FabSwingers.com forum: What's this all about

By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's it all about, Aesthetic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"What's it all about, Aesthetic?"
I'm asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

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Well unblock me then!!!

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

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you don't have the power to close a thread I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

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Well unblock me then!!!"

Not until you stop sending me dick picks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can still interact on the forums even though you are blocked, you just can’t private message or view their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if people quote you directly then can they not get pulled up by Admin as they're trying to make direct contact? Whereas if it's a massive thread with various points of view you could argue it's more of a general discussion?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

Thread closed.you don't have the power to close a thread I'm afraid

You have no authority here Jacqui weaver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because they don’t want to meet you doesn’t mean they can’t reply to you on a public forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

Thread closed.you don't have the power to close a thread I'm afraid

You have no authority here Jacqui weaver. "

You have no power here, Gandalf the Grey

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"People can still interact on the forums even though you are blocked, you just can’t private message or view their profile

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lol obviously I asking why though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can still interact on the forums even though you are blocked, you just can’t private message or view their profile

lol obviously I asking why though"

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

Thread closed.you don't have the power to close a thread I'm afraid

Genuinely shocked by this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

Thread closed.you don't have the power to close a thread I'm afraid

Genuinely shocked by this."

He’ll eat his words once I get my mod badge.

It’s only a matter of time.

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"People can still interact on the forums even though you are blocked, you just can’t private message or view their profile

lol obviously I asking why though

Why not?"
because if you have blocked someone you obviously do t want to interact with that person but then you reply to their posts. Seems strange to me that's all

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it. "

Just because some one has blocked you (as per your profile request) doesn't mean they won't talk to you. Every day we interact with people we don't want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it.

Just because some one has blocked you (as per your profile request) doesn't mean they won't talk to you. Every day we interact with people we don't want to fuck

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people block others on the forum because they've posted something that puts them off meeting or interacting with them. Be it conflict of interests making them seem incompatible or personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it.

Just because some one has blocked you (as per your profile request) doesn't mean they won't talk to you. Every day we interact with people we don't want to fuck

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Your profile says to block you if they don't fancy you. Now I'm wondering if by not blocking you, you'll assume that means they do

. Maybe they don't fancy you but are happy to interact in the forums. I do with many people I don't fancy. Am I doing it wrong?

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it.

Just because some one has blocked you (as per your profile request) doesn't mean they won't talk to you. Every day we interact with people we don't want to fuck

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lol but do you go out of your way to? Ie posting on a forum

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Your profile says to block you if they don't fancy you. Now I'm wondering if by not blocking you, you'll assume that means they do

. Maybe they don't fancy you but are happy to interact in the forums. I do with many people I don't fancy. Am I doing it wrong? "
lol I'm alot more mature than that

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Because they want to. They may enjoy the interaction on the forum but don't want anything to do with you away from the forum, and that shouldn't be a problem for you. No point in wondering why people do what they do, they do what they choose to. End of.

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk

Oh Lordy

The little green arrow is proving its worth here for me.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

When we post on a forum or reply to a comment we are doing just that...it doesn't matter who the person is, it's the comment for discussion that's of interest.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

Thread closed.you don't have the power to close a thread I'm afraid

Genuinely shocked by this.

He’ll eat his words once I get my mod badge.

It’s only a matter of time. "

Fantasist

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

Thread closed.you don't have the power to close a thread I'm afraid

You have no authority here Jacqui weaver. "

Devastated to find out she really didn’t have any authority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have made some big assumptions. You state that people block others because they don't want to interact with them - that is a false assumption and I know it's false because I've blocked people for a variety of other reasons.

You also assume that the person replying on the forum remembers the fact they've blocked you. There are dozens of names in our block list - I genuinely cannot remember a single one or why they were blocked other than that it would have been for a good reason.

Other people's behaviour becomes a lot less confusing when you don't assume they think and react to situations in life the same as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it. "

Commenting on a forum has nothing to do with blocking someone that you don’t want to meet or don’t want to receive messages from.

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it. "

Don't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’d like twitter a lot more

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

You're probably too far

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I don't interact with people who have blocked me on forums as its against the rules! Got a naughty step for it once x

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

"I don't interact with people who have blocked me on forums as its against the rules! Got a naughty step for it once x"

You should have been spanked instead of nawty step lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I don't interact with people who have blocked me on forums as its against the rules! Got a naughty step for it once x

You should have been spanked instead of nawty step lol

Ooo yes! Love a spanking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it. "

Just because they block you doesn’t mean they don’t want to talk generally to you. Are you really that offended?

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it.

Commenting on a forum has nothing to do with blocking someone that you don’t want to meet or don’t want to receive messages from."
surely if this was the case why would you want to interact with them in a forum?

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"OP you have made some big assumptions. You state that people block others because they don't want to interact with them - that is a false assumption and I know it's false because I've blocked people for a variety of other reasons.

Other people's behaviour becomes a lot less confusing when you don't assume they think and react to situations in life the same as you.

Mr"
I totally agree life is all about perception what you perceive to be good others may not and so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it.

Commenting on a forum has nothing to do with blocking someone that you don’t want to meet or don’t want to receive messages from.surely if this was the case why would you want to interact with them in a forum?"

Not wanting to fuck someone doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t take part in an interesting discussion on the forum or be able to comment on a shared problem or experience, surely?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it.

Why wouldn't you though? Forum contribution is very different to private messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interacting on the forum is simply interacting with all on the forum.

A block from private messaging suggests they don't want to get involved in private messaging as a meet isn't likely.

Now, if they were openly flirting with you on the forum, that's confusing

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I’ve tried but I don’t understand the issue really. For instance I got blocked by a lovely lady yesterday after a brief conversation to suss each other out. I don’t think she was wrong to block me. That’s all good.

She blocked me as progressing anything towards a meet is not what she wants. Will she potentially comment on the same threads as me? Maybe. She might even comment about a post I put up. Again, that’s fine. But she doesn’t want me to message her privately.

If we all think about it, it just means we are expected to respect each other’s values, points of views and decision. I’m absolutely down with that.

It’s all good OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just reply to the topic not always directly to the person

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"People who have blocked you replying to your posts on the forum. Err am I missing something here? If you have blocked me why are you interacting with me via the forum. Don't get it. "

You can't send dick pics through the forum

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

They may have blocked you because you aren't what they are looking for meet wise to stop you both blocking up each other's local searches

But that doesn't mean you don't show up on the forums or they can't comment on your posts, they may find them interesting if think they have something valuable to contribute

You should never take a block on here personally, it's just another filter mechanism

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"People can still interact on the forums even though you are blocked, you just can’t private message or view their profile

lol obviously I asking why though

Why not?because if you have blocked someone you obviously do t want to interact with that person but then you reply to their posts. Seems strange to me that's all"

Thats what blocking someone means to you, but others block people because they don't think they'd be sexually compatable so don't want them appearing on their searches

It's like winks some people use them like a tinder swipe, if they person winks back they'll message, others myself included never look at winks

We all use different options on this site differently, none of us are right or wrong in how we use the site, it's just what works for us

Whoever blocked you may think you're a decent guy would say hi to in the street, have a coffee/catchup like chatting in the forums but isn't interested sexually, don't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the forums are just that, an open forum.

A direct message, isn’t.

Thread closed.you don't have the power to close a thread I'm afraid

Genuinely shocked by this.

He’ll eat his words once I get my mod badge.

It’s only a matter of time. "

So you like the who?

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