FabSwingers.com forum: Irritated with life

By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Sometimes I have days when I come into the forums and just get irritated with things so much, I'll post comments that I would usually hold back on.

I'm a generally placid person and avoid confrontation but there are rare days that I don't give a hoot and just say what I think - look at it later and my face is

with a bit of

Anyone else tend to hold back but then have the odd day where you just say what's on your mind anyway?

I hope that my comments are still respectful but I do think I can be rash and impulsive at times and challenge opinions, where normally I'll either move on or put another side across without mentioning the ones that make me go

Am I the only one to have these crazy days?

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope. I have days when I don't return friends texts in my private life because I know I'll be less understanding than I usually would be.

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done "

Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful

Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate confrontation. It makes me feel crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get irate over text on the web.

Talk to more good people, it helps.

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Nope. I have days when I don't return friends texts in my private life because I know I'll be less understanding than I usually would be.

That's how I am normally then BOOM! A day on here where I'm standing up for everything I believe in and probably irritating the crap out of someone

It does pass and then it's usually too late to delete my comment

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Don’t get irate over text on the web.

Talk to more good people, it helps.

Sound advice

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nope. I have days when I don't return friends texts in my private life because I know I'll be less understanding than I usually would be.

That's how I am normally then BOOM! A day on here where I'm standing up for everything I believe in and probably irritating the crap out of someone

It does pass and then it's usually too late to delete my comment

I think everyone has off days. They're tired or upset and they just can't be doing with all the crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.

Now, I can’t be arsed to get wound up by stuff here so I click the browser back button and forget about it. Kinda like real world me too, I can’t be doing with aggro, so I float through life on a cloud of indifference and relaxation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done

Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful

Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate confrontation. It makes me feel crap.

Ah don't feel bad, you're allowed an opinion and to challenge views which are aired. The key is respect and you were respectful. Don't worry x

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.

That's me 99% of the time, then the little devil comes out to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.

That's me 99% of the time, then the little devil comes out to play

When my

comes out to play, he acts idiotic instead.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Recent events on my life have made me less tolerant and more readily irritated. I do know it though so I try to avoid situations that might trigger me or try to keep it zipped.

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done

Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful

Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate confrontation. It makes me feel crap.

Ah don't feel bad, you're allowed an opinion and to challenge views which are aired. The key is respect and you were respectful. Don't worry x

Thank you, I'm already miffed with myself today about horses

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Some days it just floods out. Don't censor yourself, just go with it.

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.

That's me 99% of the time, then the little devil comes out to play

When my

comes out to play, he acts idiotic instead.

Yeah, that can happen too

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Recent events on my life have made me less tolerant and more readily irritated. I do know it though so I try to avoid situations that might trigger me or try to keep it zipped."

I guess being forum mod makes it even harder

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Some days it just floods out. Don't censor yourself, just go with it. "

Don't encourage me! I'm easily swayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done

Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful

Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate confrontation. It makes me feel crap.

Ah don't feel bad, you're allowed an opinion and to challenge views which are aired. The key is respect and you were respectful. Don't worry x

Thank you, I'm already miffed with myself today about horses

X "

Don't worry honestly, it's a loaded subject anyway x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Some days it just floods out. Don't censor yourself, just go with it.

Don't encourage me! I'm easily swayed

Tell me your pin number....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Recent events on my life have made me less tolerant and more readily irritated. I do know it though so I try to avoid situations that might trigger me or try to keep it zipped.

I guess being forum mod makes it even harder

Luckily we have rules to adhere to

people breathing loudly next to me in shops don't

or (you've set me off now) talking to me with gum in their mouth and chewing between sentences.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done

Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful

Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate

confrontation. It makes me feel

crap.

I'm in forums to have laught due the lack of general conversation or people been more interested in fucking that actually become friends before getting to that

Unfortunately so people don't get my humour or miss judge me without even knowing due my fab name and profile .

I believed in freedom of speech and

All those these days that is slowly been eroded. But some time like the other day I thought fuck it I say what I'm thinking.but I also am able

To take any come back with good grace its their right to do so.

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Some days it just floods out. Don't censor yourself, just go with it.

Don't encourage me! I'm easily swayed

Tell me your pin number...."

Oh go on then.... pm inbound

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Recent events on my life have made me less tolerant and more readily irritated. I do know it though so I try to avoid situations that might trigger me or try to keep it zipped.

I guess being forum mod makes it even harder

Luckily we have rules to adhere to

people breathing loudly next to me in shops don't

or (you've set me off now) talking to me with gum in their mouth and chewing between sentences.

Oh the list is long here

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done

Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful

Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate

confrontation. It makes me feel

crap.

I'm in forums to have laught due the lack of general conversation or people been more interested in fucking that actually become friends before getting to that

Unfortunately so people don't get my humour or miss judge me without even knowing due my fab name and profile .

I believed in freedom of speech and

All those these days that is slowly been eroded. But some time like the other day I thought fuck it I say what I'm thinking.but I also am able

To take any come back with good grace its their right to do so."

Very true. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's how you do it in response to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, usually take everything with a pinch of salt but sometimes it just has to be done

Same. Today for example, I've challenged and now feeling bad even though I wasn't disrespectful

Maybe it's because I'm generally a peaceful person and hate

confrontation. It makes me feel

crap.

I'm in forums to have laught due the lack of general conversation or people been more interested in fucking that actually become friends before getting to that

Unfortunately so people don't get my humour or miss judge me without even knowing due my fab name and profile .

I believed in freedom of speech and

All those these days that is slowly been eroded. But some time like the other day I thought fuck it I say what I'm thinking.but I also am able

To take any come back with good grace its their right to do so."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say whatever I'm thinking. Doesn't matter what I say or do, people think I'm a cunt anyway. I'm not going to fuck off and die just because they think I should.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.

I think I'm slowly reaching that zen like state. Slowly. But I'm happier. Life is better. Easier.

Old me would have been so quick to respond with a withering, scathing putdown that's perfectly pitched. Now I just log off, take some time out and rethink my words. I don't have the desire to feed my inner bitch*, even if I'm having a bad day.

*Unless I'm really really irritated by something posted. Very unlikely.

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I say whatever I'm thinking. Doesn't matter what I say or do, people think I'm a cunt anyway. I'm not going to fuck off and die just because they think I should."

I wish I had your confidence and lack of giving 2 hoots

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Younger me would probably have been removed from here many times, I’d have just said shit, and fuck the consequences.

I think I'm slowly reaching that zen like state. Slowly. But I'm happier. Life is better. Easier.

*Unless I'm really really irritated by something posted. Very unlikely."

I am generally like this but occasionally just can't hold back, maybe now I'm approaching menopause it's this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say whatever I'm thinking. Doesn't matter what I say or do, people think I'm a cunt anyway. I'm not going to fuck off and die just because they think I should."

I don't, I think you're great! You've always been good to me. I'm not liked either because of being outspoken but meh, like I care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I am as blunt as they come

I have no filter and say exactly what on my mind at all times can be a good thing can be a bad thing at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes there's just too much twattery in the forums and you have to vent. Though a humorous take on the topic can also be a good stress reliever

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By *uffsandCrops OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I may not agree but not brave enough to really go for it

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Only just started venturing back into the forums after a long time. Mainly because I ended getting us put on the naughty steps by mods for not being able to keep my mouth shut

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I tend to stick to light hearted threads unless it's something that particularly affects me or I've had a different experience to what others are posting.

I'm not prolific and if I post a handful of times across all forums each day that's about my max.

Every now and again though I'll see something that is blatantly untrue or someone making light of something that I believe should not be mocked and I'll give my opinion. I rarely regret it after.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I tend to vent more to idiot messages then on the forums. I feel they deserve it more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to an opinion but some people can tend to go over the top and get offensive. I tend to ignore them because 9 out of 10 are just stirring things up for a reaction

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