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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay, I've been using this site now on and off for the last four years and a few times I have published my profile without pictures and had some really good conversations sharing interests and things I like doing or we like doing. (good connection very compatible) with a strong possibility of meeting up, telephone numbers exchanged, etc.

soon as they see my mug, my face pic. everything seems to go pear-shaped and they lose interest, Ghosting, etc.

I'm not searching for sympathy or the attempt to be more popular by meeting up. This is just a real example of what I have experienced and asking if anybody else has the same type of experience.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not has that but I do have my face up all time ! Maybe u could send a face pic earlier in the conversation ? Save getting invested in chat etc ? Just an idea? X

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think it’s an ‘occupational hazard’ of being on here. The first thing we generally here are bodies, often with genitals included free of charge.

What’s normally a mystery isn’t, immediately; so I think many will create a fantasy face to top off what they have seen and given the overall variation in faces is bigger than naughty bits (they’re all pretty much the same), the chance for your face to not fit the ‘fantasy’ is higher….and that is probably where it goes wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons junk is another persons treasure n all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to be blunt just one off my blunt days

And hate say it this way or brake in to you this way

But most of not anyone who is genuine

Isn’t really going to talk to a blank profile with no pics

What’s happened here

Is you more than likely been talking to someone who was just after a keyboard wank

Over interest they like or fantasy about

and probably had 0 intentions off meeting you at all

as I know my self I wouldn’t talk to a blank profile even if they pm me pics

As it wouldn’t even get that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are desperate to fill my wet hole yet they disappear when I send a pic.

They have some weird wank over the fact my friends pics are porn star hot then get sad when they realise they are not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This happened to us very early on our swinging career. We got chatting to a guy on another site over the weekend, for some reason that escapes me he couldn't send a face picture until Monday. We chatted a lot and swapped fantasies etc. Unfortunately when he sent photos the attraction wasn't there for me. He was disappointed obviously and we felt awful. Since then we always make it clear from the start that there will be no sex chat and no guarantee of anything more than friends even after we've met in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happened to us very early on our swinging career. We got chatting to a guy on another site over the weekend, for some reason that escapes me he couldn't send a face picture until Monday. We chatted a lot and swapped fantasies etc. Unfortunately when he sent photos the attraction wasn't there for me. He was disappointed obviously and we felt awful. Since then we always make it clear from the start that there will be no sex chat and no guarantee of anything more than friends even after we've met in person."
career

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Usually the opposite, they see my chubby body and we hardly get messaged. Face pics and it's not so bad

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This happened to us very early on our swinging career. We got chatting to a guy on another site over the weekend, for some reason that escapes me he couldn't send a face picture until Monday. We chatted a lot and swapped fantasies etc. Unfortunately when he sent photos the attraction wasn't there for me. He was disappointed obviously and we felt awful. Since then we always make it clear from the start that there will be no sex chat and no guarantee of anything more than friends even after we've met in person.career "

it's a serious matter. There's a professional body and everything

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

w

I actually think your a fairly good look bloke OP so if this is happening, pay it no attention.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I actually think your a fairly good look bloke OP so if this is happening, pay it no attention."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seem like a handsome chap, not sure why it would be a deal breaker

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Ohh yes see u have a pic! Very handsome I would say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happened to us very early on our swinging career. We got chatting to a guy on another site over the weekend, for some reason that escapes me he couldn't send a face picture until Monday. We chatted a lot and swapped fantasies etc. Unfortunately when he sent photos the attraction wasn't there for me. He was disappointed obviously and we felt awful. Since then we always make it clear from the start that there will be no sex chat and no guarantee of anything more than friends even after we've met in person.career

it's a serious matter. There's a professional body and everything "
oh ofcourse is it the british and universal monitoring and management of erotic and raunchy swingers better known as the b.u.m.m.e.r.s who are still running things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay, I've been using this site now on and off for the last four years and a few times I have published my profile without pictures and had some really good conversations sharing interests and things I like doing or we like doing. (good connection very compatible) with a strong possibility of meeting up, telephone numbers exchanged, etc.

soon as they see my mug, my face pic. everything seems to go pear-shaped and they lose interest, Ghosting, etc.

I'm not searching for sympathy or the attempt to be more popular by meeting up. This is just a real example of what I have experienced and asking if anybody else has the same type of experience."

Some people here are into attractive people only , it's not you , it's just that's what they themselves want ,there is no hard and fast rule , you're damned if you do and damned if you don't , the main thing is not to take anything..and l mean anything here seriously..it's not good for you if you do , most on here are faceless strangers who you may never meet so enjoy yourself and have fun but the most important person here is yourself , don't ever forget that , whoever logs on here are the most important person in their lives .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Okay, I've been using this site now on and off for the last four years and a few times I have published my profile without pictures and had some really good conversations sharing interests and things I like doing or we like doing. (good connection very compatible) with a strong possibility of meeting up, telephone numbers exchanged, etc.

soon as they see my mug, my face pic. everything seems to go pear-shaped and they lose interest, Ghosting, etc.

I'm not searching for sympathy or the attempt to be more popular by meeting up. This is just a real example of what I have experienced and asking if anybody else has the same type of experience.

Some people here are into attractive people only , it's not you , it's just that's what they themselves want ,there is no hard and fast rule , you're damned if you do and damned if you don't , the main thing is not to take anything..and l mean anything here seriously..it's not good for you if you do , most on here are faceless strangers who you may never meet so enjoy yourself and have fun but the most important person here is yourself , don't ever forget that , whoever logs on here are the most important person in their lives ."
I'm not easily offended, but I just curious if anybody else has experienced this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay, I've been using this site now on and off for the last four years and a few times I have published my profile without pictures and had some really good conversations sharing interests and things I like doing or we like doing. (good connection very compatible) with a strong possibility of meeting up, telephone numbers exchanged, etc.

soon as they see my mug, my face pic. everything seems to go pear-shaped and they lose interest, Ghosting, etc.

I'm not searching for sympathy or the attempt to be more popular by meeting up. This is just a real example of what I have experienced and asking if anybody else has the same type of experience.

Some people here are into attractive people only , it's not you , it's just that's what they themselves want ,there is no hard and fast rule , you're damned if you do and damned if you don't , the main thing is not to take anything..and l mean anything here seriously..it's not good for you if you do , most on here are faceless strangers who you may never meet so enjoy yourself and have fun but the most important person here is yourself , don't ever forget that , whoever logs on here are the most important person in their lives . I'm not easily offended, but I just curious if anybody else has experienced this."
being rejected by strangers is like being hit in the face with a feather as long as it dont make you blind all is good

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This is why I always ask for a face pic first.

Avoids disappointment down the line.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This happened to us very early on our swinging career. We got chatting to a guy on another site over the weekend, for some reason that escapes me he couldn't send a face picture until Monday. We chatted a lot and swapped fantasies etc. Unfortunately when he sent photos the attraction wasn't there for me. He was disappointed obviously and we felt awful. Since then we always make it clear from the start that there will be no sex chat and no guarantee of anything more than friends even after we've met in person.career

it's a serious matter. There's a professional body and everything oh ofcourse is it the british and universal monitoring and management of erotic and raunchy swingers better known as the b.u.m.m.e.r.s who are still running things? "

We are if course affiliates of that body but are also members of the society for helping aged goers and local older tarts. Or SHAGALOT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happened to us very early on our swinging career. We got chatting to a guy on another site over the weekend, for some reason that escapes me he couldn't send a face picture until Monday. We chatted a lot and swapped fantasies etc. Unfortunately when he sent photos the attraction wasn't there for me. He was disappointed obviously and we felt awful. Since then we always make it clear from the start that there will be no sex chat and no guarantee of anything more than friends even after we've met in person.career

it's a serious matter. There's a professional body and everything oh ofcourse is it the british and universal monitoring and management of erotic and raunchy swingers better known as the b.u.m.m.e.r.s who are still running things?

We are if course affiliates of that body but are also members of the society for helping aged goers and local older tarts. Or SHAGALOT. "

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Never start a conversation without seeing faces first.

If you send a first message, attach your face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly seems that my face pics are a turn off even if my body piqued some slight interest.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

o/p unfortunately women can afford to me more choosy. Just join in with forum/cam room chat and hope you get noticed. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"o/p unfortunately women can afford to me more choosy. Just join in with forum/cam room chat and hope you get noticed. Good luck!"

"Unfortunately" !!

Men just fuck whoever offers. Might be dry dick for another 20 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen worse on here… wouldn’t worry. People are dick heads on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get a new face.

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