FabSwingers.com forum: Do you want to be loved or do you not care.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tell me

& Guess which one I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Already loved... not looking for love on Fab!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Already loved... not looking for love on Fab!

Nobody is

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I want to be adored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but if i cant be i just dont want to be forgotten

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I am loved and I love.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I am loved. If I wasn't I'd want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanna get my Bobby wet.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have a life jam-packed full of love.

While I like to be liked I wouldn't come onto this forum when I was feeling in need of love or in any way vulnerable - I think it would have the opposite effect to the one I'd be looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no...I don't think the kind of love I want exists...

Whether we realise it or not, even in long-term relationships, most of us have to keep a certain level of guard up, as even the nicest person will eventually take advantage of you if you let them, and honestly, I find that exhausting.

I don't like confrontation and will usually do anything for an easy life, but many people take that as a green light to take advantage, even if they don't realise it.

To be loved and appreciated without having to fight my corner would be nice.

Then again, maybe my judgement of Men is just complete shite.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody."

Brrrr…oh, so cold.

I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.

Love me!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the people, I meet off fab. I do not really care.

But, outside of fab. Yes, I want to be loved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am loved. If I wasn't I'd want to be"

Yeah you’re alright. I like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a life jam-packed full of love.

While I like to be liked I wouldn't come onto this forum when I was feeling in need of love or in any way vulnerable - I think it would have the opposite effect to the one I'd be looking for."

You’re loved so very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just want to kiss

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I have a life jam-packed full of love.

While I like to be liked I wouldn't come onto this forum when I was feeling in need of love or in any way vulnerable - I think it would have the opposite effect to the one I'd be looking for.

You’re loved so very much

I am, and it's a huge blessing in my life, one I don't take for granted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“ what people call ‘love’ is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it, your parents did it, break the cycle Morty, choose science” - Rick Sanchez… I can’t not agree with this

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Yeah I miss having someone love me romantically and I miss having someone to love romantically but it’s unlikely it’ll ever happen again so I’ll just love myself a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody."

Too bad you’re stuck with all the love we have for you on here.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.

Brrrr…oh, so cold.

I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.

Love me!

Needy much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah I miss having someone love me romantically and I miss having someone to love romantically but it’s unlikely it’ll ever happen again so I’ll just love myself a bit more. "

It’ll come. Rooting for you.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'd love to love and be loved I doubt it will happen but I live in hope

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Yeah I miss having someone love me romantically and I miss having someone to love romantically but it’s unlikely it’ll ever happen again so I’ll just love myself a bit more.

It’ll come. Rooting for you. "

Ahh thanks Mr Sandwich

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.

Brrrr…oh, so cold.

I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.

Love me!

Needy much

Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack.

. More snuggles and treats.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes."

You’re loved. Whether you care or not.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.

Brrrr…oh, so cold.

I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.

Love me!

Needy much

Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack.

. More snuggles and treats."

Can't argue with that. I'm just too cynical and jaded.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I am loved. If I wasn't I'd want to be

Yeah you’re alright. I like you

Do ya'? Aw thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am loved. If I wasn't I'd want to be

Yeah you’re alright. I like you

Do ya'? Aw thanks

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more than I my initial response suggests, yes

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.

Brrrr…oh, so cold.

I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.

Love me!

Needy much

Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack.

. More snuggles and treats.

Can't argue with that. I'm just too cynical and jaded."

Are there blinds on your windows, a bottle of whisky in your bottom drawer and a lingering pain behind your eyes?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

What a great question !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What a great question !"

My best yet I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worshipped maybe.

Loved, nah, gets messy.

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By *essieScottCouple
over a year ago

Tilbury

They love me, they really love me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I care. I think I am now difficult to love or fall in love with etc.

Love is beautiful so why wouldn’t I want it, but I would manage without it. Loving someone fills the void of now feeling loved myself.

And I have children, so that helps with things I suppose.

*Now can we have some of the more ridiculous questions in here again?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Tell me

& Guess which one I want.

Promise this is my last thread of the weekend

We all want to be loved …so I’d be surprised if you didn’t.

I’ve always been a bit of a loner who needs company as well. So a mixture of being loved but also freedom to be loner self is a necessity in my life.

Love is lovely but freedom is everything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am loved and I am in love

NBVN x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Nah, love is overrated and I certainly do not need anybody.

Brrrr…oh, so cold.

I’m a love slut: I love my other half. I love my family. I love my friends. I love my work colleagues. I love the people who run my corner shop. I love anyone who brings me waffles.

Love me!

Needy much

Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack.

. More snuggles and treats.

Can't argue with that. I'm just too cynical and jaded.

Are there blinds on your windows, a bottle of whisky in your bottom drawer and a lingering pain behind your eyes?"

No, no and yes. But only because I'm tired. Why?

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Unconditional love from my family yes

But love from a intimate relationship no thankyou not yet

Was loved once and got seriously hurt in the process ...there's only so much my heart can can take

So for now it's light hearted NSA fun with FWB's..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to love & be loved...

But it always ends in tears..

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

By family yes by a sexual partner deffo not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am loved so I don’t want to be loved by anyone else. So put me in the don’t care group.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Always. I want to be the cool lone wolf, hair streaming behind her as she stares into the horizon from her motorbike on the side of a vacant highway but I know I’m happier in a pack.

. More snuggles and treats.

Can't argue with that. I'm just too cynical and jaded.

Are there blinds on your windows, a bottle of whisky in your bottom drawer and a lingering pain behind your eyes?

No, no and yes. But only because I'm tired. Why?"

Because I’d cast you in the film noir in my head as the world-weary PI who’s seen it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t care I love me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With love inevitably comes heartache.

Also, actual true love is pretty rare. It's usually just lust and infatuation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With love inevitably comes heartache.

Also, actual true love is pretty rare. It's usually just lust and infatuation. "

God this makes me feel positive about my partner of 8 years.

But we’re all loved by people- romantically, platonically, maternally, paternally etc. Whether we care I guess is different? I suppose we all care a bit but you know?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I don't require love although I like human contact.

I'm sure my sister and nephew love me though.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Absolutely, i would love to be loved. But not what im looking for right now. And definitely not here, lol. X

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I think I’m a difficult person to love. I don’t need it or particularly want it, it complicates things.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I’m easy to love but I don’t really care about being loved.

My kids love me,

that’s enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not anymore, always fall for someone before I get to know their true intentions, not looking for love and don't want to be loved and before anyone else chips in I've got a face only my mother can love!

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Tell me

& Guess which one I want.

Promise this is my last thread of the weekend

Love please

Also the weekend only just started so I don’t believe your promise

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Everyone wants to be loved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely, i would love to be loved. But not what im looking for right now. And definitely not here, lol. X"

Something tells me you’re loved A LOT.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell me

& Guess which one I want.

Promise this is my last thread of the weekend

Love please

Also the weekend only just started so I don’t believe your promise

I’m gonna try but who will do my daily ‘are you a X or a Y’ threads

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I am loved, I love being loved and I love very much too

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

My family and friends love me and that's enough, I spent many years placing way too much importance on being loved by a partner

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Tell me

& Guess which one I want.

Promise this is my last thread of the weekend

Love please

Also the weekend only just started so I don’t believe your promise

I’m gonna try but who will do my daily ‘are you a X or a Y’ threads

Don’t be a quitter! I like those threads

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

I was loved,I’m not anymore,but oh to be loved again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I wouldn’t look for love on fab.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Na I never want and I don't care as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a difference between in Love with someone and to love someone ..tbh would l place my heart in a position to have someone just rip it to pieces , don't think so , when you have been in that position you never want to go there again, try having your heart ripped out ..not nice ..not easy ..never was ..never will be .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be honest, like being real, I don’t want to die with more people not liking me than liking or loving me. And it may seem stupid but that’s where I’m currently at.

Also, I didn’t mean are you looking for Love on fab. I’m interested in you lovely people’s opinions on life beyond fab.

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

The kind of person that would love and accept my whole self isn't the kind of person that falls in love so I guess I'm impossible to love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was loved that will have to be enough il not let anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

We all need to be loved though not necessarily in a romantic sense. I could live without a partner's love if push came to shove. But not without the love of my kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to be loved always.

I can't believe there are people out there who don't want to be loved. I think you must have had to go through some very damaging shit to end up like that.

My life would feel so lonely and dark without love. I will always seek love. I wouldn't be alive without love.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I want to be loved always.

I can't believe there are people out there who don't want to be loved. I think you must have had to go through some very damaging shit to end up like that.

My life would feel so lonely and dark without love. I will always seek love. I wouldn't be alive without love."

It’s good to see you here today. And I’m glad you’re loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to be loved always.

I can't believe there are people out there who don't want to be loved. I think you must have had to go through some very damaging shit to end up like that.

My life would feel so lonely and dark without love. I will always seek love. I wouldn't be alive without love.

It’s good to see you here today. And I’m glad you’re loved

I think you're the kind of person who would always pick love.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I want to be loved always.

I can't believe there are people out there who don't want to be loved. I think you must have had to go through some very damaging shit to end up like that.

My life would feel so lonely and dark without love. I will always seek love. I wouldn't be alive without love.

It’s good to see you here today. And I’m glad you’re loved

I think you're the kind of person who would always pick love. "

Of course. Everything you wrote was beautifully put and I agree with it all. I live for Love and to hopefully spread it around a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe a lot of people who want to be loved as such are in fear of being alone. If this is the case is this really love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its great being loved....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t remember what being loved feels like. I’ve been alone so long I don’t know if It’s possible to feel anything like that again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can’t remember what being loved feels like. I’ve been alone so long I don’t know if It’s possible to feel anything like that again. "

Bless you. You’ll find it again. I really want it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was nice being loved but I didn’t love him back. I slowly got annoyed and was mean.

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