FabSwingers.com forum: Were you always honest to your parents?

By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Well.... were ya?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooooo, drinks, drugs, clubs, women. Nobody ever knew anything.

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over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

didnt have to be.....they were omnipitant and ALWAYS knew when i'd been naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't need to be...my little sister would always grass me up before I'd have an opportunity to confess or be found out another way!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, although my dad cottoned on I was nicking his fags. They had no idea what else I got up to, I was an angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nopes

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yep I actually was. My mum was (and still is) great, and I could always tell her anything.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I didn't lie but I didn't give them any information. We still operate like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance, no guilt here tho... the pair of them f**king shocking parents when I think back at their behaviour

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Dear God no - I was a terrible teenager, a complete slapper and a compulsive liar - got caught out a few times and took my hidings...still lie to Mam now - when I ask her to feed the cats when I'm off on overnight meets I tend not to mention I may be getting shagged sideways by all and sundry at a club or a party

I've had years of practise lying to my parents and my exes, think I've got quite a good poker face nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well.... were ya?"

Don't be daft! I had a Mum who was the clone of Mary Whitehouse. To this day she has NO idea of even a tenth of what I used to get up to... thankfully! Specially now she keeps a rather hard walking stick easily to hand....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

on the whole, yes.

although when I was 18 and home from Art School, came in and woke her up at 4am and asked if we had a torch to go to local park and look for plant cuttings

bless her, she did get up and showed me where it was.

sadly no plants, plenty mushrooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't need to be...my little sister would always grass me up before I'd have an opportunity to confess or be found out another way!"

Lol my big sisters were the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah always been honest. Even about being bi. And about swinging. They where not happy at all but not really arsed am openly bi and a swinger and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tell them everything so that they do not worry about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always, though I was a pretty good kid on the whole.

I got caught a few times doing things I shouldn't have though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am about some things, but not very open, I've always had a divide between my personal life and my family, if they ever dared ask about something I wasn't comfortable in discussing I'd simply shut them down and let them know it was my business not theirs.

Overall though I must say, I'm not a liar to anyone, I don't believe in deciet, one should either opt out of replying or stand their ground, lying is just for cowards & game players, even white lies are just bull shit deceptive illusions, anyhow I'm a believer in trust conquering all when respected and honoured

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I didn't lie but I didn't give them any information. We still operate like this."

Same as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't lie but I didn't give them any information. We still operate like this.

Same as"

Same here!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Well.... were ya?"
Yes unless there was stuff i didnt want them to know, then i just didnt tell em.

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By *umsuckMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

You kidding? One person I could NEVER get away with telling a porky to was my Mum!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

you must be joking she would of been 10 foot under. mind you a few coppers knocking on the door never went down well. but how things change, we are so close and she knows almost all there is to know about me

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By *ustme66Woman
over a year ago

tameside

mine still think i'm a virgin

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

But my mum had that freaky weird mother thing going on and always knew if we were up to no good anyway

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

God no!!! If they knew half of what I got upto they would have had me sectioned!!! Hence moving 20miles away at 16, happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well yeah sort of....

I was a good girl and have two close friends and we were inseparable. My parents knew I was clubbing every Thursday, Friday and Saturday night and they knew the clubs we attended. They knew how I was getting home and what time and my dad would wait up for me.

They didn't know that I would change from the respectable looking dress I wore to go out in, into the tiny leather mini skirt, fishnet tights, studded wristbands and belts etc.

I never smoked, slept around, drugs or drink so I was a good girl. I just wore outlandish clothes which were provocative and my dad would have worried if he thought the dreaded boys were looking at his sacred daughter

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Because I lost my Dad at a very young age, my mum became over protective of me.

Subsequently most of my teenage years were spent ducking and diving, hiding things from my lovely mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grief no. Love my parents wouldn't have wanted to upset them with my debauched teenage ways, and we were never a family for sharing to much info anyway.

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"I didn't lie but I didn't give them any information. We still operate like this."

ditto here

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Up until I was 16 I left school and went to college and found there was a life out there. Until then I had never been allowed out. So I guess I avoided the truth sometimes.Lie not really. She would have known

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Never they thought and still think I'm an angel!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like feck was I

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By *picenicelyCouple
over a year ago

third star on the right

Good god no! I wouldn't have been allowed out of the house! They went crazy enough over the things they found out/caught me doing.

Hubs has a completely different relationship with his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still can't get away with telling my parents porkies ..... mum suss's me in an instant, and dad relies on mums spidey senses.

Late nights with my school friends in the Palais or Coconut Grove in down-town Dundee and copping off with a click? NO chance!

My dad used to wait outside when the clubs finished and collect myself and my pals and drop us all off home.

BUT if he was on shift mum gave me taxi money ..... which we spent in the pub.

Of course that meant leaving the disco an hour earlier to walk home, with our clicks if we were lucky.

She never found that out and to this day I daren't tell her or she will cuff my ear for me.

That's the trouble with having parents who have done all the naughtie's before you ...... they know all the dodges, I'm the same with my kids now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both lied too them and been far too candid with 'em.

Like others have said, I can tell mum anything, so when she once said 'I don't want to know' I knew I'd gone too far.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

My lovely Mum believed I was a virgin the day I got married and sat me down and explained, that it may hurt. I didn't have the heart to tell her any different.

I do often wonder what she would think of her 'little girl' these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My lovely Mum believed I was a virgin the day I got married and sat me down and explained, that it may hurt. I didn't have the heart to tell her any different.

I do often wonder what she would think of her 'little girl' these days

You know what she would think.

She'd put it all to one side and still love ya like she did from the day you first popped out.

Mind you, you might have had to administer oxygen while ya did the telling tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way. Drink, drugs, women and occasional bi fun. My dad is too straight laced. My mum knew a lot of it, but found it funny.

On the flip side, she was a congenital liar, so no idea if what she ever told me was the truth or not. She died a couple of months back, so I will never know the truth about a lot of things I would like answers to!

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