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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay

I restarted my profile after splitting with vanilla ex, and have messaged a fair few local women and couples over the past four weeks, always send a polite message and face pic, so it's undeniably me

when I check to see if any are read, a curious amount have blocked me, I know part of this might be lack of my appeal, but I'm absolutely certain I've been recognised, and they've panicked.

It makes me giggle and wonder who they might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or… you’re just not their type so they’ve blocked you so you don’t inundate them with messages.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Or… you’re just not their type so they’ve blocked you so you don’t inundate them with messages. "

More likely this, just chalk it as experience and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or… you’re just not their type so they’ve blocked you so you don’t inundate them with messages. "

This

If they fancied you, they’d message back regardless of recognising you

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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay


"Or… you’re just not their type so they’ve blocked you so you don’t inundate them with messages. "

Yes I stated that also

Because I knew it'd be the first response on the thread

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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay

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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay

Seriously?

Everyone freely admits to the lifestyle and wouldn't try to keep it a secret?

I'm not so arrogant to assume I appeal to everyone but there must be a portion who are afraid of being found out, especially very local ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously?

Everyone freely admits to the lifestyle and wouldn't try to keep it a secret?

I'm not so arrogant to assume I appeal to everyone but there must be a portion who are afraid of being found out, especially very local ones"

I agree with this

From a personal level I wouldn’t block someone that had sent one message , but I don’t have anything to hide so maybe they are married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously?

Everyone freely admits to the lifestyle and wouldn't try to keep it a secret?

I'm not so arrogant to assume I appeal to everyone but there must be a portion who are afraid of being found out, especially very local ones"

Some don’t meet local - Some do

You could have probably worked it out if you saw their verifications and seen they met local people or not…

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Seriously?

Everyone freely admits to the lifestyle and wouldn't try to keep it a secret?

I'm not so arrogant to assume I appeal to everyone but there must be a portion who are afraid of being found out, especially very local ones

Some don’t meet local - Some do

You could have probably worked it out if you saw their verifications and seen they met local people or not…"

This, I just generally tend not to meet people that are too local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I restarted my profile after splitting with vanilla ex, and have messaged a fair few local women and couples over the past four weeks, always send a polite message and face pic, so it's undeniably me

when I check to see if any are read, a curious amount have blocked me, I know part of this might be lack of my appeal, but I'm absolutely certain I've been recognised, and they've panicked.

It makes me giggle and wonder who they might be.

"

We tend to block very local people, not necessarily because we recognise them just we don't play on our doorstep.

Mrs

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