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how would you feel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your girlfriend/boyfriend goes on holiday, you give them consent to play away while on holiday, on the condition they tell you asap after its happened, instead they have sex with you several times and tell you over a week after it happened and after you asked them to their face if anything happened, how would you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had sex with you, I wouldn't expect them to have to tell you at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well if one of the terms of your open relationship was that you must be open with who you sleep with, would the fact that it took over a week for your partner to tell you they had played away not upset you?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd either be in an open relationship and not need the gory details or a monogamous one and wouldn't feel the need to ask them if they cheated.

So in answer to your question...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorta sounding ambiguous OP...sorry...if I'm reading it as , - they were given them permission to play

they havent wanted to tell when/who/where, and have pestered about it for a week- eventually they have gave in..possibly under lots of pressure and either told the truth or just made it up to shut up the person asking.

or

the filthy details are wanted for some sexual gratification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well if one of the terms of your open relationship was that you must be open with who you sleep with, would the fact that it took over a week for your partner to tell you they had played away not upset you?"

I wouldn't have terms like that, so I can't really relate.

If you feel your partner has betrayed your trust, that's a discussion to have with them.

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