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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Slightly different but yeah. What would you rather? Sorry I’m late today. Had a bit of an afternoon.

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By *un-Seeker-68Woman
over a year ago

Anytown

Tough one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never feel love again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly different but yeah. What would you rather? Sorry I’m late today. Had a bit of an afternoon. "

Never feel love again!! How about you OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m giving up sex in a heartbeat by the way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slightly different but yeah. What would you rather? Sorry I’m late today. Had a bit of an afternoon.

Never feel love again!! How about you OP?"

Ha. Just answered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly different but yeah. What would you rather? Sorry I’m late today. Had a bit of an afternoon. "

This is very very VERY unfair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can learn to live without sex! I am not sure I'd be happy without love.

I hope your evening is as sweet as cupcakes.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Romantic love or any love?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Bin the sex easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never feel love again iv made my choice il love once in this life i wouldnt dare try love a 2nd id feel like id watered down the first and only one

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No more sex. No hesitation. I would miss it but I could live. The other option would be soul destroying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can learn to live without sex! I am not sure I'd be happy without love.

I hope your evening is as sweet as cupcakes.

It will be now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Romantic love or any love?"

Any love!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Romantic love or any love?

Any love!! "

Actually romantic. I’ll play fair.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Love is overrated...lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

How about snuggles in bed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience love hurts so I’ll give up on that one and keep the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye sex

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Romantic love or any love?

Any love!!

Actually romantic. I’ll play fair. "

Now you’ve clarified I would give up romantic love. I’ve never had it anyway and you can’t miss what you’ve never had

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Easy as never want love again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be controversial here but just to be different I'd prefer to be loved. I'd just sort myself out... .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Both please

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd probably give up sex but taking that to be only penetrative sex. So yeah, bring on the myriad of love. Love for penis. Love for quim. Men. Women. Nonbinary people. I'll keep that love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say, one love, one life

When it's one need in the night

One love, we get to share it

Leaves you baby if you don't care for it

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Neither is on the horizon as it is, so it wouldn't be much of a loss either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but doesn’t love fade away with the passage of time either way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would relinquish sex for feeling and being loved.

NBVN x

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just love obviously. Love is continuous, sex turns on and off (even for some people on here!)

Can you imagine how awful life would be (and is for some) to be both without sex - or being sexed-up - AND without love?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I can live without sex, but I love falling in love with new food so that wins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather not feel love again. It is highly over-rated.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Fuck love, I'm tired of trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is love

Baby don’t hurt me

Don’t hurt me no more

*starts throwing shapes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean I can have one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If still get to masturbate, then love 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heart is made of stone, dont think I'm capable of love anymore.

I'll take the sex

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never feel love again sex is always better after an argument anyway

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By *for2Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You said any love. So, if you mean love of family, friends, places, pets, home, books, hobbies, nature and all the other things you can love and not just romantic love. It's a no-brainer, much as I enjoy sex I could live without it. Life however would be empty without people/things to love, and I couldn't live without it.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

At this point in time? Sex can take a back seat. To be held and to be loved. That’s all I would need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love ..cause if you have that you have sex but you can have sex without love , so love for me by a country mile.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Fuck love, I'm tired of trying "

'Fuck sex' would make a better throwaway line.

Sex fucks people up but most people love it. Love fucks a lot of people up as well and they often end up without any sex as a consequence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never find love again, I've thought I've found it a few times. There's only so much heart ache one can take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more sex it is then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be heart breaking not to feel love again so I'd give up the sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d give up sex, I don’t want to live without love. That would be awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d give up sex, I don’t want to live without love. That would be awful."

Aww that’s cute

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Romantic love? I’d happily not feel that. I went with zero sex for 4 years, it was hell. I missed the sex more than the love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is all.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Wow, tough one. Even though im not looking for romantic love right now, the thought of never having it again in my life is pretty scary and depressing. So for right now i choose sex, but for the future i would choose love. X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely give up sex. I have felt/experienced unconditional love and as much as it nearly destroyed me, I would hate to think that I couldn't feel that again x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Varying degrees of love is very very important in my life, so yes I'd dump sex

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

As love seems to have long since given up on me, with no apparent chance of this changing. I will cling on tightly to the very occassional bit of sex that I am invited to share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is such a powerful emotion and can conquer so much and make you feel true happiness. Sex at the bottom line is just a physical act, so I would turn my back on sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never find love again, I've thought I've found it a few times. There's only so much heart ache one can take

Once was enough for me. How people go through it again is baffling to me.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Romantic love or love as a whole?

Romantic is a bit of a tough decision. Though I think that may win, would need to think more though. I honestly believe I could live without either.

But no love, at all, ever from or for anyone? This would mean from your parents, your kids, your friends and family, even your pets. That is a very unenviable and lonely life.

No question, the sex is getting dumped and never done again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow, tough one. Even though im not looking for romantic love right now, the thought of never having it again in my life is pretty scary and depressing. So for right now i choose sex, but for the future i would choose love. X "

You’re so logical all the time I love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but doesn’t love fade away with the passage of time either way? "

It gets better over time I think. It changes but always getting better imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Romantic love or any love?

Any love!!

Actually romantic. I’ll play fair. "

Give up romantic love (have already lol), my kids give me all the love I could need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more sex for me, I don't need to have sex to climax anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No more sex for me, I don't need to have sex to climax anyway

haha. Well played, you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If it’s romantic love, love from a partner, I’ll take the sex every time. If it’s love in general, friends, kids,family then I’ll take the love.

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

"Might be controversial here but just to be different I'd prefer to be loved. I'd just sort myself out... .

Agreed

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’d give up the romantic love for sure.

You can be with someone, care for them, enjoy their company etc without it getting full on heart breaking.

Family & friends love not on your Nellie, that would trump sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s romantic love, love from a partner, I’ll take the sex every time. If it’s love in general, friends, kids,family then I’ll take the love. "

I’m talking romantic love.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d give up the romantic love for sure.

You can be with someone, care for them, enjoy their company etc without it getting full on heart breaking.

Family & friends love not on your Nellie, that would trump sex. "

I like this answer because it’s something I hadn’t considered. Finding good connections that don’t end up being love or result in love are still beautiful. But I would ask why you say it doesn’t have to get heart breaking or if you mean to say heart breaking? Do you think romantic love always has to end in heartbreak?

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

For me at the moment I'd rather live without love. It hurts too much when things end.

Just give me sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex - can be great, also can be fucking shit for a lot of effort. But you can get the same satisfaction from toys.

Love- can be amazing, but always ends in heartbreak. I'll get a dog.

I can live without either.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

The latter

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

No one loves me anyway so I'll stick with the sex please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex - can be great, also can be fucking shit for a lot of effort. But you can get the same satisfaction from toys.

Love- can be amazing, but always ends in heartbreak. I'll get a dog.

I can live without either."

I’ll love you and not break your heart. If you can be arsed for that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The latter"

No Love?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one loves me anyway so I'll stick with the sex please

What if I could guarantee you someone loving you beautifully until the end of days? Would you give it up?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If it’s romantic love, love from a partner, I’ll take the sex every time. If it’s love in general, friends, kids,family then I’ll take the love.

I’m talking romantic love.

Gimme all the sex then

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No one loves me anyway so I'll stick with the sex please

What if I could guarantee you someone loving you beautifully until the end of days? Would you give it up? "

I can answer that for her. Not a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex - can be great, also can be fucking shit for a lot of effort. But you can get the same satisfaction from toys.

Love- can be amazing, but always ends in heartbreak. I'll get a dog.

I can live without either.

I’ll love you and not break your heart. If you can be arsed for that? "

Slight flaw in your plan. You're a man, it's in your DNA to break hearts.

Also, yeah effort!!!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"No one loves me anyway so I'll stick with the sex please

What if I could guarantee you someone loving you beautifully until the end of days? Would you give it up?

I can answer that for her. Not a chance!

Nora knows...... ha ha

Also if you knew I'd somehow managed to melt the "head" off one of my favourite sex toys, that question doesn't even need answering ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex - can be great, also can be fucking shit for a lot of effort. But you can get the same satisfaction from toys.

Love- can be amazing, but always ends in heartbreak. I'll get a dog.

I can live without either.

I’ll love you and not break your heart. If you can be arsed for that?

Slight flaw in your plan. You're a man, it's in your DNA to break hearts.

Also, yeah effort!!!"

True. I forget I’m a man sometimes. Men are the worst.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one loves me anyway so I'll stick with the sex please

What if I could guarantee you someone loving you beautifully until the end of days? Would you give it up?

I can answer that for her. Not a chance!

Nora knows...... ha ha

Also if you knew I'd somehow managed to melt the "head" off one of my favourite sex toys, that question doesn't even need answering ha ha ha "

damn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s romantic love, love from a partner, I’ll take the sex every time. If it’s love in general, friends, kids,family then I’ll take the love.

I’m talking romantic love.

Gimme all the sex then

Haha. I just hope it’s satisfying sex

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

If you mean not just no penetrative sex ever again, but no intimacy at all I would go for never feel love again. Imagine, being madly in love but you cant have any intimate contact. Real love doesnt happen that often, neither does intimacy, for me. for that matter. But I always miss intimacy I dont really miss love as its so rare anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us will in reality reach a time when we no longer need/want/are physically capable of sex. Love is there right to the end

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If it’s romantic love, love from a partner, I’ll take the sex every time. If it’s love in general, friends, kids,family then I’ll take the love.

I’m talking romantic love.

Gimme all the sex then

Haha. I just hope it’s satisfying sex

You can still have intimacy and affection and sex without being in love. That does me grand

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"If it’s romantic love, love from a partner, I’ll take the sex every time. If it’s love in general, friends, kids,family then I’ll take the love.

I’m talking romantic love.

Gimme all the sex then

Haha. I just hope it’s satisfying sex

You can still have intimacy and affection and sex without being in love. That does me grand

Can you still send cock pics without being in love.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If it’s romantic love, love from a partner, I’ll take the sex every time. If it’s love in general, friends, kids,family then I’ll take the love.

I’m talking romantic love.

Gimme all the sex then

Haha. I just hope it’s satisfying sex

You can still have intimacy and affection and sex without being in love. That does me grand

Can you still send cock pics without being in love.

Do you love me fiddles? If not I guess you can haha.

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By *ulgehunterMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

I've never felt loved

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd give up sex before giving up love. Absolutely without question.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"The latter

No Love?

It's overrated. My drives are purely biological

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily in love, and furiously masterbating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of us will in reality reach a time when we no longer need/want/are physically capable of sex. Love is there right to the end"

Precisely. True love can't be equalled by anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of us will in reality reach a time when we no longer need/want/are physically capable of sex. Love is there right to the end

Precisely. True love can't be equalled by anything else."
true love can be taken away just as easily as zipping up my pants also

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's evolution. It has to be love for most people because sex comes and goes (as it has to) and real love sits in between. It's how we've evolved. Without love there are periods with neither: it's a logical thing.

Some people can live without love for sure, though people making a thing about it always makes me a little suspicious of genuine underlying enthusiasm in this.

Picture an example of the 'real thing'- the final product if you will. Search your brain's database - don't claim it doesn't exist. Would you turn that down? To have that even in theory? Or has your ego been so bruised perhaps that you'd rather not take the risk? Hearts themselves are pretty resilient I find.

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