FabSwingers.com forum: Nervous

By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Been single since last June since ex of 8 yrs left.

Joined back on fab last august and the joined dating sites over month ago.

I chat ppl on here and forums but never seem get meets although it’s nice get used speaking to ppl again esp as I get shy and nervous speaking to new ppl.

Well lady spoken for few weeks asked me out for date so have first one tomorrow and feeling excited to be out with someone not my parents lol and nervous as first date or social meet had one yr since single or even 9 yrs since I was last single lol

Omg ?? lol I need advise lol I know try be self but I feel awkward now how dress and be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual dress.

Relax.

You'll be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart casual dress.

Relax.

You'll be

What he said. Good luck dude.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Mind have a wank before going out

your welcome

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Good luck I went on quite a few dates after the Pandemic. It’s a lot of fun if you’re compatible.

If not then be honest and after coffee or some other drink, thank them for their time and go.

I did a couple of times.

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By *ookie doughMan
over a year ago

leic

I've been on a number of dates with various ladies since becoming single, each and every time I was a complete bag of nerves, I found it much harder than when I've met people from fab strangely lol

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"I've been on a number of dates with various ladies since becoming single, each and every time I was a complete bag of nerves, I found it much harder than when I've met people from fab strangely lol"

I’ve not had meets on here since before I was single so it’s been forever lol

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Eeeeeek! Exciting.

Just chill and go with the flow. She asked you so she must like you. Dress in what you feel comfortable in and you’ll feel more confident (and come across more authentic). If you’re nervous - tell her! Make a joke of it. She’s probably feeling exactly the same.

Good luck and have fun!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Be yourself, relax, be interested, and don't over-think it.

If you've been chatting for a few weeks you'll have a good idea of what you have in common and what's she's like, and now you get the fun part of doing it on person rather than email/text.

Have fun, hope it goes well!

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Thanks everyone means loads

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Eeeeeek! Exciting.

Good luck and have fun!"

Haha probably and thanks for the eeek am just glad someone actually like me enough to want meet me lol after last 10 months lol

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Be yourself, relax, be interested, and don't over-think it.

If you've been chatting for a few weeks you'll have a good idea of what you have in common and what's she's like, and now you get the fun part of doing it on person rather than email/text.

Have fun, hope it goes well!

Thanks appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress nicely. Smell good. Be yourself. Make her laugh. Have fun and enjoy. If something happens great if it doesn’t enjoy the experience. X

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

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How exciting! Just be comfortable in yourself as you’ve got this far…and relax. Don’t drink too much before meeting and I’m sure you are going to have the best time!

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Thank you all

On my way shortly excited to meet person and enjoy company eeek nervous as been long long time

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thank you all

On my way shortly excited to meet person and enjoy company eeek nervous as been long long time"

Ahhhh…have fun, dude! And remember, a gentleman never kisses and tells. (However much we might want a sitrep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Break a leg.

I mean, not literally.

Unless you think the sympathy lay is on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww OP this is such a lovely thread and I hope that you have a great first date.

Set aside any pressures or worries and just focus on enjoying the company of another person for a few hours. Whether it leads to a second date is irrelevant right now, so go have a nice time and enjoy finding out about a new person whilst they find out about you.

Enjoy and please do update the thread

NBVN x

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Thank you all

On my way shortly excited to meet person and enjoy company eeek nervous as been long long time

Ahhhh…have fun, dude! And remember, a gentleman never kisses and tells. (However much we might want a sitrep

)

Oh I’d never kiss and tell

But going for nice date is nice and first time been out with anyone and socialised in yrs so hence my nerves but thanks

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Break a leg.

I mean, not literally.

Unless you think the sympathy lay is on the cards."

Hahaha nah but she did bring me beechams and cough sweets when I was struck with coved month ago for 2 weeks which was sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eeeeeek! Exciting.

Good luck and have fun!"

Exactly this

don’t try and pretend to be something else

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Don't get d*unk. Feel the fear and do it anyway.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Don't get d*unk. Feel the fear and do it anyway."

Oh I won’t we going out to walk place an am driving so only danger is too much coffee lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky you! Can't really offer any advice though - I'd be in much the same boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to you fella. Still a bit chilly so a shirt might be an idea

hope it goes well

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Hope it works out well for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww hope you have an amazing time!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a lovely time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself OP. And wear what you feel comfortable in...smart casual. Don't pretend to be something you're not as they clearly like you for who you are or wouldn't agree to meet you

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Thanks for the amazing messages and stuff

Date was great had a nice time and talked, laughed and smiled loads.

Felt so relaxed as spoken lots and soon as walked and stuff nerves vanished.

Already said she wants see me again Friday when back from few days away. Nice get know and socialise with someone after past 10 months and stuff

Thanks again

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Thanks for the support and advice you all have helped and I was more chilled in end but eeeek on inside lol

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Thanks for the amazing messages and stuff

Date was great had a nice time and talked, laughed and smiled loads.

Felt so relaxed as spoken lots and soon as walked and stuff nerves vanished.

Already said she wants see me again Friday when back from few days away. Nice get know and socialise with someone after past 10 months and stuff

Thanks again"

Great to hear, mate! Glad it all went well!

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Thanks for the amazing messages and stuff

Date was great had a nice time and talked, laughed and smiled loads.

Felt so relaxed as spoken lots and soon as walked and stuff nerves vanished.

Already said she wants see me again Friday when back from few days away. Nice get know and socialise with someone after past 10 months and stuff

Thanks again

Great to hear, mate! Glad it all went well!"

Yeah was nice and strange felt normal which is crazy as how nervous felt but as other said she asked me and chatted for while so was nice as didn’t feel awkward.

Still felt odd later cos didn’t think I’d be back in pool of daters this time last yr before ex walked out lol but hey ho

Thanks again

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Well just had second kinda date with lady and been fun, since last week chatted loads and text which has been fun.

Just thought for change usually I post about mh or worries etc and issues after assault but this is nice stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well just had second kinda date with lady and been fun, since last week chatted loads and text which has been fun.

Just thought for change usually I post about mh or worries etc and issues after assault but this is nice stuff"

Brilliant news! Glad it's going well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nice to hear a happy dating story.

Hope there are many more for you OP.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Thanks not rushing but after yr had with mum nearly dying and ex walking out seems nice.

Just nice speak and do something nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds really exciting

Just be yourself, relax don’t stress yourself over thinking things just go with the flow and have a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dates are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dates are the best

Softie.

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Dates are the best

Yeah it’s nice explore someone and get know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been single since last June since ex of 8 yrs left.

Joined back on fab last august and the joined dating sites over month ago.

I chat ppl on here and forums but never seem get meets although it’s nice get used speaking to ppl again esp as I get shy and nervous speaking to new ppl.

Omg ?? lol I need advise lol I know try be self but I feel awkward now how dress and be lol"

I have a great friend who has told me in no uncertain terms that a date is the last thing l want cause it would put me under severe pressure straight away and the thing is ..he is absolutely right ..l would'nt know what to wear ..so dating for me is out unless l met someone who let me be me .

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Well just had second kinda date with lady and been fun, since last week chatted loads and text which has been fun.

Just thought for change usually I post about mh or worries etc and issues after assault but this is nice stuff"

Congrats, mate - sounds like it's going well!!

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Well just had second kinda date with lady and been fun, since last week chatted loads and text which has been fun.

Just thought for change usually I post about mh or worries etc and issues after assault but this is nice stuff

Congrats, mate - sounds like it's going well!!"

Thank you feels nice someone interested in me and talks to me

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Well just had second kinda date with lady and been fun, since last week chatted loads and text which has been fun.

Just thought for change usually I post about mh or worries etc and issues after assault but this is nice stuff

Congrats, mate - sounds like it's going well!!

Thank you feels nice someone interested in me and talks to me "

Oooooh this is so exciting! I’m so glad you are enjoying some dating time with someone who is interested in knowing things about you. This makes me smile

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By *parrow77 OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"Well just had second kinda date with lady and been fun, since last week chatted loads and text which has been fun.

Just thought for change usually I post about mh or worries etc and issues after assault but this is nice stuff

Congrats, mate - sounds like it's going well!!

Thank you feels nice someone interested in me and talks to me

Oooooh this is so exciting! I’m so glad you are enjoying some dating time with someone who is interested in knowing things about you. This makes me smile

Thank you. I know it’s nice but funny soon as start going on dates or knowing someone get offers from others lol

But just nice to get know someone and get out do nice things even if doesn’t go far after last 12 months had its amazing

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