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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay

In a couple of days I'll be able to post video, and I have a few pretty graphic ones from fab meets over the years.

My question is, by and large do women find it a deal breaker to see a potential sex partner fucking other ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will like it some will not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ladies you’re fucking might have something to say unless you ask them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, you've had sex, well done and all but no.

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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay


"I think the ladies you’re fucking might have something to say unless you ask them first."

Permission was acquired, to film and post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does nothing for me tbh other than prove you do the sex

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ladies you’re fucking might have something to say unless you ask them first.

Permission was acquired, to film and post"

Yeah people always say this. I don't believe them.

Makes me cringe when people use other people as sex bait.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Total turn off from a singles profile.

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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay

Not particularly surprised by the responses but still thought I'd ask before committing because of the sheer amount I see on here.

Not getting permission is creepy and illegal, so maybe lay off the assumptions

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Big turn off!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Not particularly surprised by the responses but still thought I'd ask before committing because of the sheer amount I see on here.

Not getting permission is creepy and illegal, so maybe lay off the assumptions "

Problem is, one cannot actually prove permission is in place and unfortunately there's a preponderance of people using pics/videos that are NOT theirs to use. You can understand people's concern.

And it's a no thanks from us to sex videos too.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"In a couple of days I'll be able to post video, and I have a few pretty graphic ones from fab meets over the years.

My question is, by and large do women find it a deal breaker to see a potential sex partner fucking other ladies?"

I'm not a fan, to be honest. I end up subconsciously comparing myself to the woman in the vid which more often than not makes me think I'd not be his type. Vids are most often filmed for a man's viewing pleasure & that doesn't appeal, because it just reminds me of the vast majority of porn, which is mostly made for the male audience. If it's a guy receiving a blow job, it's definitely a big turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ladies you’re fucking might have something to say unless you ask them first.

Permission was acquired, to film and post"

Do you have a photo copy off I.d and a written contract to post anywhere

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Im not a fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il never do one think its a bit naff tbh makes it more a porn site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not particularly surprised by the responses but still thought I'd ask before committing because of the sheer amount I see on here.

Not getting permission is creepy and illegal, so maybe lay off the assumptions

Problem is, one cannot actually prove permission is in place and unfortunately there's a preponderance of people using pics/videos that are NOT theirs to use. You can understand people's concern.

And it's a no thanks from us to sex videos too. "

Yes they is but would be the same as hub

Must submit a contract bween profmers

And a copy off they I.d

There’s tons off hoops these days to jump though to get a video up now on some sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not particularly surprised by the responses but still thought I'd ask before committing because of the sheer amount I see on here.

Not getting permission is creepy and illegal, so maybe lay off the assumptions "

I assume consent is not given.

Most of the men I ask who the woman is, say it's an ex.

Yes of course a woman would allow her ex to use her sex pics and videos to get him a shag.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"In a couple of days I'll be able to post video, and I have a few pretty graphic ones from fab meets over the years.

My question is, by and large do women find it a deal breaker to see a potential sex partner fucking other ladies?"

It’s not a deal breaker - it’s no surprise that a bloke has had sex with other women but I wouldn’t watch a video. I really don’t watch any videos on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't appeal to 100% and there is no such thing as one size fits all, so just be true to yourself

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

On a single profile? A complete turn off.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"In a couple of days I'll be able to post video, and I have a few pretty graphic ones from fab meets over the years.

My question is, by and large do women find it a deal breaker to see a potential sex partner fucking other ladies?

It’s not a deal breaker - it’s no surprise that a bloke has had sex with other women but I wouldn’t watch a video. I really don’t watch any videos on Fab "

Not that I shag these days but these are my thoughts also and yes, there's no way to confirm that permission has been given so I assume it hasn't.

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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I love a good video...

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Depends on the video

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By *Bacchus. OP   Man
over a year ago

Torquay


"Not particularly surprised by the responses but still thought I'd ask before committing because of the sheer amount I see on here.

Not getting permission is creepy and illegal, so maybe lay off the assumptions

I assume consent is not given.

Most of the men I ask who the woman is, say it's an ex.

Yes of course a woman would allow her ex to use her sex pics and videos to get him a shag. "

My question was whether or not the videos were a turn off

Please leave your preconceptions of my integrity out of the equation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a measure of how you like to portray yourself.

One guy I liked had a bunch of gym videos, which didnt really do much for me, so I suppose its just another filter.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"Action shots" on single male profiles has always been a 'no' from many in Fabland. I'm guessing the same for videos. It's a no from me - fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another 'each to their own' post. Some will love the vids and some wont. Personally if I was looking to meet a potential swinging partner (and I'm a guy) I wouldn't give a shiny shit about how many videos you uploaded because I'd decide whether or not to meet you based on the messages that we exchanged.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It’s your profile fella, you put on it what you want

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