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"I was the black sheep, always in trouble always getting a hiding for being naughty. They didn't want to know and were glad I never darkened their doorstep. I only remember the beatings til the day I left home. When I remember my dad, it's the beatings I remember. I guess everyone else thought I deserved it but it was beaten into me not out of me. Trust and anger issues. " ![]() | |||
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"In my opinion it's a mistake. And you normally will regret it. Remember...you can't get time back" See, I look at it this way. Time is precious, you don't get it back. So why waste it on a person who has only brought pain and anxiety into my life in the last 20yrs? Why not focus that time and energy on my partner and kids? | |||
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"In my opinion it's a mistake. And you normally will regret it. Remember...you can't get time back See, I look at it this way. Time is precious, you don't get it back. So why waste it on a person who has only brought pain and anxiety into my life in the last 20yrs? Why not focus that time and energy on my partner and kids?" Absolutely my way of thinking ![]() | |||
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"In my opinion it's a mistake. And you normally will regret it. Remember...you can't get time back See, I look at it this way. Time is precious, you don't get it back. So why waste it on a person who has only brought pain and anxiety into my life in the last 20yrs? Why not focus that time and energy on my partner and kids?" Totally agree that quote. X | |||
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"Hey all, get in touch I'm feeling naughty tonight...don't be shy ![]() ![]() Is this working for you hun? ![]() | |||
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"In my opinion it's a mistake. And you normally will regret it. Remember...you can't get time back" Would you remain friends with a toxic person? | |||
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"In my opinion it's a mistake. And you normally will regret it. Remember...you can't get time back Would you remain friends with a toxic person?" No I understand that totally. It's jus really sad when families fall out. Haven't seen mine for over 10 years and I am starting to regret it.x | |||
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"In my opinion it's a mistake. And you normally will regret it. Remember...you can't get time back Would you remain friends with a toxic person? No I understand that totally. It's jus really sad when families fall out. Haven't seen mine for over 10 years and I am starting to regret it.x" Well, every situation is different. If you are feeling a void in your life and thinking it might be due to this then possibly worth trying to contact them and build bridges? I felt nothing but relief when I admitted to myself that I owe my brother nothing and he brings nothing positive into my life. I don't miss him or think about him. If I did then I'd reconsider my actions. | |||
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"Hey all, get in touch I'm feeling naughty tonight...don't be shy ![]() ![]() ![]() He has posted this on at least 10 threads this morning, so I guess the answer is no ![]() | |||
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"Hey all, get in touch I'm feeling naughty tonight...don't be shy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm disowning him... | |||
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"In my opinion it's a mistake. And you normally will regret it. Remember...you can't get time back See, I look at it this way. Time is precious, you don't get it back. So why waste it on a person who has only brought pain and anxiety into my life in the last 20yrs? Why not focus that time and energy on my partner and kids?" Exactly, so true. xx | |||
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"In my opinion it's a mistake. And you normally will regret it. Remember...you can't get time back Would you remain friends with a toxic person? No I understand that totally. It's jus really sad when families fall out. Haven't seen mine for over 10 years and I am starting to regret it.x" Can you contact them and try to sort a meet up? ![]() | |||
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"Hey all, get in touch I'm feeling naughty tonight...don't be shy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know he has that’s why I had to ask (tongue in cheek) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have not seen most of my family for nearly 30 years and I occasionally regret it,then I remind myself what they are like. I have a family of choice which is so much better,they choose to love me and have me in my life. The hardest thing is my son is an adult with children of his own and he visits some of them even though he knows what they have done. Noone deserves anything from you just because you are related. If they make you feel bad about yourself you don't have to put up with it. I hope you make the decision that is right for you xxx" It is a bitter truth that life has taught me in my 37 years. Family are the people who choose you and you choose them to love and protect, warts and all. Not the people who--by stroke of luck--have the same DNA with you. The prickliest and most poisonous thorns on our side are the ones we have grown up with.... | |||
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"Hey all, get in touch I'm feeling naughty tonight...don't be shy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I felt like making a similar comment ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't say I disowned my brother I just didn't see him much because of his lifestyle, he was a raging alcoholic. He used to rile me something rotten because of his lifstyle, but I would also see him in town and we would chat for ages. I fell out with him one day when he called me and I thought fuck him, he can piss off and drink himself to death. I called him the next day but I didn't get an answer and I thought that's it this time. But he called me back later on from hospital, he collapsed in some way. It turned out he had 2 masses on the brain and he was riddled with cancer. We spoke on the phone everyday for a month, as it was at the start of Lockdown, but we spoke for hours and realise blood is thicker than water, until I got that phone call one Sunday morning and I got 3 hours with him. Our parents and brother were already dead and it was me who shared his last moments with and I will always treasure that. " ![]() | |||
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"Haven’t spoken to my parents or sister for 5 years now. Much happier ![]() Feel very much the same. On one hand I feel sad at the loss of family but on the other happy to realise it just can't work. | |||
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"Reading these stories, I am struck by how many people who've been let down by those closest to them. As children, we should be at least be able to rely on the adults in our family to look out for us. ![]() Completely agree, as a father now I often think how could someone do what they did to their own child. ![]() | |||
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"I have not seen most of my family for nearly 30 years and I occasionally regret it,then I remind myself what they are like. I have a family of choice which is so much better,they choose to love me and have me in my life. The hardest thing is my son is an adult with children of his own and he visits some of them even though he knows what they have done. Noone deserves anything from you just because you are related. If they make you feel bad about yourself you don't have to put up with it. I hope you make the decision that is right for you xxx" It's the same with us. X | |||
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"Reading these stories, I am struck by how many people who've been let down by those closest to them. As children, we should be at least be able to rely on the adults in our family to look out for us. ![]() ![]() Since becoming a Dad I hate my dad even more for how pathetic he was at it. Guess he just didn’t love me enough lmao ![]() | |||
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"Reading these stories, I am struck by how many people who've been let down by those closest to them. As children, we should be at least be able to rely on the adults in our family to look out for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Reading these stories, I am struck by how many people who've been let down by those closest to them. As children, we should be at least be able to rely on the adults in our family to look out for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Dads are the worst. You are enough. Good to see you in the forums today. | |||
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"Reading these stories, I am struck by how many people who've been let down by those closest to them. As children, we should be at least be able to rely on the adults in our family to look out for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() My dad is wonderful. I've been very lucky with my family. I think kids need their dad just as much. Thank you, I didn't enjoy my...enforced holiday. ![]() | |||
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"My dad disowned me and my sister, he divorced my mum when we were 7 and 3, despite various attempts to reconcile the relationship in my teenage years and an olive branch from my sister prior to her wedding he has been a continuous disappointment. I gave up trying when I was around 18 and never looked back, the toxic nature of his empty promises just got too much to deal. He divorced my mother due to his affair with a woman who had kids the same age as myself and my sister, I will probably never understand why or how he could raise them instead of his own however I have a wonderful mother and have had a wonderful, love filled life, sometimes people just aren’t meant to be in yours and once you accept that you find you are far happier xx" I wouldn't be able to understand that. I worked with a woman once who left her husband and 6 year old daughter for another man. She told me that life was easier with only seeing me daughter once a week, she felt less responsibility. I think some people are just missing something. | |||
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"My dad disowned me and my sister, he divorced my mum when we were 7 and 3, despite various attempts to reconcile the relationship in my teenage years and an olive branch from my sister prior to her wedding he has been a continuous disappointment. I gave up trying when I was around 18 and never looked back, the toxic nature of his empty promises just got too much to deal. He divorced my mother due to his affair with a woman who had kids the same age as myself and my sister, I will probably never understand why or how he could raise them instead of his own however I have a wonderful mother and have had a wonderful, love filled life, sometimes people just aren’t meant to be in yours and once you accept that you find you are far happier xx" That must have been very difficult for u and your sister x | |||
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