FabSwingers.com forum: The art of debate

By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It appears to be a thing of the past!

You start one and you get blocked

Discuss!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

People don't want their narrative challenged

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

What does it matter if you're blocked? You can still see and chat on the forum.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Master Debate......

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There are lots of them on here.

Mass debates.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I get to have plenty of them - never been blocked yet for it (the year is still young though…).

I find it’s about validating the other person’s point of view without giving up your own.

If someone’s not willing to sit down and debate the important stuff, without judgement or anger, I’m probably not going to be interested in sucking their cock.

And if you don’t agree with me, the hate sex will be immense

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I get to have plenty of them - never been blocked yet for it (the year is still young though…).

I find it’s about validating the other person’s point of view without giving up your own.

If someone’s not willing to sit down and debate the important stuff, without judgement or anger, I’m probably not going to be interested in sucking their cock.

And if you don’t agree with me, the hate sex will be immense

Your from Yorkshire, like me. Your viewpoint will be direct, and always right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It appears to be a thing of the past!

You start one and you get blocked

Discuss! "

*Blocked*

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"It appears to be a thing of the past!

You start one and you get blocked

Discuss! "

No it isn't!

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I get to have plenty of them - never been blocked yet for it (the year is still young though…).

I find it’s about validating the other person’s point of view without giving up your own.

If someone’s not willing to sit down and debate the important stuff, without judgement or anger, I’m probably not going to be interested in sucking their cock.

And if you don’t agree with me, the hate sex will be immense

Your from Yorkshire, like me. Your viewpoint will be direct, and always right

Shhhh…I’m a pretend Yorkshire gal…I’m actually from…Manchester

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I get to have plenty of them - never been blocked yet for it (the year is still young though…).

I find it’s about validating the other person’s point of view without giving up your own.

If someone’s not willing to sit down and debate the important stuff, without judgement or anger, I’m probably not going to be interested in sucking their cock.

And if you don’t agree with me, the hate sex will be immense

Your from Yorkshire, like me. Your viewpoint will be direct, and always right

Shhhh…I’m a pretend Yorkshire gal…I’m actually from…Manchester

Honorary member then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get to have plenty of them - never been blocked yet for it (the year is still young though…).

I find it’s about validating the other person’s point of view without giving up your own.

If someone’s not willing to sit down and debate the important stuff, without judgement or anger, I’m probably not going to be interested in sucking their cock.

And if you don’t agree with me, the hate sex will be immense

Lokks to start a disagreement

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"What does it matter if you're blocked? You can still see and chat on the forum."
sometimes the subject matter crosses the don't talk about on forums or could be interpretated as a forum rule break

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I get to have plenty of them - never been blocked yet for it (the year is still young though…).

I find it’s about validating the other person’s point of view without giving up your own.

If someone’s not willing to sit down and debate the important stuff, without judgement or anger, I’m probably not going to be interested in sucking their cock.

And if you don’t agree with me, the hate sex will be immense

The problem is some forget the without judgement or anger

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"People don't want their narrative challenged

Small mind syndrome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer starting debates on a tipsy/d*unken walk home with someone who knows me,

Or more recently in a restaurant.

Much more fun!

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"It appears to be a thing of the past!

You start one and you get blocked

Discuss!

*Blocked*"

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Master Debate......"

What is that you like to debate

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I prefer starting debates on a tipsy/d*unken walk home with someone who knows me,

Or more recently in a restaurant.

Much more fun!

PW "
did that rather too much on our cruise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer starting debates on a tipsy/d*unken walk home with someone who knows me,

Or more recently in a restaurant.

Much more fun!

PW did that rather too much on our cruise "

I think I laughed at that a little too much.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"It appears to be a thing of the past!

You start one and you get blocked

Discuss! "

Is this a mass debate ?

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"It appears to be a thing of the past!

You start one and you get blocked

Discuss!

Is this a mass debate ?"
knock ya socks off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer starting debates on a tipsy/d*unken walk home with someone who knows me,

Or more recently in a restaurant.

Much more fun!

PW did that rather too much on our cruise "

After taking her to a restaurant she'd been wanting to go to and having that debate over dessert, I'm not sure 7 to 14 nights at sea would end well, unless sleeping with the fish counts!

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I prefer starting debates on a tipsy/d*unken walk home with someone who knows me,

Or more recently in a restaurant.

Much more fun!

PW did that rather too much on our cruise

After taking her to a restaurant she'd been wanting to go to and having that debate over dessert, I'm not sure 7 to 14 nights at sea would end well, unless sleeping with the fish counts!

IS"

Oh, debate a out what to eat or to do it over the table?

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Debates are overrated, I prefer a discussion.

Does anybody care to argue.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I get to have plenty of them - never been blocked yet for it (the year is still young though…).

I find it’s about validating the other person’s point of view without giving up your own.

If someone’s not willing to sit down and debate the important stuff, without judgement or anger, I’m probably not going to be interested in sucking their cock.

And if you don’t agree with me, the hate sex will be immense

The problem is some forget the without judgement or anger

Exactly…and that makes me inutterably sad. We all have views and opinions and we won’t all agree with each other. What we can do is have compassion for each other and provide a space to talk views through in a positive and productive way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I get to have plenty of them - never been blocked yet for it (the year is still young though…).

I find it’s about validating the other person’s point of view without giving up your own.

If someone’s not willing to sit down and debate the important stuff, without judgement or anger, I’m probably not going to be interested in sucking their cock.

And if you don’t agree with me, the hate sex will be immense

The problem is some forget the without judgement or anger

You are definitely my kind of person.

May you be happy and healthy and enjoy life to the full. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing people need to be debating on here is whether the penis goes in the mouth or foof, everything else is not that deep. Opinions are usually stubborn and rarely can be changed, not much point wasting your breath trying to convert them to your narrative.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Lost years ago. Social media & the ilk gave echo chambers to people who would otherwise have been ignored.

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Who stole your scone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer starting debates on a tipsy/d*unken walk home with someone who knows me,

Or more recently in a restaurant.

Much more fun!

PW did that rather too much on our cruise

After taking her to a restaurant she'd been wanting to go to and having that debate over dessert, I'm not sure 7 to 14 nights at sea would end well, unless sleeping with the fish counts!

Oh, debate a out what to eat or to do it over the table? "

Carbon dating! But I'd happily do her over the table (and have!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally find bending over and dropping my knickers wins most debates ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only thing people need to be debating on here is whether the penis goes in the mouth or foof, everything else is not that deep. Opinions are usually stubborn and rarely can be changed, not much point wasting your breath trying to convert them to your narrative."

Largely I suppose it is swingers site. Quite a few of the people on here are pretty interesting and I change my opinion quite readily if someone has a better point of view or I find out some things I didn't know about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

I did once.

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Normally find bending over and dropping my knickers wins most debates ha ha "

That's just showing off!

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

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Liar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar! "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True. I think trying to get someone to see a different point of view online compared to real life conversation is so much harder. Especially in a forum whereby people team up and pick a side.

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

To debate or not to debate that is the question.

Ask me if I want to fuck I can answer that.

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

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Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What does it matter if you're blocked? You can still see and chat on the forum.sometimes the subject matter crosses the don't talk about on forums or could be interpretated as a forum rule break "

Surely anything that would be a forum rule break would be a message rule break too?

I've had plenty of messages from people who could easily have continued a discussion in the forums but chose to take it out of public view....so they end up blocked.

If someone can't say something in public then don't bother Pm'ing it. It's generally done because they don't want others seeing what they're written.

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

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Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me "
Still no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally find bending over and dropping my knickers wins most debates ha ha

That's just showing off! "

A little but it works ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no "

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

"
No

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Normally find bending over and dropping my knickers wins most debates ha ha

That's just showing off!

A little but it works ha ha "

I should try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

No "

Spoil sport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally find bending over and dropping my knickers wins most debates ha ha

That's just showing off!

A little but it works ha ha

I should try it "

Yes next time give it a go trust me it work

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Spoil sport

"
now give over.... Still won't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Spoil sport

now give over.... Still won't work "

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Spoil sport

now give over.... Still won't work "

He's trying to get you to win by...

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Spoil sport

now give over.... Still won't work

Never "
I'm really stubborn.

You are one of the nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Spoil sport

now give over.... Still won't work

Never I'm really stubborn.

You are one of the nice people. "

I have you fooled

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Spoil sport

now give over.... Still won't work

He's trying to get you to win by... "
what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally find bending over and dropping my knickers wins most debates ha ha

That's just showing off!

A little but it works ha ha

I should try it "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Spoil sport

now give over.... Still won't work

He's trying to get you to win by... what? "

The only other option a.....

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"To block me or not to block me?

The answer is simples

Block me

Why you've done nothing wrong to us /me.

Cock pic inbound

Liar!

Yep

Just another reason to block me Still no

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee!!!

Spoil sport

now give over.... Still won't work

Never I'm really stubborn.

You are one of the nice people.

I have you fooled "

You think you are not but you are your text speaks to me, nice but not happy in yourself.

You don't need acceptace from anyo e let alone anyone on here

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve given up on all that on Fab. Me and my fence go everywhere together these days so I can sit on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's very little debate on here. Moral infantilism is quickly established and what follows is those for or against. Most threads get abandoned once everyone has made their statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People seem to be socially controlled to be arrogant in their beliefs and that is all their beliefs not just those of a medical, physical or spiritual nature.

Anyway we love a good debate but feel that your post is so provocative that we are going to block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people can't respect that other people's opinions are different to theirs.

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I’ve given up on all that on Fab. Me and my fence go everywhere together these days so I can sit on it.

Nice, enjoy your fence

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Because some people can't respect that other people's opinions are different to theirs. "
this is very true

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"People seem to be socially controlled to be arrogant in their beliefs and that is all their beliefs not just those of a medical, physical or spiritual nature.

Anyway we love a good debate but feel that your post is so provocative that we are going to block you."

Proative or being a debate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It appears to be a thing of the past!

You start one and you get blocked

Discuss! "

Maybe it was an accident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they block me then it's an indication that it would have been a shite debate.

I've blocked plenty on the forum for spouting what I view as nonsense. That's different though. Cause that's me. And I'm allowed to block

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"If they block me then it's an indication that it would have been a shite debate.

I've blocked plenty on the forum for spouting what I view as nonsense. That's different though. Cause that's me. And I'm allowed to block

Plus, you're awesomely funny, and cute too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the right room for a argument?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the right room for a argument?

Just don't use capitals or profanities and you're good

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Is this the right room for a argument?

No idea, at least I'm honest. I've been posting for many years and still no idea what goes in what room.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Is this the right room for a argument?

I've told you once.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Because some people can't respect that other people's opinions are different to theirs. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about hot takes in this world now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the right room for a argument?

I've told you once.

Oh no you haven't!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Is this the right room for a argument?

I've told you once.

Oh no you haven't!

This isn't an argument, it's just contradiction.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Is this the right room for a argument?

I've told you once.

Oh no you haven't!

This isn't an argument, it's just contradiction.

This parrot is clearly deceased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is that a lot of people hide behind phrases like "it's my choice" "my preferences", with out being prepared to back them up or explain them. I am not saying you can't have preferences but be prepared to answer why.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"The problem is that a lot of people hide behind phrases like "it's my choice" "my preferences", with out being prepared to back them up or explain them. I am not saying you can't have preferences but be prepared to answer why. "

This

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By *uxom red OP Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I believe this too.

I really enjoy reading comments that have no evidence behind what's been said but you are in the wrong for asking a question.

There is some utter bs on here at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they block me then it's an indication that it would have been a shite debate.

I've blocked plenty on the forum for spouting what I view as nonsense. That's different though. Cause that's me. And I'm allowed to block

Plus, you're awesomely funny, and cute too

Shucks....am going all

now.

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