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By *aRma OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Enfield town

I've noticed recently a huge amount of people planning to meet you, and literally blasting with messages for days and then they don't turn up!

What's the problem with these kind of people ?

They make this little piece of paradise a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed recently a huge amount of people planning to meet you, and literally blasting with messages for days and then they don't turn up!

What's the problem with these kind of people ?

They make this little piece of paradise a nightmare "

People are shit.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

sadly this today no respect and consideration society.

But if we are experienceing

Been ghosted .does this prove ghost exist.

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By *aRma OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Enfield town

Years ago wasn't like this ..... I start to publish a list on my profile with all the name of this piece of sh..

They need to be stopped in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fakes

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By *aRma OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Enfield town

I just want to know why ?

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

It is just some people, they enjoy the chase then when they know they can have you ,cool off.

It has just happened to me,he couldn't have been more keen and commplimentary and now practically nothing.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Worse after you met them. Easier to move on and not overthink it if they didn’t actually show.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yeah, its sad. Their behaviour, makes those of us that it's happened to, more suspicious and hostile towards others. Its rubbish isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people also get a kick out of the whole talking to someone new stage and aren’t ever interested in meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, I think for the likes of you and I there are a lot of fantasist playing with their boundaries. What for them is great wank fodder in their heads taking the next step proves too scary for them x

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By *aRma OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Enfield town

Exactly without considering the rejection feeling that is quite inevitable

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By *aRma OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Enfield town

Probably you are right thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this after a meet recently. I’ve never had it before and it did knock my confidence. He did say it was his last fab meeting but a quick thanks that was amazing message wouldn’t have gone a miss! Lol

I’ve become a bit cynical with messages and try not to get attached to anyone in particular but I do find it hard J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed recently a huge amount of people planning to meet you, and literally blasting with messages for days and then they don't turn up!

What's the problem with these kind of people ?

They make this little piece of paradise a nightmare "

I’ve had this recently as well, people happy to message but when it comes to meeting they flake and go silent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some folks are just afraid to cause then witness upset and reaction and find it easier to just vanish then they dont need to see the fallout head in the sand mentality fight or flight not everyone can be a fighter

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Its happens to us all some of the best conversations I've had on here

Are with catfish . its strange world we live in now. We just have to laught it off be warry and move forward .

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Says a lot about them… and their childish behaviour!!!

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By *aRma OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Enfield town

That's so true ... This people semms nice

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