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Are you an ideas person or a doer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You can only be one. Which one are you?

Please explain your answer. Mini eggs for my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[ideas Removed by poster at 13/04/22 13:03:11]"

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Most definitely a doer. I just cant seem to do the big ideas. But the world needs both, so im all good with it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a doer (I'm both actually but as per the OP I'll pick one). Everyone likes starting fires but it takes effort to maintain them when firestarters have lost enthusiasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[ideas Removed by poster at 13/04/22 13:03:11]"

Very prescient of you.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

What about you OP? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a doer (I'm both actually but as per the OP I'll pick one). Everyone likes starting fires but it takes effort to maintain them when firestarters have lost enthusiasm."

I on the other hand am a firestarter.

Twisted firestarter

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Disagree. Both go hand in hand.

Acting on ideas that make positive change is such a fantastic quality for all walks of life.

The sticking point comes when great ideas are put forward but “computer says no” comes into play.

And by computer I mean those in charge.

And in my line of work those in charge are in charge through privilege and background, and not necessarily a suitableness for the job.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[ideas Removed by poster at 13/04/22 13:03:11]

Very prescient of you."

Does that make me all about the ideas or the doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lots of creative ideas. Putting them into practice is often when I fail as I talk myself out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the worlds least creative person my ideas are usually either pretty random or pretty shite, so I’m going to have to say doer (when I’m not procrastinating of course)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im neither anymore i used to be a doer and impulsive but i find the inspiration to do things isnt strong anymore

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ideas. As to reason, just am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither."

Fuck all the way off. You are both and you know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

neither.

im an introvert with extreme anxiety and crippling depression. With added imposter syndrome who overthinks and catastrophises every single thing.

instead i stay indoors, make kinder bueno milkshakes, and watch F1 Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doer

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not sure I like the whole one or the other premise. I work best as a subordinate, but a good team collates ideas from across said team.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I'm the doer! I own the tool box and tools. Can lay laminate flooring, change taps, decorate etc!

Mrs NC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I am very creative I write a lot of plans and lists out for things I do (especially photo ideas) and I eventually do them when it all feels right

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Neither.

Fuck all the way off. You are both and you know it. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most definitely a doer. I just cant seem to do the big ideas. But the world needs both, so im all good with it. X"

We need people like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a doer (I'm both actually but as per the OP I'll pick one). Everyone likes starting fires but it takes effort to maintain them when firestarters have lost enthusiasm."

So true. I salute you for being both esp for being a doer

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Both. I come up with an idea and try it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[ideas Removed by poster at 13/04/22 13:03:11]

Very prescient of you.

Does that make me all about the ideas or the doing?"

You’re a doer. You do me all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure I like the whole one or the other premise. I work best as a subordinate, but a good team collates ideas from across said team. "

I know I’m awful for the choose one thing. But I’m going to hell anyway so might as well have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a doer (I'm both actually but as per the OP I'll pick one). Everyone likes starting fires but it takes effort to maintain them when firestarters have lost enthusiasm.

I on the other hand am a firestarter.

Twisted firestarter"

You can twist my

Wait you’re the ideas person, you tell me what you can do with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"neither.

im an introvert with extreme anxiety and crippling depression. With added imposter syndrome who overthinks and catastrophises every single thing.

instead i stay indoors, make kinder bueno milkshakes, and watch F1 Px "

Oh shit this is me. Right down to the F1 wow

Explains why I’m drawn to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooh I am very creative I write a lot of plans and lists out for things I do (especially photo ideas) and I eventually do them when it all feels right "
wow get you! I love that

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Both but will choose doer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

Other people are dumb and if you want anything done properly then do it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have lots of creative ideas. Putting them into practice is often when I fail as I talk myself out of it. "

You write it down for us and we’ll make it happen for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As the worlds least creative person my ideas are usually either pretty random or pretty shite, so I’m going to have to say doer (when I’m not procrastinating of course) "
you can do me if you like. Sorry that was off topic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ideas. As to reason, just am! "

I love ideas people. Makes sense why I like you

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I just want the mini eggs! Im worried that they seem to have been forgotten about! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm the doer! I own the tool box and tools. Can lay laminate flooring, change taps, decorate etc!

Mrs NC "

Oh hello! I have a tap that needs fixing (seriously)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Neither.

Fuck all the way off. You are both and you know it. "

This X100000

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both. I come up with an idea and try it x"

I have some ideas for yo- nvm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both but will choose doer x"

I knew I liked you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Both. I come up with an idea and try it x

I have some ideas for yo- nvm "

Do tell me more x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both.

Other people are dumb and if you want anything done properly then do it yourself."

it’s funny because it’s so true

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Hmm more a doer

Last year built a bbq hut & outdoor garden patio with decking and all with brother. All DIY with no instructions & it came out perfect. These hands ain't just good at fingering only haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just want the mini eggs! Im worried that they seem to have been forgotten about! X"

Oh yeah. Can I do that everyone’s a winner thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both. I come up with an idea and try it x

I have some ideas for yo- nvm

Do tell me more x"

Sparkle, everyone’s watching!

Actually that sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmm more a doer

Last year built a bbq hut & outdoor garden patio with decking and all with brother. All DIY with no instructions & it came out perfect. These hands ain't just good at fingering only haha "

This is very impressive. They might be good for more than fingering but are they good enough to beat me at fifa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always full of good ideas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m always full of good ideas "

Tell us please. There’s lots of doers in the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about you OP? X"

I’m an ideas person. Got lots of ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[ideas Removed by poster at 13/04/22 13:03:11]

Very prescient of you.

Does that make me all about the ideas or the doing?

You’re a doer. You do me all the time "

Good point baby

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London


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Oh yeah. Can I do that everyone’s a winner thing? "

But you told me i was your favorite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[ideas Removed by poster at 13/04/22 13:03:11]

Very prescient of you.

Does that make me all about the ideas or the doing?

You’re a doer. You do me all the time

Good point baby "

I like it when you call me that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Oh yeah. Can I do that everyone’s a winner thing?

But you told me i was your favorite! "

You are. You’re getting more than mini eggs out of me

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I'm the doer! I own the tool box and tools. Can lay laminate flooring, change taps, decorate etc!

Mrs NC

Oh hello! I have a tap that needs fixing (seriously) "

Bit far for me to come!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

More of a doer

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"Hmm more a doer

Last year built a bbq hut & outdoor garden patio with decking and all with brother. All DIY with no instructions & it came out perfect. These hands ain't just good at fingering only haha

This is very impressive. They might be good for more than fingering but are they good enough to beat me at fifa? "

Haha naa you would win!! I can barely hold the controller correctly yet alone play fifa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have so many ideas!! But i do bring them home too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[ideas Removed by poster at 13/04/22 13:03:11]

Very prescient of you.

Does that make me all about the ideas or the doing?"

I thought you'd seen my deleted post which said "both" the I read the OP properly and went for doer. Thus deleting the ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a doer (I'm both actually but as per the OP I'll pick one). Everyone likes starting fires but it takes effort to maintain them when firestarters have lost enthusiasm.

I on the other hand am a firestarter.

Twisted firestarter"

You light 'em, I'll keep 'em going when you get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither.

Fuck all the way off. You are both and you know it. "

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have ideas then I might plan around them and if I think they'll work I'll do them

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Ideas. But I keep them to myself because I'm convinced they're ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideas. But I keep them to myself because I'm convinced they're ridiculous."

They're the best kind

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Ideas. But I keep them to myself because I'm convinced they're ridiculous.

They're the best kind "

I'm still not sharing

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm a good doer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a good doer "

Do me then please.

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