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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well… more confusing really

So you see someone who catches your eye on here, you start chatting, exchange numbers and eventually get around to meeting… great stuff…

Everything is going great, you meet a few times more… she stays over the odd night etc

Now… this is the part I need help with… I now have a pink toothbrush and ladies Gillette razor in my bathroom… which has been left in my toothbrush holder and in my shower cubicle… is this intentional or am I over thinking things?… like what does it even mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got her pregnant and she's dropping hints she needs to move in.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

She takes oral hygiene seriously and doesn’t suit a beard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You got her pregnant and she's dropping hints she needs to move in. "

Hahaha!!… DON’T!!… starting to stress a bit tho lol

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It means she's not using your toothbrush or your razor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’ll probably read this thread soon and let you know herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be completely innocent or she’s moving in with you next week.

It’s the oldest trick in the book, leaving something for an excuse to come back but it’s usually something of value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she has a beard you dont know about

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By *irBummyFingerMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"You got her pregnant and she's dropping hints she needs to move in. "

Lol funny

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Or maybe you trying to tell everyone your verified. Without being verified..

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

It might just be that she finds it convenient, rather than having to remember these items every time.

Unless you object to other people's stuff in your bathroom. I don't see an issue.

Maybe put them away in a cupboard when she's not with you.

;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I’m more concerned that it’s like being “official” without being “official”? if that’s makes sense?… like if she’d asked I wouldn’t have had a problem tbh but I dunno why just doing it is different? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’m more concerned that it’s like being “official” without being “official”? if that’s makes sense?… like if she’d asked I wouldn’t have had a problem tbh but I dunno why just doing it is different? lol"

It would piss me off. She should have asked. It's not difficult to chuck a razor etc in a bag if staying over.

I'd bin them without saying anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’m more concerned that it’s like being “official” without being “official”? if that’s makes sense?… like if she’d asked I wouldn’t have had a problem tbh but I dunno why just doing it is different? lol"

I hear weddings on South Shields beach are nice in the summer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's booked the wedding venue

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Could be completely innocent or she’s moving in with you next week.

It’s the oldest trick in the book, leaving something for an excuse to come back but it’s usually something of value."

So , you don't value your own pink toothbrush? I do mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Menopause brain fog

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I’m more concerned that it’s like being “official” without being “official”? if that’s makes sense?… like if she’d asked I wouldn’t have had a problem tbh but I dunno why just doing it is different? lol

I hear weddings on South Shields beach are nice in the summer "

Hahaha… absolutely not!!… reception in The Grotto? LOL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well… more confusing really

So you see someone who catches your eye on here, you start chatting, exchange numbers and eventually get around to meeting… great stuff…

Everything is going great, you meet a few times more… she stays over the odd night etc

Now… this is the part I need help with… I now have a pink toothbrush and ladies Gillette razor in my bathroom… which has been left in my toothbrush holder and in my shower cubicle… is this intentional or am I over thinking things?… like what does it even mean?"

Yep that’s it , half your house will be gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well… more confusing really

So you see someone who catches your eye on here, you start chatting, exchange numbers and eventually get around to meeting… great stuff…

Everything is going great, you meet a few times more… she stays over the odd night etc

Now… this is the part I need help with… I now have a pink toothbrush and ladies Gillette razor in my bathroom… which has been left in my toothbrush holder and in my shower cubicle… is this intentional or am I over thinking things?… like what does it even mean?"

She’s homeless and moving her possessions in such as they are

You’ve been staying at hers you just have matching furniture

You’re schizophrenic and she is actually you

You like pink stuff and want to edge out of the closet

Someone is living in a cupboard in your house and got careless.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I think I’m more concerned that it’s like being “official” without being “official”? if that’s makes sense?… like if she’d asked I wouldn’t have had a problem tbh but I dunno why just doing it is different? lol"

it's definitely not official.

She hasn't left you a lamp-post pissing verification warning off all the other single females on fab.

When she does....then you can start worrying.

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think I’m more concerned that it’s like being “official” without being “official”? if that’s makes sense?… like if she’d asked I wouldn’t have had a problem tbh but I dunno why just doing it is different? lol"

Why don't you ask her?

Saying nothing is acceptance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’m more concerned that it’s like being “official” without being “official”? if that’s makes sense?… like if she’d asked I wouldn’t have had a problem tbh but I dunno why just doing it is different? lol

I hear weddings on South Shields beach are nice in the summer

Hahaha… absolutely not!!… reception in The Grotto? LOL!"

Go for a curry along Sea Road after. Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the old big bang facebook status all over again shes already moved in

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London


"She’ll probably read this thread soon and let you know herself "

This is a good point. If you met her on here then she will read this thread. Not sure I would feel great if it was me

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"She’ll probably read this thread soon and let you know herself

This is a good point. If you met her on here then she will read this thread. Not sure I would feel great if it was me"

He has no verification though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She’ll probably read this thread soon and let you know herself

This is a good point. If you met her on here then she will read this thread. Not sure I would feel great if it was me

He has no verification though"

She isn’t verified either… I can tell you who it is if you want tho? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She’ll probably read this thread soon and let you know herself

This is a good point. If you met her on here then she will read this thread. Not sure I would feel great if it was me

He has no verification though

She isn’t verified either… I can tell you who it is if you want tho? lol"

Is she in your pics?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"She’ll probably read this thread soon and let you know herself

This is a good point. If you met her on here then she will read this thread. Not sure I would feel great if it was me

He has no verification though

She isn’t verified either… I can tell you who it is if you want tho? lol

Is she in your pics?"

I thought that was two guys....

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She’ll probably read this thread soon and let you know herself

This is a good point. If you met her on here then she will read this thread. Not sure I would feel great if it was me

He has no verification though

She isn’t verified either… I can tell you who it is if you want tho? lol

Is she in your pics?

I thought that was two guys....

A"

lol… no and no

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"Well… more confusing really

So you see someone who catches your eye on here, you start chatting, exchange numbers and eventually get around to meeting… great stuff…

Everything is going great, you meet a few times more… she stays over the odd night etc

Now… this is the part I need help with… I now have a pink toothbrush and ladies Gillette razor in my bathroom… which has been left in my toothbrush holder and in my shower cubicle… is this intentional or am I over thinking things?… like what does it even mean?"

When's the wedding ...and where's my invite ...

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