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By *ealitybites OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

No anger, no arguments, no name calling and just an attempt to have an open and honest discussion about male experiences and it vanishes in the ether.

Curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buried in the forums I’d imagine. If a post doesn’t take off quickly they seem to vanish.

I’d like to follow this though. I think it’s needed and overdue.

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By *ealitybites OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Buried in the forums I’d imagine. If a post doesn’t take off quickly they seem to vanish.

I’d like to follow this though. I think it’s needed and overdue. "

It wasn't my post and had 130+ comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Buried in the forums I’d imagine. If a post doesn’t take off quickly they seem to vanish.

I’d like to follow this though. I think it’s needed and overdue.

It wasn't my post and had 130+ comments "

Sounds brilliant. I missed it unfortunately

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

That would have made a nice change to read especially when it was about male experiences and no one decided to argue. It's a pity I missed it and a pity it got removed for whatever reason.

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm assuming this was about my post.

Woke up to read the intelligent and thought provoking conversations hopefully helping a few guys out in the process and poof... it's been taken off.

How strange!!

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By *ealitybites OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm assuming this was about my post.

Woke up to read the intelligent and thought provoking conversations hopefully helping a few guys out in the process and poof... it's been taken off.

How strange!! "

Yes it was indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male experiences of what?

Are you trying to steal my planned sausagefest?

Or as its better known Catan Friday

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Maybe someone thought it wasn't deserving of discussion

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I'm assuming this was about my post.

Woke up to read the intelligent and thought provoking conversations hopefully helping a few guys out in the process and poof... it's been taken off.

How strange!! "

In what way was it helping a few guys out?

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It would be nice to be told why as I saw no argument or reason.

Curious things are happening

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By *ealitybites OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Maybe someone thought it wasn't deserving of discussion "

That's what I took from it too or that it offended someone?

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Maybe someone thought it wasn't deserving of discussion

That's what I took from it too or that it offended someone?"

How though?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Maybe someone thought it wasn't deserving of discussion "

I remember the thread now I actually commented on it. It was a good thread and I didn't see anything that I thought that would make it be removed. Obviously someone else did tho. I thought it was actually good to see a male perspective without it turning into the usual slagging of men that tends to happen on here. It's a pity it was removed.

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By *ealitybites OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm assuming this was about my post.

Woke up to read the intelligent and thought provoking conversations hopefully helping a few guys out in the process and poof... it's been taken off.

How strange!!

In what way was it helping a few guys out?"

In acknowledging that not everything is as black and white as some like to portray and that people who demand an open and honest discussion only want one side of the story.

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Maybe someone thought it wasn't deserving of discussion

I remember the thread now I actually commented on it. It was a good thread and I didn't see anything that I thought that would make it be removed. Obviously someone else did tho. I thought it was actually good to see a male perspective without it turning into the usual slagging of men that tends to happen on here. It's a pity it was removed. "

It was full of intelligent men giving a really good perspective on consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on I was arguing with you wasn’t I?

Wheres the thread gone??

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Hang on I was arguing with you wasn’t I?

Wheres the thread gone??"

With whom?

There was an argument?

When did this happen?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules.

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Hang on I was arguing with you wasn’t I?

Wheres the thread gone??"

Exactly... vanished with no reason

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Maybe someone thought it wasn't deserving of discussion

I remember the thread now I actually commented on it. It was a good thread and I didn't see anything that I thought that would make it be removed. Obviously someone else did tho. I thought it was actually good to see a male perspective without it turning into the usual slagging of men that tends to happen on here. It's a pity it was removed.

It was full of intelligent men giving a really good perspective on consent.

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It was and giving life experiences of when their consent seemed to not matter,which actually horrified me as everyone has the right to say no and not have to worry about how the other person reacts when told no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like so many of the BDSM threads - I've lost track of how many of those have vaporised.

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules."

Does that happen? Would be good to have it back, if only to provide awareness that this happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on I was arguing with you wasn’t I?

Wheres the thread gone??

With whom?

There was an argument?

When did this happen? "

Me and Belfast had a mild disagreement I said more women were victims of harassment than men and he disagreed.

Suppose its mild theres another thread I jumped into where the argument is far worse.Their arguing over Indian folklore now

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules.

Does that happen? Would be good to have it back, if only to provide awareness that this happens. "

Wasn't it a hypothetical situation?

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By *ealitybites OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules.

Does that happen? Would be good to have it back, if only to provide awareness that this happens.

Wasn't it a hypothetical situation?"

The initial post was. The very real experiences discussed were not

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules.

Does that happen? Would be good to have it back, if only to provide awareness that this happens.

Wasn't it a hypothetical situation?"

Is that not allowed?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules.

Does that happen? Would be good to have it back, if only to provide awareness that this happens.

Wasn't it a hypothetical situation?

The initial post was. The very real experiences discussed were not"

I didn’t see it but if real experiences were discussed they often take threads down.

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules.

Does that happen? Would be good to have it back, if only to provide awareness that this happens.

Wasn't it a hypothetical situation?

The initial post was. The very real experiences discussed were not

I didn’t see it but if real experiences were discussed they often take threads down. "

Fair enough. Pity if no names were mentioned but can understand if it could be seen as guided towards certain people.

Thank you Nora x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules."

I commented in the thread. There was mention of a scenario that would constitute forced entry of an appendage into an unwilling participant. Might that have broken the rules?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It might be back. Perhaps Mod’s are cleaning it up if there were any arguments on it that broke rules.

I commented in the thread. There was mention of a scenario that would constitute forced entry of an appendage into an unwilling participant. Might that have broken the rules?"

Admin have asked us to remove threads that mention such things. That would be why

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