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Would you tell someone if they didn't look the same as their face pic?

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

For instance they send you a face pic which they had taken 20 ago years, they tell you they are 40 and look 60, do you confront them about it or just continue with the meet.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

No I wouldn't be that cruel though I have shortened a meet for that very reason

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Was it a sex meet or just a social? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For instance they send you a face pic which they had taken 20 ago years, they tell you they are 40 and look 60, do you confront them about it or just continue with the meet."

I'm afraid my face would say it all to be honest. Hopefully it's a social meeting whereas you could stay out of politeness and then cut it short and explain they weren't what you expected given the age they claimed to be and the out of date photos. What else could they be lying about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err we’d rent mobility scooters and cruise the streets.

Then probably bingo.

I’d treat them the same as I’d expect to be treated when I’m 60 and lying on FAB about being 40.

You lot are so picky.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"Was it a sex meet or just a social? x"

Social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn’t mention it but I’d leave asap and wouldn’t meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it a sex meet or just a social? x

Social "

Wait, it’s not your post?

Was it you????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a change from people telling me they’re 35 and look about 15.

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

It says on my profile that I won't entertain people being disingenuous including pictures that are not an accurate representation so I would say something although I do always ask if I am what was expected.

I usually try for a videocall prior to a meet so this wouldn't happen.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Naa, but I'd ask when the pic was taken, so they know, you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For instance they send you a face pic which they had taken 20 ago years, they tell you they are 40 and look 60, do you confront them about it or just continue with the meet."

Happened to me on my second social a few weeks ago, I did say address it and she basically said her pictures are from 2010. Hence my insistence on a live chat now before a meet. She wasn’t offended about me bringing it up, she was fairly brazen about it to be honest, Out of politeness I finished the coffee we ordered but made it clear it wasn’t going any further.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

If my mouth didn’t say it, my face would!

If I was meeting for a “meet” I would never do so without a video call in the first place.

This place is full of catfish

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By *assycitygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I had this happen to me recently. The pic the guy sent must've been from 25 years ago. I didn't say anything to him about it though. I really did want to, but I didn't want to make him feel negative about himself as he was nervous enough anyway. I had insisted on a social thankfully so had a nice chat and left it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For instance they send you a face pic which they had taken 20 ago years, they tell you they are 40 and look 60, do you confront them about it or just continue with the meet."

If you haven't met or cammed how do you know that's not what they look like now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why tell them? And are they still hot? Some people look nicer than their photos.

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By *nhale exhaleWoman
over a year ago

North East

I’d tell them if they looked nothing like their pics or they were years old

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Was it a sex meet or just a social? x

Social "

I said hello and goodbye in the same breath. He had lied about his height, age and face pic. If I had stayed he would probably go on deceiving people. By going I hoped he would think twice in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is happening more and more often ...if someone turns up not as they say they are age size old pics then they will be bluntly but politly told and will walk away ... or they just carry on doing it .... people lying about age and using old pics to cover up is creepy at best and its not just guys plenty of women not being truthful ...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If they hadn't been honest about when photo was taken then I'd be concerned about what else they weren't telling me. I'd leave pretty sharpish if it was meant to be more than a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the amount of people on here using 40s/50s as there age but closer to 60s / 70s is massive ...

you only have to go to clubs to see the lies couples who have a few drinks and the storys dont add up to there age .... we had one guy talking about crashing his ford in 1972 when he was 21 this guy in on fab as a 50 year old yet do the maths hes 71

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'd continue with the social and make it perfectly clear whether I wanted to continue, after all some 60 year olds are bloody sexy

Disclaimer: before my inbox goes into meltdown. I am not looking to meet

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

This is why we always use to ask for a face photo taken alongside a copy of the day's newspaper, clearly showing the date. Preferably face on and side on so we could tell how long someone's nose was, as well as how much their ears stuck out.

I learnt all the best tips for life on Fab from watching such cinematic masterpieces as 'Proof of Life' with Russell Crowe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say and end the meet, unless they’re still attractive to me and continue the meet but I’d still ask afterwards what’s up with the outdated pics.

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

This thread is more shallow than a new born baby's bath water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is more shallow than a new born baby's bath water. "

I don’t think it’s shallow it’s just politely asking peeps to show the real them like pics in last 6 months is not a lot to ask is it? Just my thoughts anyways

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Don't think its shallow, just think people should be honest about their age's, don't see the point of deceiving people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I was in this situation recently and cut it off, new pictures and fab pictures were clearly taken years apart. If they deceive you from the start, what else is to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I was in this situation recently and cut it off, new pictures and fab pictures were clearly taken years apart. If they deceive you from the start, what else is to come."

This 100%

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Yes I was in this situation recently and cut it off, new pictures and fab pictures were clearly taken years apart. If they deceive you from the start, what else is to come."

Exactly this.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes, I would tell them, politely.

Though I suspect my face would already have conveyed the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It has happened to me and I did ask them about it.

He'd taken years off his age to get around filters, and had used photos from when he genuinely was that age.

I had a chat while I finished my drink but let him know it wouldn't be going further and I couldn't verify him as he wasn't the person he was claiming to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd discuss the pic somehow but have a very quick meeting. Then chat with some younger men

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope. It's just one of many reasons we have a social only meet first.

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