FabSwingers.com forum: Where’s your best social location?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have a ‘goto’ when you meet for a social to see if you want to get sexy with someone?

A coffee shop? Pub? A public park with lots of witnesses?

Do you go as far away from your local town or stay close to your home? Do you meet up at your place?

For a guy who needs to get out more, I need the lowdown on what’s popular and what’s a no-no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Graveyard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Costa

Coffee

Cake

No fingering

Then if you like them onto a bar, if not I'll call at Tesco on the way home and buy wine.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

From fab 9/10 will be in a Costa, Forumites are generally met at organised social events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Costa

Coffee

Cake

No fingering

Then if you like them onto a bar, if not I'll call at Tesco on the way home and buy wine. "

Goddammit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Costa

Coffee

Cake

No fingering

Then if you like them onto a bar, if not I'll call at Tesco on the way home and buy wine.

Goddammit. "

You don't want cake??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Costa

Coffee

Cake

No fingering

Then if you like them onto a bar, if not I'll call at Tesco on the way home and buy wine.

Goddammit.

You don't want cake??"

I’d like it.

We both know you’re eating mine too though.

Wait, I also don’t want to get fingered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From fab 9/10 will be in a Costa, Forumites are generally met at organised social events"

I thought forumites just met on the forum

Costa is always good. Even alone

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Obviously a pub … so I can get on the wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously a pub … so I can get on the wine

Sshhhh tipsy isn’t sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greggs is better than Costa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Greggs is better than Costa "
true story

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Obviously a pub … so I can get on the wine

At noon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Greggs is better than Costa "

If you’re buying a pasty then yes.

Just like Halfords is better than McDonald’s if I’m buying a bike.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"Obviously a pub … so I can get on the wine

Sshhhh tipsy isn’t sexy. "

Pahaha Spoilsports

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"Obviously a pub … so I can get on the wine

At noon?

100%… A nice glass or 2/3 of wine at lunch time makes for an enjoyable day

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anywhere that sells coffee and is public x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"From fab 9/10 will be in a Costa, Forumites are generally met at organised social events

I thought forumites just met on the forum

Costa is always good. Even alone

Especially in those comfy chairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Greggs is better than Costa

If you’re buying a pasty then yes.

Just like Halfords is better than McDonald’s if I’m buying a bike."
no it’s just the folk with delusions of grandeur that visit Costa Hawick has a greggs and a Costa next to each other and I observe the customers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee shop but have met in McDonald's or a pub if the weather is nice...

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Do you have a ‘goto’ when you meet for a social to see if you want to get sexy with someone?"

My bedroom. We make a quick decision

(Sorry to be unhelpful, we just don't really do socials)

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Our kitchen usually! I bolt the front door too

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve been on walks with 2 single females (separate times), in the woods too…they were popular walks, so people were around, but quiet enough to chat.

We’ve met others for coffee.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I find a nice walk in a park as the best place for a social

Your out of earshot from most people and there's always options if you know what I mean

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By *for2Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Greggs is better than Costa "

Greggs, Coffee One and Costa are ok, Starbucks is shit but best flat white of all is Boswells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been brewing Dunkin’ doughnuts at mine. Chocolate finger in the corner at costa (everybody loves a good fingering)

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

When I was in Blackpool I favoured the prom amusement arcades for socials. The silly games take away from any nervousness, the conversation and the giggles easily follow. I usually came away with a freshly plucked piece of tat from the grab machine too. Winner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a coffee or a bar in the evening

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Never had a meet and only been to 1 social but hopefully it may change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the weather is nice, I like to go for a walk and get a takeaway coffee. I feel much more relaxed outdoors meeting someone new.

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

A cafe and if you like, move to a bit of food and then take them home...

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

Greggs coffee is better than Costa. Shit, McD coffee is better than Costa.

However, Costa has a substantially better ambience for a first meet.

I’ve always let the lady choose the location for very obvious reasons. I’m happy to offer suggestions if they ask, but ultimately it has to be their choice.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Pub, easy to make a fast getaway then if they turn out to be a bit odd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many great suggestions, the answer is yes to you all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pub, easy to make a fast getaway then if they turn out to be a bit odd

Do you sit and count the exits?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"Pub, easy to make a fast getaway then if they turn out to be a bit odd

Do you sit and count the exits?

Always go somewhere I've been before so I know which way to run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in Blackpool I favoured the prom amusement arcades for socials. The silly games take away from any nervousness, the conversation and the giggles easily follow. I usually came away with a freshly plucked piece of tat from the grab machine too. Winner!"

Nice. Bit of bowling to strengthen the fingers. Next round of drinks is on the loser

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I have a favourite pub in a village 5 minutes away that’s really comfy, spacious and quiet that I always use for socials

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

The lay-by two miles west along the A689 from Bradbury Services. Late afternoon/early evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have a ‘goto’ when you meet for a social to see if you want to get sexy with someone?

A coffee shop? Pub? A public park with lots of witnesses?

Do you go as far away from your local town or stay close to your home? Do you meet up at your place?

For a guy who needs to get out more, I need the lowdown on what’s popular and what’s a no-no.

I ask them where they'd like to meet. Somewhere half way between us so no time wasted if one of us doesn't show up.

I don't care what's popular.

Coffee shop or supermarket cafe. Somewhere that sex chat would be difficult.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Seafront coffee shop.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Coffee shop have a designer outlet nearby so can browse the shops before or after x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think I’ve only had 2 proper socials, one was a coffee at Maccy Do’s as it was half way for us both, the second was a local pub, I usually get straight to the sex part

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I think I’ve only had 2 proper socials, one was a coffee at Maccy Do’s as it was half way for us both, the second was a local pub, I usually get straight to the sex part

There goes your Inbox….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bar area at swinging club can chat over a drink and then find a room if do get on

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I have two favourite bars for cocktails, if we want a drink-type social, but always a coffee shop in daytime for me!

Not just because I love coffee, but informal, easy and not too intense. I have a favourite just off the South Bank, but if they're happy to come to one near me, I can promise them a cafe that delivers what is the best banana bread I've ever had!

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