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"Just gonna park myself here for a bit" I do that, but mainly because I wear myself out just standing still. | |||
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"Just gonna park myself here for a bit I do that, but mainly because I wear myself out just standing still." It’s easily done. Should probably have a Mars bar for energy | |||
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"I love a larger man on me x " Same! The bigger the better! | |||
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"Love big guys. xx" We are amazing at giving hugs. | |||
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me? I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. " Not really, we're Stood behind the skinny guys. | |||
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"Wish there was a search feature for cuddly guys " Just start a thread - there's loads of us. | |||
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me? I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. " --You have 18-99, surely they are not that hard to find? You are gorgeous too. In general, the older men get the larger they become lol, so maybe make sure your Searches are for older? You certainly need to be on Fabguys as well for sure. For me it's about larger doms into younger cds (ie younger than them).-- | |||
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"I have done, in the past (John Candy/John Goodman when in Roseanne size ish). " That is some decent size gentlemen right there | |||
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"I love a larger guy as much as I love a smaller guy. It's who they are inside and how they are with me that matters more. " All in the eye and mind of the beholder as it were. No matter what size, if no spark or connection then will never matter either way | |||
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me? I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. " Come and get me | |||
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"I love a larger/stocky guy, they make you feel safe & give amazing hugs... " | |||
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"I have done, in the past (John Candy/John Goodman when in Roseanne size ish). That is some decent size gentlemen right there" Yep. If I fancy a bloke I fancy him, regardless of his size. It’s all about the sexual chemistry! | |||
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"I’m a larger guy - and always good to see some appreciation. I think some of us big guys do just fine on Fab, but it’s hard to get verified because we’re a guilty pleasure in many cases " Sorry but I’ll respectfully disagree on the guilty pleasure bit. It boils down to simple attraction. Either a woman will fancy you or she won’t. I don’t think that focusing on size as a reason for lack of success is valid. | |||
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"I love a larger/stocky guy, they make you feel safe & give amazing hugs... " | |||
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"I love a larger/stocky guy, they make you feel safe & give amazing hugs... " We certainly do give great bear hugs... Haha don't be shy, give it a try lol. | |||
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"Wish there was a search feature for cuddly guys Just start a thread - there's loads of us. " My thoughts exactly | |||
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"Wish there was a search feature for cuddly guys Just start a thread - there's loads of us. " Yup, we're everywhere | |||
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"I love a larger guy as much as I love a smaller guy. It's who they are inside and how they are with me that matters more. All in the eye and mind of the beholder as it were. No matter what size, if no spark or connection then will never matter either way" Exactly | |||
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"I love a larger/stocky guy, they make you feel safe & give amazing hugs... " That is one thing I am amazing at (amongst a few other things). | |||
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"See I have to disagree abit there. I've had some good experiences on fab, but god I've also had some terrible terrible insults. Some I wouldn't even repeat. I think big blokes like us are an acquired taste. But bloody hell I don't now who's taste I am, because I never seem to get many messages. " I believe it is the same for all of us single male. Don't matter on your size we don't get many messages at all. And this world is full of rude people. I have come across so many some just like to put you down for the fun of it and will message you such horrible things and block you straight away so you can't reply. | |||
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me? I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. " Are they? Aren’t like 50% of adults overweight or obese | |||
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"I've never felt my build and weight to be a barrier on the scene either when I was active as a single male or as part of a couple. Granted physical attraction is subject and is a factor. However I think its a factor often over obsessed about by many. In my/our experience who we've been attracted to and/or slept with has tended to have an element regards physical attraction but been far more about personal and character elements. We've had great times with people who maybe we didn't necessarily see our selves with based on build and looks and I think for some of them it would have been the same in return. But when you like someone and that spark is their physical proportions become less relevant. I think that's why we prefer to do our swinging in the real world (clubs/parties/socials) rather than the online world. Online seems far more superficial. Anyway back on the to the fetishism of larger men. For some (I'd say far more than society openly accepts) us gents of a bigger build are very much in demand. I know Mrs Misfit likes me all big, she loves it. However for me it's back to the gym and training. I've been a bit too decadent for too long with my love of the good stuff in life. And even Mrs Misfit has identified that my mental health and happiness is better when I'm training. Luckily for Mrs Misfit I have never been skinny (even at my most active) and never will be. I will still be big and soft in the right places. Just maybe a little less and a bit more muscle again hopefully. I happy being large build, I don't mind a belly and Im comfortable in my own skin. But my health is important and I enjoy being active so there needs to be some compromise." You sound a lovely and attractive man! | |||
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"Quite an interesting read. People are attracted to all sorts of things, so of course some women will prefer larger guys. I (as an overweight guy) think that the main thing is you have to be happy in your own skin first. For a long time I haven't been, but I'm getting there and I think that's the most important thing. I'm never going to be slim or "in shape", and I'm happy with that, but I need to feel comfortable in my body in order to feel confident." And you do sound like a great attractive guy as well | |||
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"And you do sound like a great attractive guy as well " That made my day | |||
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"Love the larger build man properly because I'm fat myself hence why I married one " Lol I'm big boned | |||
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"Probably get more luck than us who are in good shape " The weight and size isn’t the reason. I’m guessing that folk see a lot more than one metric when choosing someone. | |||
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"Probably get more luck than us who are in good shape " Yes got to agree with you there . . . . . . | |||
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"?? I don't think the women of the north east like the bigger guys " Or maybe they don’t like people that look like emojis. | |||
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"i like guys of all sizes as long as im sexually attracted but being a woman of 5ft size 6/8 petite ish build it gets to a point of guys and ladys being to big for me that its no longer a pleasure .. i know some will say oh but theres different positions but i like a session to be all no restriction full access for both so some people will simply be too big body wise for me ..." How big is too big… asking for a friend | |||
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me? I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. " Im here | |||
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"Always being skinny ive akways liked overweight guys, i think its the size difference, like they can smother me " And so close too. | |||
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"Larger is subjective do you mean muscular, dad bod, morbidly obese? Definitely don't find diabetes, heart disease, and lack of mobility a attractive trait to have " The clue is in the title of the post. Also not all bigger blokes/people suffer from any of those. As the old saying goes, if you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say nothing at all. | |||
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"Does anyone else absolutely love larger guys? I feel like it can't only be me? I've always gone for big guys but the trouble is there always hard to find. " Why do you like them is it because no matter what size the dick they can only get as far as the belly allows ? | |||
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"Larger is subjective do you mean muscular, dad bod, morbidly obese? Definitely don't find diabetes, heart disease, and lack of mobility a attractive trait to have The clue is in the title of the post. Also not all bigger blokes/people suffer from any of those. As the old saying goes, if you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say nothing at all." Hardly nasty stating a preference. And just because you don't have any of the associated health problems does not mean you won't in the future. No need to be defensive | |||
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"Big, tall and muscular - YES. Very overweight or big belly - no. I like a big rugged strongman type." I'll get me coat | |||
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"Yes OP, you are not alone " Oh, hellllooooooo | |||
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