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So many late sign inns . Hows a man to sort a meet out when working away lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Working away all over country all the time seems to be hard to sort any meets out .

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Could you provide a list of where you will be, so potential meets know in advance ?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Use the meet now on the menu, the tools are there to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the meet now on the menu, the tools are there to help."

Yip or as I call it the insta shag flag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only get work diary on Fridays to know where I'm going each week. But now and again get jobs few weeks in same place. Like now I'm in kendal for 3 weeks. Greatyarmouth 2 weeks after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to get plenty of hotel fun when working like that just use the meet now and the who is local search

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everywhere I go I try that. But always comes up mostly 0 results lol.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Have you thought about what your profile has to offer that others don't?...

LvM

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

To be fair, Kendal isn't exactly the rocking centre of the universe... I can recommend some good lunchtime music recitals and Saturday coffee mornings?

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

To be fair I kinda have this issue as well. Only difference is I could be anywhere on may given day. Might give the "meet now" a try. I tend to set myself local to where I am too see if that sparks any interest.

Fingers crossed for us all I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep I've realised kendal is a bit secluded lol. But stuck here for now with work lol.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Yep I've realised kendal is a bit secluded lol. But stuck here for now with work lol."

Like I said - lunchtime music recitals, coffee mornings and perhaps a meeting of the WI - I can definitely recommend some options

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might find a nice church to visit lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Lol’

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You have no profile pic…

Maybe use the time to do more pics and increase your profile wording.

Help yourself as your profile is your shop window.

There must be a lot of visitors in Kendall.

K

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Might find a nice church to visit lol. "

Plenty of those! The parish church is lovely. Abbott Hall is nice if you like art

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol im sure ill pay a visit for confession ha ha

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Lol im sure ill pay a visit for confession ha ha "

Oh. It's not a Catholic church

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Unf op I don’t think women want to meet men travelling around the country.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Assuming that it's tough for single men everywhere, including those who never leave their home town.

Some may want to meet travellers where there's limited potential for seeing them again. Many others will want to get to know people before meeting, when meeting it'll be a social before there's any hint of physical engagement.

For a travelling rep etc, that may mean that he'll have run out of time, before he's back on the road again.

Most people are not compatible with most other people. So you have to engage with lots, before they're narrowed down to the few who could be right for each other..

Meanwhile, the local guys are also messaging the local women too and there won't be the same pressure to get a meet sealed before a fellas checked out of his digs.

I'm curious OP. How well do you do with getting meets in your home area? Really successful? If you are or are not, have you considered why this may be?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Assuming that it's tough for single men everywhere, including those who never leave their home town.

Some may want to meet travellers where there's limited potential for seeing them again. Many others will want to get to know people before meeting, when meeting it'll be a social before there's any hint of physical engagement.

For a travelling rep etc, that may mean that he'll have run out of time, before he's back on the road again.

Most people are not compatible with most other people. So you have to engage with lots, before they're narrowed down to the few who could be right for each other..

Meanwhile, the local guys are also messaging the local women too and there won't be the same pressure to get a meet sealed before a fellas checked out of his digs.

I'm curious OP. How well do you do with getting meets in your home area? Really successful? If you are or are not, have you considered why this may be? "

I dont bother looking for anything at home to be honest seeing as I'm only back home 2 days at most each week.

I totally agree with social meets first to actually see if the attraction is there fully.

And yep I agree with the traveling man thing aswell. I always say upfront how long I'm in the area for working, best to be straight from the off I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unf op I don’t think women want to meet men travelling around the country. "

I totally understand that way of thinking.

I was in Inverness for 3 nights a month or so back and had a social 2nd night that went to fun full night.

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