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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Have sex with a women if on the meet she got tipsy while you had meal/drinks together before the main event?

And yes the main event is sex

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Have sex with a women if on the meet she got tipsy while you had meal/drinks together before the main event?

And yes the main event is sex

Yes. It's suppose to be fun. Relax and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done many times usually im d*unk too but i tend to do my fucking early before food ideally earn the food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the intention was to have sex then yes. Though tipsy not legless d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tipsy yes.

Blind d*unk, not so much.

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Depends how tipsy. I’ve walked away from a couple of meets in the past where the woman got absolutely hammered. Firstly that’s not attractive and secondly I wasn’t comfortable having sex with someone that d*unk. There are consent issues and all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

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i get pissed on 2 bottles of bud so id be far d*unker

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

Yeah....relaxation. All cool

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Have sex with a women if on the meet she got tipsy while you had meal/drinks together before the main event?

And yes the main event is sex

No I don't have anything to do with alcohol . I only have sex with women when their sences are open to get full pleasure. From what your doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tipsy yes blackout d*unk no no way and that’s even girl on girl. I wouldn’t want to take advantage or be accused of anything bad.

If you’re both a little giggly tipsy yes sure thing but if one’s sober it kinda ruins the vibe.

I’ve been put in some awkward positions with couples before where she has got too d*unk and it just kills things.

I like a glass of wine or a couple of drinks to calm nerves but I wouldn’t get d*unk on a meet especially not a first meet.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No, tipsy is not sexy

I also want to be sure of consent.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

That’s more than tipsy for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm - define ‘tipsy’.

A drink to relax is fine - but anything that could cloud judgement is not cool. I prefer to keep the alcohol to a minimum if there’s a prospect of play during a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

How much have you d*unk and are you worrying it will reduce your chances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So a bottle of wine is good??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a bottle of wine is good??"

If a bottle of rum is.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No I wouldn't. I don't drink at all and never have done and have no issues if others do but definitely not in a situation like that.

If someone needs that crutch I'll leave the sex part until they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I wouldn't. I don't drink at all and never have done and have no issues if others do but definitely not in a situation like that.

If someone needs that crutch I'll leave the sex part until they don't. "

What if they need it for a little self confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

Wine makes me sick so that would turn anyone off wanting sex with me lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"No I wouldn't. I don't drink at all and never have done and have no issues if others do but definitely not in a situation like that.

If someone needs that crutch I'll leave the sex part until they don't.

What if they need it for a little self confidence "

That would depend on how much confidence she would need. I won't put myself in any situation where her judgement is impeded and could say otherwise the next day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a bottle of wine is good??

If a bottle of rum is."

A mini bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tipsy hell yeah but completely d*unk that’d be a no. I would endeavour to make sure they got home safely and maybe cuddle.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"No I wouldn't. I don't drink at all and never have done and have no issues if others do but definitely not in a situation like that.

If someone needs that crutch I'll leave the sex part until they don't.

What if they need it for a little self confidence "

In my opinion one drink, maybe two , is OK but if they need to be tipsy to have sex with me... that's a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tipsy yes, d*unk no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a bottle of wine is good??

If a bottle of rum is.

A mini bottle"

Acceptable.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Define tipsy

Was she still able to consent to sex?

Just because sex was on the cards originally the fact she's now d*unk would make me question whether she was still in a fit state to consent, be able to voice her boundaries, be aware if she was being filmed without her knowledge etc

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

I can't drink wine the way I can drink spirits, one glass of wine and I'm swaying, one bottle and I wouldn't be in a fit state to consent to sex, infact if I was anywhere near a bed id likely be asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A glass or two maybe is fine, some can manage more, I get that. But as soon as I can see she is d*unk. The protective side of me kicks in and I would make sure she gets home safely, I would never take advantage.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a big difference between tipsy and d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a big difference between tipsy and d*unk. "

About one glass for some.. like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a big difference between tipsy and d*unk.

About one glass for some.. like me"

Big glass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a big difference between tipsy and d*unk.

About one glass for some.. like me

Big glass"

If you say so

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

i get pissed on 2 bottles of bud so id be far d*unker "

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

I’d be hoping the sexual tension would be too much to take and we wouldn’t finish our first drink

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Well if sex was already on the menu then yes and I'd probably also be tipsy as well because I wouldn't dream of not joining in

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"No I wouldn't. I don't drink at all and never have done and have no issues if others do but definitely not in a situation like that.

If someone needs that crutch I'll leave the sex part until they don't. "

I don’t need to have a drink. I just like to have a drink when I’m out having a meal and a nice time.

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By *ello6969Man
over a year ago

lthere

In my experience. Women want sex more than men lol

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

Wine makes me sick so that would turn anyone off wanting sex with me lol "

And me… but not with one bottle

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Tipsy yes. It's enjoyable to have a few drinks, relax and get tipsy together.

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

How much have you d*unk and are you worrying it will reduce your chances?

Mr"

Ha ha it’s for a planned meet coming up.

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"I’d be hoping the sexual tension would be too much to take and we wouldn’t finish our first drink

With the price of drinks now il down it before I left it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will definitely have a couple of glasses during a "meet".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define tipsy

Was she still able to consent to sex?

This is the crux. If you can't be sure without doubt that consent is 100% true,then it isn't consent. So any intoxication brings with it moral AND potentially legal implications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will definitely have a couple of glasses during a "meet". "

Ugh.

“Meet”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will definitely have a couple of glasses during a "meet".

Ugh.

“Meet”."

Meet me Johnny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 bottle of wine on your own kind of tipsy? …

i get pissed on 2 bottles of bud so id be far d*unker

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true story had 1 last saturday took me 2 hours before i felt ok to drive

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Not a problem with tipsy.

D*unk and I'll escort you home

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"I will definitely have a couple of glasses during a "meet". "

I normally only get 2 large glasses of wine from a bottle if I pour them

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Is this a first meet or someone you know well?

As most have said, there's a huge difference between tipsy and d*unk.

But I went to several forum socials/club nights when single with women I knew well from previous meets where we got somewhat plastered during the course of the night and still fucked like rabbits when we got back to the hotel.

Context is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will definitely have a couple of glasses during a "meet".

Ugh.

“Meet”.

Meet me Johnny. "

Strike one.

Strike two there’s no cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, tipsy is not sexy

I also want to be sure of consent."

I agree

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

A enjoy having a few drinks together, so a little tipsy would be fun.i do prefer straight,no drink or drugs sex best though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will definitely have a couple of glasses during a "meet".

I normally only get 2 large glasses of wine from a bottle if I pour them

My kind of glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will definitely have a couple of glasses during a "meet".

Ugh.

“Meet”.

Meet me Johnny.

Strike one.

Strike two there’s no cake."

Fine, we'll have a social first.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Definitely no.

Your version of tipsy could be their version of d*unk.

The line you took advantage of me in that state spring's to mind

Same for Club meets if they are tipsy or d*unk it's a no thank you, people's inhibitions leave, thing's get carried away..too messy possible drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will definitely have a couple of glasses during a "meet".

Ugh.

“Meet”.

Meet me Johnny.

Strike one.

Strike two there’s no cake.

Fine, we'll have a social first. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A enjoy having a few drinks together, so a little tipsy would be fun.i do prefer straight,no drink or drugs sex best though."

Sober sex is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez.

People really panic over having a drink with somebody don’t they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to say without knowing what tipsy really means. Any drinks consumed make me take extra care. But unless you have a no drink maximum then it's subjective ...

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"A enjoy having a few drinks together, so a little tipsy would be fun.i do prefer straight,no drink or drugs sex best though."

Absolutely no drugs will be taken.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Probably not. D*unk people make me anxious so I tend to avoid those people.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Definitely no.

Your version of tipsy could be their version of d*unk.

The line you took advantage of me in that state spring's to mind

Same for Club meets if they are tipsy or d*unk it's a no thank you, people's inhibitions leave, thing's get carried away..too messy possible drama

Agree, and I also think therein lies the danger that what appeared to have been consent....in the cold and sober light of the day may not feel like that any more.

A glass or so , why not but I would always stay sober. Besides I enjoy sex far more when my sensitivity to touch is working at its best.

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By *inx.x3 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"Well if sex was already on the menu then yes and I'd probably also be tipsy as well because I wouldn't dream of not joining in

Sex is 100% on the menu regardless of drink involved

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