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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cynical and jaded?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope I've enjoyed my fab journey mostly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so but it has made me wonder if the people sitting close to me on public transport (would) send good or bad messages

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"cynical and jaded? "

Both but lately amused on forums

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By *tticus Finch 76Man
over a year ago

Northampton

No it's all good clean (dirty) fun

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

It’s made me less of either. Yes there is a lot of sifting to do to find the right people, but at the end of the day it’s just a sex site. No expectations or investment.

Dating sites however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cynical to an extent, jaded no, wiser definitely

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Nutshell No....

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

No more than when i was on dating sites tbh. At least people who send the FAF messages here are being honest about what they are looking for rather than drowning you with their BS about wanting a relationship then doing one when theyve gotten what they wanted. X

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

No I've had lots of fun and enjoy meeting like minded peeps

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Lol no. It has confirmed my cynicism though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, not jaded, but experienced.

Cynical, definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No life did that all by its self fab is just a vent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so but it has made me wonder if the people sitting close to me on public transport (would) send good or bad messages "

I don't think I'd risk it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t say so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No more than when i was on dating sites tbh. At least people who send the FAF messages here are being honest about what they are looking for rather than drowning you with their BS about wanting a relationship then doing one when theyve gotten what they wanted. X"

I've barely met anyone from dating sites. I have seen others say that elsewhere. Interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums have yep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The forums have yep. "

The forums? Hmm. I'd say the 1:1 interactions I've had have here made me WAY more cynical and jaded to the point I've given up. But the forums give me life. Why do they have such a negative effect on you?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Absolutely not…I think some people make FAB hard work when really it’s just a tool to people connect with people…another avenue.

If FAB made me cynical or feeling negative I’d stop using it.

K

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Cynical yes, jaded no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums have yep.

The forums? Hmm. I'd say the 1:1 interactions I've had have here made me WAY more cynical and jaded to the point I've given up. But the forums give me life. Why do they have such a negative effect on you?"

To be fair, as a woman I would imagine that it’s far more exhausting interacting 1:1.

The forums are great but sometimes the opinions can be a bit depressing and confirm the shit things I feel about people. I just stay clear of serious things these days though I’m not even all that good at that. (I’m sure my opinions have the same effect on others by the way I’m not pretending that not to be the case)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cynical and jaded? "

In a way. I think I’m less naive though and less of a people pleaser than I was before. I can see through peoples shit and notice red flags more easily.

I’m less likely to settle or make do. My own pleasure is now my priority.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I'm more mature now

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s made me more realistic to the nature of women in general. Which I guess naturally makes me a little more jaded. Not cynical though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not…I think some people make FAB hard work when really it’s just a tool to people connect with people…another avenue.

If FAB made me cynical or feeling negative I’d stop using it.

K"

Yes, I have stopped using it in terms of meeting people (other than socials). I'm just here for the forum and friends. How do you think I am making it hard work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think so but it has made me wonder if the people sitting close to me on public transport (would) send good or bad messages

I don't think I'd risk it!"

Sitting on the District Line tube one morning and a guy opened his laptop to the porn that was playing on an open tab. WITH sound effects was a worse experience. Not for me though haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The forums have yep.

The forums? Hmm. I'd say the 1:1 interactions I've had have here made me WAY more cynical and jaded to the point I've given up. But the forums give me life. Why do they have such a negative effect on you?

To be fair, as a woman I would imagine that it’s far more exhausting interacting 1:1.

The forums are great but sometimes the opinions can be a bit depressing and confirm the shit things I feel about people. I just stay clear of serious things these days though I’m not even all that good at that. (I’m sure my opinions have the same effect on others by the way I’m not pretending that not to be the case)"

I definitely sense that you want to bring positivity with your threads. I didn't realise it was because you feel negativity about many things. Yes I do find messages pretty exhausting, so I just keep my inbox locked down pretty tight.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Life has left me jaded and fab has left me cynical. I always used to give people the benefit of the doubt but the more I see how some people treat others for their own benefit the louder my spidey senses tingle. It's good though because it allows me to be more clinical in removing people from my life and as such leaves for a more enjoyable fab experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's made me more horny and wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's made me more horny and wet."

Same.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"No it's made me more horny and wet."

And I think we have our strapline

For the poster

Fab has made me more horny and wet .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, it hasn't in the slightest. I'm less naive than I was but admittedly I did join when I was 21 so rather young. That's not to say I've not seen the less than pleasant side of people, I have. Even on the fora. At times I've taken extended breaks. Cried over behaviour directed towards me.

But, I've also seen the good. The kindness in people with no ulterior motive. The helping hand offered to those who need it. The good natured joking, the very real friendships that can blossom from here. The comfort people can provide, even on a "sex site". It's helped me realise that I'm deserving of love (in no small part down to my fiancé who I met courtesy of the site) and actually not quite as odd and unlikeable as I thought I was.

So yes, it's not a perfect microcosm of Utopia but my faith and hope in humanity, if anything, has increased thanks to Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times a bit

At times a bit more envious of the fun everyone else seems to be having or the confidence they have to try things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely not. If anything it has smoothed away some of my hard edges. You meet & talk to so many different people, learn about them , their likes & why and sometimes their lives.

Nothing is black and white, more grey come colourful, just take the time to talk, listen & understand. Plus leave the past behind and don’t tar all with the same damaged brush.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Somewhat, when friends unfriend, or people block for no clear reason. But that's probably mostly because I'll no longer be able to perv on them properly. Getting better at managing the disappointment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums have yep.

The forums? Hmm. I'd say the 1:1 interactions I've had have here made me WAY more cynical and jaded to the point I've given up. But the forums give me life. Why do they have such a negative effect on you?

To be fair, as a woman I would imagine that it’s far more exhausting interacting 1:1.

The forums are great but sometimes the opinions can be a bit depressing and confirm the shit things I feel about people. I just stay clear of serious things these days though I’m not even all that good at that. (I’m sure my opinions have the same effect on others by the way I’m not pretending that not to be the case)

I definitely sense that you want to bring positivity with your threads. I didn't realise it was because you feel negativity about many things. Yes I do find messages pretty exhausting, so I just keep my inbox locked down pretty tight. "

I know you do. I’ve noticed. .

Aww you notice my threads, what do you like me or something?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Definitely not. If anything it has smoothed away some of my hard edges. You meet & talk to so many different people, learn about them , their likes & why and sometimes their lives.

Nothing is black and white, more grey come colourful, just take the time to talk, listen & understand. Plus leave the past behind and don’t tar all with the same damaged brush. "

This is lovely Shortie! Very much how I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's made me more horny and wet."
want to share a towel?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Absolutely not…I think some people make FAB hard work when really it’s just a tool to people connect with people…another avenue.

If FAB made me cynical or feeling negative I’d stop using it.

K

Yes, I have stopped using it in terms of meeting people (other than socials). I'm just here for the forum and friends. How do you think I am making it hard work? "

I didn’t say you were making it hard work - I said some people do

I personally don’t use the forums as much as I did as I don’t feel the energy. Some people seem to want to use it negatively and there’s been some activity which I’d rather just walk away from

K

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Some forum threads have. But from a meet perspective? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Was always cynical.

My tolerance for bullshit has decreased dramatically though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life has left me jaded and fab has left me cynical. I always used to give people the benefit of the doubt but the more I see how some people treat others for their own benefit the louder my spidey senses tingle. It's good though because it allows me to be more clinical in removing people from my life and as such leaves for a more enjoyable fab experience. "

So you've come to terms with being more cynical? Or something you'd rather not be?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No. It just reminds me that my cynicism is well justified.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Life has left me jaded and fab has left me cynical. I always used to give people the benefit of the doubt but the more I see how some people treat others for their own benefit the louder my spidey senses tingle. It's good though because it allows me to be more clinical in removing people from my life and as such leaves for a more enjoyable fab experience.

So you've come to terms with being more cynical? Or something you'd rather not be?"

I embrace it now because it prevents me from being a doormat.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"cynical and jaded? "

Nop, just a realist... each human chooses to be the person that they are...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, it hasn't in the slightest. I'm less naive than I was but admittedly I did join when I was 21 so rather young. That's not to say I've not seen the less than pleasant side of people, I have. Even on the fora. At times I've taken extended breaks. Cried over behaviour directed towards me.

But, I've also seen the good. The kindness in people with no ulterior motive. The helping hand offered to those who need it. The good natured joking, the very real friendships that can blossom from here. The comfort people can provide, even on a "sex site". It's helped me realise that I'm deserving of love (in no small part down to my fiancé who I met courtesy of the site) and actually not quite as odd and unlikeable as I thought I was.

So yes, it's not a perfect microcosm of Utopia but my faith and hope in humanity, if anything, has increased thanks to Fab."

I'm very glad that it's been such a positive experience for you, Meli. Almost the complete opposite of my experience. But the answers here indicate that I am the outlier.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

More open minded

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No, I already knew what to expect when I joined.

At least there aren't loads of male scammers and Catfish profiles on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has brought me far more than it’s taken, and I’d never change it, but I’m definitely cynical at the moment.

It’ll change though, we all go through cycles I think.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nope not at all, I have met some amazing people on here and have a few more amazing people to meet

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Cynical I would say but then again I was born that way lol

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham

it’s turned most people gay on here just so they can sleep with another guys mrs that’s all I know

lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No not at all! I can honestly say I've enjoyed my fabs experience so far and been here near on 4 years! Come across a few knobs along the way in more ways than one lol! But not fazed me at all! I call it the knob filter! And learnt so much as well think I was a bit green to start! But yes love it here very much so! Met some lovely peeps and hope to meet more x x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Nope.

Just more confident and positive with life.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

Yes both definitely

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"cynical and jaded? "

In some ways but in others it’s given me strength and confidence so I’ll take the rough with the smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've been pleasantly surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me horny lol

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By *ewCoupl01Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin

We seem to go through cycles of it tbh. That said, I think the break over covid really rejuvenated our love of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

This place is full of wonderful, honest, rational thinking people.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No, just take everything with a pinch of salt until it’s happened….

Just like the real world.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I was cynical and jaded before, I probably increased the cynical/jaded quotient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cynical and jaded? "

Yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.

This place is full of wonderful, honest, rational thinking people.

"

Jebus

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Not really,I've always been cynical!

Mike

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"cynical and jaded? "

Not sure regarding either. Definitely more cautious and guarded.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

A degree of healthy cynicism is vital on here

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

For me (her) I was very naive 6 years ago when I first joined.

Now I see fab as an occasional distraction from real life and tend not to spend as much time on here, although I go through bursts of posting in the forums.

I wouldn't say I'm jaded by it. I'm just more careful with who I'll meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life has left me jaded and fab has left me cynical. I always used to give people the benefit of the doubt but the more I see how some people treat others for their own benefit the louder my spidey senses tingle. It's good though because it allows me to be more clinical in removing people from my life and as such leaves for a more enjoyable fab experience.

So you've come to terms with being more cynical? Or something you'd rather not be?

I embrace it now because it prevents me from being a doormat. "

That is certainly a positive. I'd prefer to be a non-doormat who isn't cynical

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A degree of healthy cynicism is vital on here "

When does if become unhealthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab couldn't of possibly made me any more cynical than I already was.

It has just reaffirmed my belief men are generally dicks though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I find fab’ a fun distraction from the troubles of everyday life. I avoid the stuff that would leave me feeling cynical if possible.

I have regular ‘unplugging’ too, to prevent that jaded feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cynical no; I was pretty cynical anyway. Jaded? Pretty much given up so I guess so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I became more cynical when I realised how widespread certain views and behaviours are in the forums, but that isn't fab, that's just the mood of the country outside London.

So no, not really any more than I already was.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"A degree of healthy cynicism is vital on here

When does if become unhealthy? "

When it crosses the line into being bitter and overly focused on all the negative aspects

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not at all I was already a realist, Fab is an amusement

I'm not easily offended and have a thick skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cynical for sure.

Ginge x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No, not really. I've always understood the fickle and sometimes unpleasant nature of the faceless people of the Internet/social media. So I've just always done my own thing and not really worried about the actions of others. After all it's hard to be disappointed if you dont expect too much of the site and just look to yourself for great things. This just a tool to pass the time, share information and make opportunities. And on the positive side I've met some great people over the years off here, often going onto meet in the physical world. Some great experiences, flings and freindships. But most importantly I found My Girl on here, see was made for me. So Fab has come up Trumps really.

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Good and horny

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"cynical and jaded? "
nope. Gleeful, I’d say. And more confident.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Totally…. Sooooo many lies…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm now aware there are more cockwombles than I realised

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Definitely not. I've enjoyed my time on fab.. obviously there are some good points being on here and also bad points.. both which I already have experienced but like everything else, you are bound to experience both at some point really but overall, it's been great really. I've meet and got to know some great people on here

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By *for2Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"cynical and jaded? "
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No, definitely not, maybe a little more realistic. But, in fairness I always have been a realist albeit with a positive attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A degree of healthy cynicism is vital on here

When does if become unhealthy?

When it crosses the line into being bitter and overly focused on all the negative aspects "

Hmm. Don't think I'm bitter, I just don't see the point of trying to meet anymore.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"A degree of healthy cynicism is vital on here

When does if become unhealthy?

When it crosses the line into being bitter and overly focused on all the negative aspects

Hmm. Don't think I'm bitter, I just don't see the point of trying to meet anymore. "

Which is absolutely fine if you're really okay with that

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"cynical and jaded? "

-The forum sometimes, not really Fab itself. It's a huge database basically.

It takes time, patience and a lot of Search sometimes.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

No fab hasn't changed my view on people in general. There will be people who are idiots and those who are not wherever you look

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Cynical to an extent, jaded no, wiser definitely "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no im me and hubs is hubs we dont allow thing like fab or anything else to be anything other than tools for the job its intended to do ...

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

It could, I suppose. Like any social media type... thingy.

If it feels like it might, I just go do something else. I'm probably pretty guilty of not paying attention enough to get too deep around here, though.

In my defense: there are a lot of distracting dongs here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, my career got there first

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

No, I've always been guarded with new people and trust my instincts.

It has, however, made me realise just how devious, and sometimes downright nasty, that some people can be.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Think I'm already like that... Just confirmed a lot of things I already thought!

It has given me more confidence though, so that's a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all I was already a realist, Fab is an amusement

I'm not easily offended and have a thick skin."

Sums it up for me also

C

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"cynical and jaded? "

Hmm for us, a reality check and highs and lows - a mixed bag but introduced us to some great people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always has fun on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn’t for me at all though I guess that is subjective as my block list grows every week

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By *hatty GuyMan
over a year ago

The Borough of St Peter

I don't think I've learned anything I didn't know. I came on here in a flush of post-weightloss confidence and soon found that confidence wasn't enough and it's as cynical place as anywhere really. The big fish eat the little fish and round we go again. I have made some friends though, and for that I'm grateful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could, I suppose. Like any social media type... thingy.

If it feels like it might, I just go do something else. I'm probably pretty guilty of not paying attention enough to get too deep around here, though.

In my defense: there are a lot of distracting dongs here. "

I find that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, my career got there first "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think I'm already like that... Just confirmed a lot of things I already thought!

It has given me more confidence though, so that's a good thing!"

Actually, me too. Yes that is a good thing!

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Erm it's definitely shown me that the world isn't very safe

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

It's made me far more thick skinned as I realise just how many unfriendly people are about and how many are so far up themselves they don't even realise it. However I have chatted with a few decent people here, written a few nice stories for them and I've learnt not to give a fuck because there are more important things in life. The block button is my friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm it's definitely shown me that the world isn't very safe "

Not sure what you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's made me far more thick skinned as I realise just how many unfriendly people are about and how many are so far up themselves they don't even realise it. However I have chatted with a few decent people here, written a few nice stories for them and I've learnt not to give a fuck because there are more important things in life. The block button is my friend."

Thick skinned is a necessity here but not grown overnight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ..ever ..take things seriously here..ever.

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