FabSwingers.com forum: What' your biggest worry when going on a meet?

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

What's your biggest worry when going to a meet or social get together?

Good evening all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random question marks appearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My social anxiety kicking in and finding myself sat there in awkward silence.

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Random question marks appearing

Too much sauce sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Random question marks appearing

Too much sauce sorry.

Ours is hoping their house isn’t a shithole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I got the address wrong

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Random question marks appearing

Too much sauce sorry.

Ours is hoping their house isn’t a shithole."

Or they have had too much vino

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Random question marks appearing

Too much sauce sorry.

Ours is hoping their house isn’t a shithole.

Or they have had too much vino

That too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’ll turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet?

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Never worry about a meet I've always got a plan b for if they dont

Turn. Up. And am confident enough

To have a successful meet if they do .but i wouldn't meet anyone I'd not got a meeting of minds with first and the knowledge for both what will happen. Next .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't worry about meeting people for coffee

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Well, ultimately my safety to be honest, you never know who might turn up or what their real intentions are. But at the time, im worrying about if they will fancy me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about a thing

Cos every little thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't worry about meeting people for coffee

But what if the coffee is too hot? Or it rains, or there is a meteor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the obvious I hope he isn't a psycho, I worry that they'd say that my photos look better than I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socially nothing.

A meet where sex will happen, there is 1 fear but I can't be arsed to explain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’ll turn up."

This!

Or there address is real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your biggest worry when going to a meet or social get together?

Good evening all."

Feeling awkward when you get there and there not being any chemistry

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"They’ll turn up.

This!

Or there address is real"

I've refused to meet a woman because she insisted on meeting in her home. I don't do that on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm Id worry if they had no chat despite decent banter online or that they portrayed themselves completely different to how they appeared to be online Or they were simply an absolute nutcase and my safety compromised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they are completely different to their online persona.. happened a few times to be fair and it's uncomfortable.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

That they might not turn up x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"That they might not turn up x"

That's mine too. I always turn up. Even if it's just a drink. I never go with expectations

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

There might not be devilled eggs as canapés

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

They’re nothing like their pics…

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"They’re nothing like their pics… "

I send a picture as I leave the flat showing what I'm wearing, including face. No surprises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nothing like my pics

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By *ezzie_xWoman
over a year ago

london

Hmmm depends where it is and how long we’ve been chatting??

Safety, them not being what they say they are. Turning up and there’s more than one person I’ve not agreed to or a dirty bathroom lol

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I'm nothing like my pics "

You’re way lovelier in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just that they will be there/show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm nothing like my pics

You’re way lovelier in person

Aw!! Thanks Saff

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"They’re nothing like their pics… "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re nothing like their pics… "

I've had this before, he had quite obviously lied about his age on his profile as well

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Is there a toilet close by is always my top ask.

Never mind what he looks like or if he’s hot to trot, I need the security of a working toilet within power walking distance.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"They’re nothing like their pics…

I've had this before, he had quite obviously lied about his age on his profile as well

Eurghhhh I don’t understand why people do this knowing they’re going to be rumbled in person. It’s grim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face mentally scaring them for life

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

They might be a titty fucker

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By *hisisthewayCouple
over a year ago

ipswich

"Dont worry about a thing

Cos every little thing..."

Is gonna be alright

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I’m actually sat in my car, waiting for a social meet.

I worry about all-sorts before a meet. I do always tell myself that the nerves are exquisite in a weird way, and very much part of the fun.

It works most of the time

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Biggest worry? That the childcare might fall through.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

The bit between chatting like normal people & then getting to first base

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social ? Apart from the not fancying enough issue nothing really

A more intimate meet? That they will murder me and chop me up for fun

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

That the connection id thought was there would disappear as soon as we met

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

My putting my foot in my mouth, I do this frequently and offend often and its entirely unintended

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Social ? Apart from the not fancying enough issue nothing really

A more intimate meet? That they will murder me and chop me up for fun "

......puts away Dexter DVDs

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"My putting my foot in my mouth, I do this frequently and offend often and its entirely unintended

You offend nobody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My main concern is that that they will not turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That he won't like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parking. Thats about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That he won't like me"

I imagine that that has not happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it's a trap !

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I can't say I really get worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That he won't like me

I imagine that that has not happened. "

Why? No-one can be everyone's cup of tea. And yes it has happened!

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Safety. Always safety.

Then once I feel safe the next worry is that they’ll not be what I was expecting or that I’ll be a disappointment for them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Nothing.

If I get murdered though, I'd prefer quick, rather than extended. That's just a practical consideration and I would definitely fight hard first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That he won't like me

I imagine that that has not happened.

Why? No-one can be everyone's cup of tea. And yes it has happened!

I think rejection and safety are massive for me, you know what happens if he says sorry your not my type….. and safety is massive for me too

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

At a group social, that it'll be noisy and my tinnitus will make it difficult to hear people. I end up sat there smiling and nodding with no idea what I've just been asked.

At an individual social, if I don't know the person, I worry about just why the hell they are even interested in me.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

The person walking ou when they see me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They find me funny

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Don't ever have any worries ...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only that they better look like their pictures or even better

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By *upersonic SamMan
over a year ago

wigan

As a couple it was meeting with a couple where one partner was clearly coerced, as a single it's exactly the same.

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"The bit between chatting like normal people & then getting to first base

Yes the who's going to make the first move bit, in my experience it's usually us ladies who start.

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way. "

This definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My social anxiety kicking in and finding myself sat there in awkward silence. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My social anxiety kicking in and finding myself sat there in awkward silence.

This

This most definitely.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

My only worry about meeting someone off here is if I don’t hit it off with them and they me! After you wouldn’t go if you were not hopeful of it all ending up in the bedroom at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably stilted conversation and me having to ramble my way through the whole experience. I never worry about people not showing up as I would just use the time to do something else like shopping or the cinema. If it was in a bar, I’d have a pint and then get on with the rest of my day

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

"They’ll turn up.

This!

Or there address is real"

I’ve had that, drove an hour and knocked in the door and a little old lady answered

I messaged them and they forgot they had just moved and gave me another address. Fuck this - Blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go round for Netflix and chill. For starters theres no popcorn or Netflix just a clean shaven fanny

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

That they have issues and are stalkers , have experienced this a good few times over the last 10 years

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

All of the above... I think most of those thoughts go through my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely that they aren't anything as they said they were

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Not being able to get a taxi after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way. "

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

If they will turn up

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Also that they are sober when I get there. Turned up once and she was in a right state and jumped on me immediately. Agreed, that’s what I was there for but like to ease myself into to moment

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say something stupid out of nervousness that totally puts them off

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Only that they better look like their pictures or even better

We've covered that in our profile

"Oh, and I should mention, if we meet you and you don't look like your pics you are buying the drinks until you do"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have generalised nervousness but no specific worries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I will randomly trip over in front of everyone

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Farting

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"What's your biggest worry when going to a meet or social get together?

Good evening all."

I don’t usually have any worries about a first time meet, social or otherwise. By that point, I’ve built a bit of a rapport through messages, and like to have had a phone chat (best way to find out if someone is genuine, and serious about meeting).

On the day though, they get 20 minutes to be late, then I’m out of there

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

They won’t look like their pictures and I have to do the awkward “I had a nice time but your not for me” thing

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"They might be a titty fucker"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

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over a year ago

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

If others are staring why not ask if they want to join in. Gang bangs don’t happen by themselves

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Like many women my safety.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Will there be

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

If there’s anything I’ve learned in my time, it’s that lots of guys have an amazing ability to turn all that weird shit off in public and really save it for in private. The most normal guys can really change once the doors close.

It’s one thing I think guys take for granted. You meet a girl and even worse case scenario you just walk out the door.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

That they turn up and that they will like me. Luckily so far they always have and they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That they turn up and that they will like me. Luckily so far they always have and they do."

SO FAR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m going to get robbed haha

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Never worry about a meet I've always got a plan b for if they dont

Turn. Up. And am confident enough

To have a successful meet if they do .but i wouldn't meet anyone I'd not got a meeting of minds with first and the knowledge for both what will happen. Next .

I'm exactly the same i always have a plan B

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

Yep.

But that's as likely to happen meeting someone IRL too.

The only solution is to stay at home and get a fuck ton of sex toys delivered monthly for the rest of your life.

Any human contact runs the risk of you encountering a psycho.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like to be on time.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Will they spontaneously vomit upon seeing me in the flesh.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I never worry about anything as there's no point, whatever crosses my mind may never happen.

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

Yep.

But that's as likely to happen meeting someone IRL too.

The only solution is to stay at home and get a fuck ton of sex toys delivered monthly for the rest of your life.

Any human contact runs the risk of you encountering a psycho.

As long as the delivery driver isn’t a serial killer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say something stupid out of nervousness that totally puts them off"

"Can i get a please burger, cheese"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

Yep.

But that's as likely to happen meeting someone IRL too.

The only solution is to stay at home and get a fuck ton of sex toys delivered monthly for the rest of your life.

Any human contact runs the risk of you encountering a psycho.

A’s got jokes and a hotwife..

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Having a no show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will they spontaneously vomit upon seeing me in the flesh."
genuinely laughed out loud

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

That they won't understand that coffee or "a drink" or in exceptional circumstances "an ice cream" is actually not code for "all the sexy shenanigans" and get moody when they don't get their dick wet.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

It’s one thing I think guys take for granted. You meet a girl and even worse case scenario you just walk out the door."

This is very true.

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

I agree you say this but mine is the same hoping that the couple don’t ruphe me and wake up with my arehole spread my fear for me lol

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

It’s one thing I think guys take for granted. You meet a girl and even worse case scenario you just walk out the door.

This is very true. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal safety. Hence very reluctant to meet guys who are “straight” as heard some horror stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That they won't be the person I believe them to be. Not in a catfish way, in a safety way.

Same

I worry about being hacked up by a weirdo

This worry stops me from meeting a lot of (probably lovely) people as the worry isn’t worth it

But is that likely to happen in Costa?

Yo-Sushi, maybe........

It’s not the socials that worry me, that’s in a public place. It’s the non social meets that scare the bejeeezus out of me. I’m too young to die

It’s one thing I think guys take for granted. You meet a girl and even worse case scenario you just walk out the door."

This is what puts me off!

I’ve also had a few messages where I’ve thought it was going well, they’ve seemed nice and normal, I’ve had intentions to meet, they ask to meet, I say “I can’t that week, I’m away/working” etc. they’ve seen it as a blow off and absolutely lost their shit!

I was going to meet that guy!

And let me tell you, they had happened more than once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your biggest worry when going to a meet or social get together?"

Have i got the right address? will any of neighbours recognise me? will the people I’m meeting even open the door?

All that makes me really anxious

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Personal safety. "

People have a personal responsibility to ensure their own safety and well being.

While I may make it abundantly clear up front we like certain things, it doesn’t reduce the risks for them or us.

We do what we can to try and alleviate peoples concerns.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Nothing worries us. We’ll have chatted to them, exchanged plenty of pics…so it’s just a continuation of the sexy conversation we’ve built up to meeting…

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