FabSwingers.com forum: One to ponder...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Theoretical and could never be given.

However ..... I wonder if a child is destined to be a bad/ evil child..

It had to do how that child was conceived whether out of lustfull filthy sex or genuine loving sex ..

Hhhhmm?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Don't think it's anything to do with how they are conceived or how they are bought up either! X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It certainly isn't I would say how they were conceived. I do think their upbringing may play a small part x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Lustful sex can be genuine and loving.

I don't believe a child is influenced by the parents feelings at conception any more than they're born with a birth mark because their mother ate strawberries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if a child is conceived behind the back of the bins, they aren't destined to become a bin man put it that way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well if a child is conceived behind the back of the bins, they aren't destined to become a bin man put it that way."

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

How they were conceived???

Really!!

A good point to be made about nature or nurture. The ID, ego and superego. This fascinated me in counselling training

Are we born with inherently bad genes or a victim of our surroundings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theoretical and could never be given.

However ..... I wonder if a child is destined to be a bad/ evil child..

It had to do how that child was conceived whether out of lustfull filthy sex or genuine loving sex ..

Hhhhmm? "

Could be mix of internal/external factors that determine personality. Genetic, environmental or a mix of both

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I don't think anything predetermines a child's outcomes before they're born.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I don't think anything predetermines a child's outcomes before they're born. "

I think it is entirely possible that some people have a genetic predisposition to be susceptible to some mental ill health issues.

On the whole though, in my unqualified opinion, we are mainly a product of our upbringing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well if a child is conceived behind the back of the bins, they aren't destined to become a bin man put it that way."
ha ha very good...ha ha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. I don't think anything predetermines a child's outcomes before they're born.

I think it is entirely possible that some people have a genetic predisposition to be susceptible to some mental ill health issues.

On the whole though, in my unqualified opinion, we are mainly a product of our upbringing "

Yes. I heard about a scientist who studied psychopathy and accidentally found out that he was a psychopath himself. He carried all the brain markers.

But he'd had a healthy upbringing and got into a fulfilling career. So he was a "good" psychopath - a productive member of society etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So he was a "good" psychopath - a productive member of society etc."

I knew it!

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Maybe the 666 they have on them might be something to do with it?

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

Mum wasn't bothered about any more after me. She was severely asthmatic and wasn't well giving birth. Couple of years later dad can home from pub one night and demanded sex. 9 months later, younger brother. He's grown up to be a thoroughly nasty character. Con man, thief, liar, fraudster. He's had to skip town on numerous occasions to avoid dubious characters he'd pissed off. He managed to persuade my grandma to leave the bulk of her estate to him and even managed to get my mum to leave everything to him, there was even a clause in the will specifically saying I was excluded! We had the same upbringing, the same chances and opportunities yet we've turned out so different

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