FabSwingers.com forum: my spare bedroom

By *nick52 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

i now live alone and have made my spare bedroom into a play room that can be used for people who cannot accommodate to use to meet others. Singles of both sexes and couples, its available daytime and evening and and there are no fees or involvement from me. Would fab members be comfortable using a room like this ,with discretion assured, or would it be a no go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose would have to meet you personally and your home to see how me or people feel around you first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, I would definitely think that there were recordings being taken

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Would not use it under any circumstances

You can’t guarantee there is no hidden camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you converted & soundproofed the basement too?

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i now live alone and have made my spare bedroom into a play room that can be used for people who cannot accommodate to use to meet others. Singles of both sexes and couples, its available daytime and evening and and there are no fees or involvement from me. Would fab members be comfortable using a room like this ,with discretion assured, or would it be a no go?"

Not to be cynical (I am) but what’s in it for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be cynical (I am) but what’s in it for you? "

A 30 stretch if things don't go to plan

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By *nick52 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

oh well looks like theres no trust and a lot of cynics around. Ofcourse people would meet me first and check out the room, it was a thought to help people who were in the same boat as i was when i couldnt accommodate and didnt want to use hotels . But thats life i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be cynical (I am) but what’s in it for you?

A 30 stretch if things don't go to plan

Ooof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well looks like theres no trust and a lot of cynics around. Ofcourse people would meet me first and check out the room, it was a thought to help people who were in the same boat as i was when i couldnt accommodate and didnt want to use hotels . But thats life i suppose"

Serious head on for a wee minute as I was being a wee minx there....Are you surprised that folk would be a bit dubious? There are a lot of chancers on here, folk having pics shared without their consent etc so it's normal that there would be suspicions about an arrangement like this.

If you get a couple that are up for it then at least if they verified you it would look better I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you did ask for opinions. So dunno why you're taking the huff

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

My serious cynical head on now. What’s in it for you? I don’t trust anyone unf

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Plus you have zero verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus you have zero verifications"

C'mon now. Give the guy a break. He's wallpapered and everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In theory, it's a great idea.

Many people though like to keep this side of things private and so will question the motive.

Being cautious or even overly cautious is nothing personal towards you.

I've seen it mentioned here to avoid Air BnB's because there have been cameras found in some.

It's a naturally cautious scene.

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By *nick52 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

I totally understand the trust issues and my lack of veris, this is my second profile i lost password to my previous one were i had veris for camming which i still do . But the lack of veris was due to the problem of me then being unable to accommodate so restricted chances of meets , plus the years have passed since i started on here and meets have dwindled . I was a regular at Adam and Eves in years gone by from when it first opened and there was even mistrust there at times . This was an idea to help get over the problem of not being able to accommodate for some and whats in it for me is keeping in the circle of swinging while everything is stacking against me , single, old , male , overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally understand the trust issues and my lack of veris, this is my second profile i lost password to my previous one were i had veris for camming which i still do . But the lack of veris was due to the problem of me then being unable to accommodate so restricted chances of meets , plus the years have passed since i started on here and meets have dwindled . I was a regular at Adam and Eves in years gone by from when it first opened and there was even mistrust there at times . This was an idea to help get over the problem of not being able to accommodate for some and whats in it for me is keeping in the circle of swinging while everything is stacking against me , single, old , male , overweight."

Are you not able to get back in contact with any folk who knew you before to get a wee verification or two?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I always assume people have some ulterior motive, even if they say they don't.

So in the absence of any answer as to what's in it for you, since you're not charging, you're not watching and it's actually costing you time and money I'd be very dubious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of happily used your spare room if it was London based.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s clubs, hotels, cars, secluded areas and plenty of others that can accommodate. What reason would anyone have to use a strangers spare room?

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By *ustmethistimeCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

Why would anyone choose to trust you?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Use a room in a random house with potential for recordings, no business insurance etc.

Erm no

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"oh well looks like theres no trust and a lot of cynics around."

That's it, the idea isn't good but it's other peoples' fault for being cynics.

Couldn't possibly be that they are smart enough to spot a dodgy option when they see one

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By *erverseintentionsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Send a gang of female squirters and some fellas with watersports and shit fetishes round ...see how happy you are to accommodate when you're jetwashing Piss cum and bumchutney from your potential walk-in wardrobe

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I bet the answers would be different if it were a woman suggesting it... lol

And where would you be OP? Some people might not be comfortable if they thought you were listening in.

Also, for your safety, how would you vet people? And what happens if they damage something, trash room. Risky for both sides unless done properly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, bugger em. Put a snooker table, dart board and a mini bar in

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?"

Probably get their pics posted on his profile

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?"

Do you really have a

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?

Probably get their pics posted on his profile

Oooo and a cut of advertising profits too.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?

Probably get their pics posted on his profile

Oooo and a cut of advertising profits too. "

£1 down the market

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?

Probably get their pics posted on his profile

Oooo and a cut of advertising profits too.

£1 down the market

Cut how many ways?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?

Probably get their pics posted on his profile

Oooo and a cut of advertising profits too.

£1 down the market

Cut how many ways?"

Three. Man's gotta earn a crust

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

OP.

It's actually a nice thing to offer,but flipping all the sarcastic replies thus far around.

Have you really thought about this?

Inviting people who you have no idea about into your home,them knowing you live alone.

I would be extremely careful if I was you.

You only need to chat with party organisers to know how disrespectful some people can be of others property.

Also you run the risk of randoms turning up uninvited and unannounced once they have your address.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Send a gang of female squirters and some fellas with watersports and shit fetishes round ...see how happy you are to accommodate when you're jetwashing Piss cum and bumchutney from your potential walk-in wardrobe

Haha

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?

Probably get their pics posted on his profile

Oooo and a cut of advertising profits too.

£1 down the market

Cut how many ways?

Three. Man's gotta earn a crust

Is it cash in hand?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Would the customers get a cut of the video or download profits?

Probably get their pics posted on his profile

Oooo and a cut of advertising profits too.

£1 down the market

Cut how many ways?

Three. Man's gotta earn a crust

Is it cash in hand?"

In the spare room, that's a kink

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