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You don't hear the term 'player' used much anymore...

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

... why is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos we dont have vinyl records anymore???? sorry

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I use it, but then I'm old. All the men I have described as players get a bit het up and annoyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a player, I've been playing with myself for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do on trash tv but thats trash tv chavs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuz players a hip term used by hip people. and u aint hip

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I use it ( not on myself I may add)

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"cuz players a hip term used by hip people. and u aint hip "

Oh my dear... a player is a term which has been used on swinging sites for longer than you have had pubes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still use it, maybe its my age

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By *hite SnakeMan
over a year ago

leeds

We're Leeds fans we havent seen a decent player for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so whats a player in the swinging scene then? someone that doesnt tell meets about his other meets

or is it a different terminology all-together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cuz players a hip term used by hip people. and u aint hip

Oh my dear... a player is a term which has been used on swinging sites for longer than you have had pubes."
What are pubes?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

In or out of the scene?

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"In or out of the scene?"

In

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I dont use the chat rooms on here but I did on another site and you saw it all the time....

Its more a term used when chatting, online or in the flesh...

It makes me laugh when I hear/see women (its usually them saying it) about some guy just because he would start chatting to someone else!....Its a sex/swingers site, wtf do they expect??

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I retired

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"In or out of the scene?

In"
I have only heard it used in reference to single males who dare to have fucked a few women, me...i dont believe you can have a "player" in the swinging world. Its NSA sex isnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That term has been played out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont use the chat rooms on here but I did on another site and you saw it all the time....

Its more a term used when chatting, online or in the flesh...

It makes me laugh when I hear/see women (its usually them saying it) about some guy just because he would start chatting to someone else!....Its a sex/swingers site, wtf do they expect??"

agreed...I think some call it bedknotchers now, or 'dont sleep with everyone on the site,and u shouldn't either'

I'll do what I fucking like thanks

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"In or out of the scene?

InI have only heard it used in reference to single males who dare to have fucked a few women, me...i dont believe you can have a "player" in the swinging world. Its NSA sex isnt it?"

Now you see I always argued that the way a lot of females used the word... pretty much as you described... was foolish and there was nothing wrong with being a player.

But I always understood it as being a slightly different meaning.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"In or out of the scene?

InI have only heard it used in reference to single males who dare to have fucked a few women, me...i dont believe you can have a "player" in the swinging world. Its NSA sex isnt it?

Now you see I always argued that the way a lot of females used the word... pretty much as you described... was foolish and there was nothing wrong with being a player.

But I always understood it as being a slightly different meaning.

"
What they lead the females into thinking it isnt just NSA sex?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I always thought it was used as a way of describing, someone's approach to getting their nsa sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PUA / Sarging

;)

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Player has become pejorative.

It was never a compliment but it had an acceptable (in some quarters) nudge-nudge, wink-wink acceptability about it.

That's gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like football and also play the game...does that make me a player?

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"In or out of the scene?

InI have only heard it used in reference to single males who dare to have fucked a few women, me...i dont believe you can have a "player" in the swinging world. Its NSA sex isnt it?

Now you see I always argued that the way a lot of females used the word... pretty much as you described... was foolish and there was nothing wrong with being a player.

But I always understood it as being a slightly different meaning.

What they lead the females into thinking it isnt just NSA sex?"

That or say what they need to say to have their target and then move their sights on to the next.... so yeah stringing people along is part of it.

A player because it's all a game scoring and a game pof scoring with no rules.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"In or out of the scene?

InI have only heard it used in reference to single males who dare to have fucked a few women, me...i dont believe you can have a "player" in the swinging world. Its NSA sex isnt it?

Now you see I always argued that the way a lot of females used the word... pretty much as you described... was foolish and there was nothing wrong with being a player.

But I always understood it as being a slightly different meaning.

What they lead the females into thinking it isnt just NSA sex?

That or say what they need to say to have their target and then move their sights on to the next.... so yeah stringing people along is part of it.

A player because it's all a game scoring and a game pof scoring with no rules."

That is how I would use the term

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"In or out of the scene?

InI have only heard it used in reference to single males who dare to have fucked a few women, me...i dont believe you can have a "player" in the swinging world. Its NSA sex isnt it?

Now you see I always argued that the way a lot of females used the word... pretty much as you described... was foolish and there was nothing wrong with being a player.

But I always understood it as being a slightly different meaning.

What they lead the females into thinking it isnt just NSA sex?

That or say what they need to say to have their target and then move their sights on to the next.... so yeah stringing people along is part of it.

A player because it's all a game scoring and a game pof scoring with no rules.

That is how I would use the term"

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the term was used when one sex would turn on the charm and be emotionally driven to say all the great things they could to seduce the other party for meaningless sex.. Leading the person to believe it was worth more than just a fling.

often doing it to countless others at the same time

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"We're Leeds fans we havent seen a decent player for years."

You see at least 11 of them twice a year

*sorry hijack over*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the term was used when one sex would turn on the charm and be emotionally driven to say all the great things they could to seduce the other party for meaningless sex.. Leading the person to believe it was worth more than just a fling.

often doing it to countless others at the same time"

love u babe..and no...of course havent been talking to other women..I'm not like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always interpreted a "player" is someone who is manipulative, as in playing one person against another etc...

However, I could be wrong.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

[Removed by poster at 26/10/12 00:48:50]

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You 'could' be, but you're not.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Is there such a thing as a player? Or just silly people who believe everything they are told?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Some people believe what the text in profiles says, despite the evidence of the attached photographs.

They believe the 'professional' adjective on profiles despite the obvious fact some members struggle with basic spelling and have no awareness of grammar or punctuation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people believe what the text in profiles says, despite the evidence of the attached photographs.

They believe the 'professional' adjective on profiles despite the obvious fact some members struggle with basic spelling and have no awareness of grammar or punctuation."

zatroo?

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