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Would you be on here if you were in a happy relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m curious because I think if I was really happy with somebody and the feeling is mutual I wouldn’t be on here

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes. Because kink makes me happy and he would be a huge part of that

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

My relationship isn’t ‘unhappy’, we just want different things sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on here. I don’t meet anymore.

I’m in a relationship. Just here to perv.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nope. I’m happiest in a loved up relationship getting the shit fucked out of off me, in a loved up way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and an ex were incredibly happy and were active on here. Different strokes for different folks

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Oh hi

Yes, swinging is just an extra twist for us within our relationship.

We've had a lot going on family-wise lately so are not meeting just now. I find when things are difficult at home I want to pull back from swinging and focus on us. So I suppose the opposite is true in our case!

Mrs TMN x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I suppose it depends if both parties want to be exclusive to one another x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply’s I can see how it keeps the relationship from going stale x you’re all awesome

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I’m on here and happily married but not chasing anything sexually from other members of the site

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Our relationship and swinging are two completely different things.

We keep feelings out of swinging yet our relationship is very much about feelings and love.

Swinging to use is like seasoning on a meal.

Yes on its own the food tastes fantastic and it's completely fine,add some seasoning and it adds a little something extra.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Life and loving someone is very different to play when I have to bury my dogs or go in hospital it’s important to have someone in your life that loves you and will hug you very different to playing with someone for an hour or so just to unload

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By *uffsandCropsCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Our relationship and swinging are two completely different things.

We keep feelings out of swinging yet our relationship is very much about feelings and love.

Swinging to use is like seasoning on a meal.

Yes on its own the food tastes fantastic and it's completely fine,add some seasoning and it adds a little something extra."

Couldn't have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would be here if I was in a happy relationship. For some reason I always find myself back here after the breakdown of a relationship. Then leave when I feel I've found happiness - again

I've not yet worked out why I keep coming back. I'm sure a psychologist would have a field day with me though

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I doubt very much I would. because have been known to satisfy sexually and be very creative...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I’m happiest in a loved up relationship getting the shit fucked out of off me, in a loved up way "

Scatty mare!

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Werenin here because we're truly happy with each other. If we weren't then we think it could damage things between us.

We're so close, open and honest that this addition adds a little extra fun.

And if the fun stops, stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, not to meet though, and not secretly.

Mainly for the super mature chat in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our relationship and swinging are two completely different things.

We keep feelings out of swinging yet our relationship is very much about feelings and love.

Swinging to use is like seasoning on a meal.

Yes on its own the food tastes fantastic and it's completely fine,add some seasoning and it adds a little something extra."
I’d love to be your hot Chili sauce x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe, not to meet though, and not secretly.

Mainly for the super mature chat in the forums.

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lol really hope you don’t find my childish ramblings too offensive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am head over heels in love with Mr NBVN and our relationship means the world to us. Being swingers adds a naughty element to our already awesome sex life.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he was into it - possibly.

If he wasn’t - definitely not

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Hard to say as would never be in a relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm not sure to be honest, I came here because I’m single.

Now I’ve found it would I leave? Not sure I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m curious because I think if I was really happy with somebody and the feeling is mutual I wouldn’t be on here"

Kinda feeling judged right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m curious because I think if I was really happy with somebody and the feeling is mutual I wouldn’t be on here

Kinda feeling judged right now.

"

Why?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes. We are happy together and even happier when beating people together.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Definitely, and we would no doubt have a couples profile running together. I only enter into a relationship with someone who is as like minded. Once a swinger, always a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in a relationship and we are really happy except for when I am on fabswingers.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we are on here because we are in a happy relationship. This is the first relationship where I trust someone 100%, know I'm respected and feel free to actually be myself.

I would never so this if I wasn't happy. Mentally that would fuck me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be in a happy swinging relationship, but I wouldn’t prioritise swinging over the right person

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No. I just talk nonsense to mates here.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I met my now husband on here... works for us as we absolutely are 1st place for each other, but with a little twist here and there. Neither of us put a meet before the other and all are run by the other party. This is the best relationship I've been in because of the freedom we have both together and apart..... took me to 42 ti meet someone I'd even remotely considered marriage to at all

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes and we are here.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I am and I'm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlikely for me personally if I'm loved up, who knows that could change with the right person though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't be x

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have a happy relationships??

But also, I'd stay on here. It's a boredom thing.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We couldn’t be happier together.

The reason we are on here is because I haven’t got 2 cocks or a pussy and C only has one pussy

Doing this makes us closer…

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that depends on your relationship. Mine isn't happy so I'm on here but I have someone special on here and we enjoy the site together.

Would I like to be in a LTR with someone I loved, yes maybe. Would I still be on fab? No, not if they weren't into all this.

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

No!….

I was in a long term relationship until last September,I was completely heartbroken and I had no need to be on fab,but now I’m single,here I am!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I think that depends on your relationship. Mine isn't happy so I'm on here but I have someone special on here and we enjoy the site together.

Would I like to be in a LTR with someone I loved, yes maybe. Would I still be on fab? No, not if they weren't into all this.

"

And you have great lipstick testing skills.... apparently x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to be in a happy swinging relationship, but I wouldn’t prioritise swinging over the right person "

Definitely this. If I am his priority and he makes me happy but is not looking to share me, I know which I'd choose to give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't be in here if we weren't completely happy! It's too dangerous a game to play as a couple if either of you have a weakness on the happiness or self esteem side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long story but yes I am in a very happy relationship, it’s just one without physical contact ( yes she knows and approves of me being here )

My partner and I stayed together throughout my transition and we are more than the very best of friends but she is 100% straight so the physical relationship ended then so long and emotional conversations had to be had about both our needs.

I guess the question should be, would I still be here if she was the least bit bi and the answer to that is a very definite no.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Well we have been together over 30yrs,bn on here few years now.n we both enjoy it .the difference I suppose is love ,we love n trust each implicitly n never meet solo n it adds a bit excitement into our normal day to day life R x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Well I joined because of an unhappy (but open) relationship.

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

For me, the answer would be no. I would not be here if I was in a happy relationship. But that’s just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the reason we are on here is because our relationship is so good that things like swinging can be openly talked about ... you have to be a strong together couple to make swinging work if your not happy in your relationship then cracks will appear very quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not !

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I am head over heels in love with Mr NBVN and our relationship means the world to us. Being swingers adds a naughty element to our already awesome sex life.

NBVN x"

^^^What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

This is a red flag thread… in that I think it displays some of the feelings here that would see my running for the hills… because it’s shows up the difference people those who see it as an addition and those who see it as a replacement

Yes if there wasn’t an interest in sex then you would never have come here in the first place .. but it’s very a community and it’s the social side that will keep me always coming back….

It’s very much an addiction in my life, not a replacement for something I don’t have! … the thought of someone only being here till something better comes along almost makes me feel like I am being used!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a swinging relationship, if the relationship wasn't working because of swinging I'd prioritise the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that depends on your relationship. Mine isn't happy so I'm on here but I have someone special on here and we enjoy the site together.

Would I like to be in a LTR with someone I loved, yes maybe. Would I still be on fab? No, not if they weren't into all this.

And you have great lipstick testing skills.... apparently x"

Bought a new one today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't be in here if we weren't completely happy! It's too dangerous a game to play as a couple if either of you have a weakness on the happiness or self esteem side

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes, we are. This is just an added little extra that we enjoy doing every now and again.

If our relationship wasn't happy and secure then we wouldn't be here as it wouldn't be the right thing to do. The fact we are happy and secure means we can enjoy sex with others every now and again.

What we don't understand is couples who want to swing every single weekend, that spells to us that there are problems in their relationship. In a happy relationship you should want to spend a lot of time together just the 2 of you, not always looking for a 3rd/4th/5th etc person to join you. That is just our opinion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very happy and on here so yes xx J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm not sure to be honest, I came here because I’m single.

Now I’ve found it would I leave? Not sure I would "

Me too..

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By *erverseintentionsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Happy in a relationship.. ??? What is this myth ..if and when I do find someone ..I think I'll introduce them to this site and I'll be able to gauge from their response wether she's right for me or not .

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Would depend.

The forum, yes.

Fab for sexual use, no.

That would depend on my partner though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldnt be, unless she was interested in exploring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if we agreed not to be not like it matters iv the will to say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

No

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"This is a red flag thread… in that I think it displays some of the feelings here that would see my running for the hills… because it’s shows up the difference people those who see it as an addition and those who see it as a replacement

Yes if there wasn’t an interest in sex then you would never have come here in the first place .. but it’s very a community and it’s the social side that will keep me always coming back….

It’s very much an addiction in my life, not a replacement for something I don’t have! … the thought of someone only being here till something better comes along almost makes me feel like I am being used! "

I don’t think it’s a replacement thing, more like an intermission between where you want to be. Like if you go travelling and want to take in Scotland and Wales, but on your journey you spend some time enjoying yourself in England because, why the hell not. Then you carry on with your journey, but the journey has no set plan, no set destination. So you’re not seeking something better, just something different to what is set out on the map.

This made sense in my head

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

No, because I’m not a swinger and a happy relationship would be fulfilling enough for me in many ways including sexually.

I come here in phases, usually between (short) relationships. I don’t come here to use anybody, boundaries are clear in that it’s casual, mutually enjoyable sex. I also like the excitement of meeting someone new.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy, we just like sharing ourselves with other couples.

PW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're here because we're truly happy with each other. If we weren't then we think it could damage things between us.

We're so close, open and honest that this addition adds a little extra fun.

And if the fun stops, stop"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really just here for the forum and chat as I've ceased bothering to meet anyone. It would depend on the relationship if I stayed or not.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I suppose it depends on what your definition of a happy relationship is. If you've mutually agreed that swinging is a positive addition to your relationship then why wouldn't you be on here?

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X

I'm very happy in my relationship fab and the swinging scene just enhances it so plenty on here happy in relationships the most solid relationships can be swingers x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

In an ideal word I would be happy with one soulmate but equally it could include others for both of us with full disclosure both ways. It would not HAVE to be this way but it COULD be.

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