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By *nm014 OP   Man
over a year ago

nw

Been on here for some time now both photo verified and a Gold member but struggling to get genuine meets which will also lead to veris on my profile…. Any advice would be nice

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Patience

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Been on here for some time now both photo verified and a Gold member but struggling to get genuine meets which will also lead to veris on my profile…. Any advice would be nice "

You have to get to know the Search and reach out to people. spend a bit of time on it and it really pays.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

There is stiff competition

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Attend the socials. (Or do you have to be meet verified for those?)

If so, bombard the forums with banter until you click with someone

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

More dick pics

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to meet people ???

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

If you attend a social or a club, you'll be able to get verified, which will improve your chances.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Have you tried attending a club?

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By *nm014 OP   Man
over a year ago

nw

If I could that might help thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve got to think of your profile like your shop window.

That is the best way you can attract others online.

Otherwise get out to clubs and socials.

Socials are brilliant, get talking to people in person.

You have to put effort in at the end of the day…

All the best

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Talk to people that appeal not just physically but from what they say on the forums… genuine conversation rather than straight at it … it’s like a virtual nightclub.. sometimes you walk in and she’s there… next it’s 5 to 2 and the erection section songs are on and you panic… and other times you just enjoy being in the environment

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By *nm014 OP   Man
over a year ago

nw

Still new to this so not sure if I have the confidence yet x also everyone else who as replied thanks so much it means a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club.

Went last Friday for the first time. Amazing night, met some genuinely lovely people.. got verified, job done.

Can't wait fir the next one now

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

When you Search, make sure the people (ie women) you have tabbed or put aside to look at (best to use a PC for this if you can) can see it is you who has looked at them - remember though that woman here get a huge amount of looks. You might leave it at that for some people..

Others you might wink at (again women get a lot of winks) and some you might just say hi to (ditto).

At some point though you will feel the urge to write someone a proper message - spend some time on that, including it's heading (the thing they see in their email).

Also, women aren't so macho about not reading profiles, so spend some time on that too (it doesn't have to be huge like mine). Give a little of yourself, but always sound quietly confident.

A site supporter membership can show you are serious too (which it you have..)

Of course you can send your face pic in your message - that is much better than a cock pic to women.

If you are single, say so.

Id try and refrain from saying you are that bored, as it can make you sound a bit superficial and less serious about the the site (and any woman you might talk to) than is best to get someone's attention. There is a lot of competition on here!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Clubs. Always a club. Don't be sleazy or desperate. You'll also have a great time

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Mention the age you are into. At 24 don't forget about real life too!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Mention the age you are into. At 24 don't forget about real life too!"

(the real ages that is, 18 to 99 looks like you haven't thought about it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be hot

Be funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GOLD! Always believe in your penis soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazy that your gold membership hasn’t got you laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GOLD! Always believe in your penis soul."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gold member worked for Mike Myers.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Gold member worked for Mike Myers."

I think silver members have more fun.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

'Dick out in a car' pics always used to work for me when I was single.

I really don't understand why people aren't more interested?

A

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