FabSwingers.com forum: Rude or justified

By *olden Pole OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

Hi Fabboids

So I had a meet arranged for tonight (potentially) until she asked I pay £50 travel expenses.

I’m not tight, will accommodate and lay on with drinks and food or if a hotel meet I pay the cost.

I was really turned off being asked to cover travel expenses and declined the meet, so I thought I’d get all y’all views and opinions on this?

It just goes against my swing / casual sex etiquette.

Mr J

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

You did right fella

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Who is she the queen?

I would have passed as well, there's cheeky and then there's taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have sorted travel or costs for meets out in the past especially with those who really couldn't afford the costs but always been once met not before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who is she the queen? - piscean dream "

Love this quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally cheeky. you did the right thing to bin

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Who is she the queen? - piscean dream

Love this quote "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self entitlement at it's finest. Plenty more pussy in the sea.. just keep swimming swimming swim.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

You shouldn't be paying someone else's travel costs thats for them to pay same as yourself to get there.

Food,drinks,hotel is fair enough to split costs if required.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Bonkers… that’s a good swerve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for cash to meet. There is a name for that....

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By *olden Pole OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

Thanks for the speedy replies so far fab gang.

I was actually thinking I’d made a buffoon of myself but seems you all agree it was a bit much.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Thanks for the speedy replies so far fab gang.

I was actually thinking I’d made a buffoon of myself but seems you all agree it was a bit much."

Nah, you made the best decision. That's just ludicrous to ask for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a regular friend or first time ride?

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Thanks for the speedy replies so far fab gang.

I was actually thinking I’d made a buffoon of myself but seems you all agree it was a bit much."

Definitely not. Strong agree here - well dodged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabboids

So I had a meet arranged for tonight (potentially) until she asked I pay £50 travel expenses.

I’m not tight, will accommodate and lay on with drinks and food or if a hotel meet I pay the cost.

I was really turned off being asked to cover travel expenses and declined the meet, so I thought I’d get all y’all views and opinions on this?

It just goes against my swing / casual sex etiquette.

Mr J"

Report the profile. Prostitution is against site rules.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

I've a hunch that's the last you'd see of both her and your £50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah this has actually spun me. You did the right thing pal

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Thanks for the speedy replies so far fab gang.

I was actually thinking I’d made a buffoon of myself but seems you all agree it was a bit much."

Not at all. Anyone who has the audacity to think someone on here should meet their expenses just for the pleasure of their company are definitely not in the right mindset...inflated ego comes to mind.

I bet she's a right princess!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not gonna jump to a hot take yet is she a regular friend or first timer?

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By *olden Pole OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Hi Fabboids

So I had a meet arranged for tonight (potentially) until she asked I pay £50 travel expenses.

I’m not tight, will accommodate and lay on with drinks and food or if a hotel meet I pay the cost.

I was really turned off being asked to cover travel expenses and declined the meet, so I thought I’d get all y’all views and opinions on this?

It just goes against my swing / casual sex etiquette.

Mr J

Report the profile. Prostitution is against site rules."

I never thought of it like that but yeah she could be work the angle there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s idea was it to have the meet? Was a significant amount of effort put into convincing her to attend? What distance was she travelling and was it her own transport or public transport?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Please report any profile asking for or offering money.

Thanks.

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