothing in the profile that conclusively sells you enough to me. Just 1 pic limits opportunities.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You have 1 bland pic

You are deceiving your wife

Your profile doesn't really stand out x

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

You’re married & regularly subject yourself to negative comments about it. You look grumpy in the one photo you have; I’m sure you can make yourself look more approachable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self pity act

Grumpy

Poor photo

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By *rivervader OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

Thanx for the feed back your right I am married and my pics need updating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully this thread has given you the confidence and lift you hoped it would..

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"Looking at my profile what stops you from wanting to meet?"

Picture isn't good enough quality to know if I'd want to meet you and your profile wording isn't the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at my profile what stops you from wanting to meet?"

Too far away

Can't accommodate

Married and she doesn't know

Negative/downer vibe from the information you've put about yourself.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Aside from the negativity in your prose and the lack of reason for cheating...no man should describe themselves as "Curvy".

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By *rivervader OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

"Looking at my profile what stops you from wanting to meet?

Picture isn't good enough quality to know if I'd want to meet you and your profile wording isn't the best

I’m much better in person as you can see I’m not much of a writer if you can give me pointers or wright it for me lol

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"Looking at my profile what stops you from wanting to meet?

Picture isn't good enough quality to know if I'd want to meet you and your profile wording isn't the best

I’m much better in person as you can see I’m not much of a writer if you can give me pointers or wright it for me lol "

Nah mate that's not how it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that involves a hi vis, needs to be approached with caution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) You’re married and she doesn’t know you’re on here.

2) You feel sorry for yourself a lot of the time. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aside from the negativity in your prose and the lack of reason for cheating...no man should describe themselves as "Curvy".

Oh… back to the drawing board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at my profile what stops you from wanting to meet?

Picture isn't good enough quality to know if I'd want to meet you and your profile wording isn't the best

I’m much better in person as you can see I’m not much of a writer if you can give me pointers or wright it for me lol "

Here’s a top tip.

Go and seek out mens profiles, find the guys who are meeting lots of people. Discover what it is about their profiles that yours may lack.

We don’t know you, so there’s no point in hand holding you through writing a profile.

If you can’t work out that for yourself, you may as well stop now.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I appreciate you being honest. So many married men keep it secret.

The ‘I don’t bite’ comment always makes me roll my eyes. I must see it several times a day on various profiles

And like others have said, be positive , and a couple of good pics would help x

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"...no man should describe themselves as "Curvy".

I'm glad it's not just me - this is one of my bug bears too!

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

If this goes well for the OP I might do my own thread like this.

Good luck sir

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Looking at my profile what stops you from wanting to meet?"

Ok you asked:

You’re married

You’re playing away

Your only pic is singularly uninspiring.

I think of ‘curvy’ as a body type for voluptuous or shapely women - not men who are perhaps a tad overweight (though I do believe the body types on offer are a little limited).

I haven’t read many of your posts but the ones I’ve noticed seem to be a tad negative.

I doubt I’d be attracted to you either physically or mentally.

Having said all that - I’m a ridiculously fussy fecker and because of that get very little action - so I very much doubt I’d be your target audience anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t you go to the Manchester social last week OP? Did you make any connections there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re very negative on the forums and your wife.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Anything that involves a hi vis, needs to be approached with caution.

Safety first though, right?!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Anything that involves a hi vis, needs to be approached with caution.

Safety first though, right?!

Safety first, fun last !!

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

You’re on a sex site why won’t you f*ck me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at my profile what stops you from wanting to meet?"

I don’t look at many women’s profiles pal, I’m not going to look at yours.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

You come over as a glass half full type of guy even your photo shows absolutely no effort.

Sorry, you did ask.

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By *rivervader OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

Thankyou all for your comments

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