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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That men should up there game , and up their standards. What I mean is; ladies often feel like they are the superior and men have to chase them to get any attention. Shouldn't men stop chasing and think the same. *All views are my own*.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Can they please. My legs are tired.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I don't think it's as simple as that. There are too many nuances to human interaction that you cant simply boil it down to such a black and white view point.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Can they please. My legs are tired. "

D.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I chase all of the men I want to meet on here. Its hard enough sifting through potential messages of interest, I'd rather block the lot and go and get what I want

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I can't speak for other women but I certainly don't feel superior to anyone or just sit back and wait for guys to message me. If I see someone on here who I like the look off, I will message them, after all what's the worst that can happen!

Some men do need to up there game though in terms of their style of messaging... i.e the likes of "hey how u doin" is not going to grab my attention x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ignore the can I fuck your ass messages I’ve had this morning my inbox is quite sparse. Says a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, apologies, I didn't mean superior as in I'm up here you are down there. Maybe another use of wording would be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That men should up there game , and up their standards. What I mean is; ladies often feel like they are the superior and men have to chase them to get any attention. Shouldn't men stop chasing and think the same. *All views are my own*. "

As a couple we prefere to meet single guys and weve found the better looking the guy is there more hard work to get a meet .. basically good really looking guys love them selfs more than a stunning woman . Our opinion only !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I agree, maybe a new of way thinking all round, but then everyone is different. Men shouldnt expect fun from showing them their d, equally ladies maybe should give men more benefit of the doubt as I don't think a lot of men know how to approach / make compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great question OP and I think I know what you are getting at as I’ve send lots of men comment they have dropped their standards for fab just to get a shag.

Personally I come down to self worth and self value. This in turn breeds self confidence.

I would suggest that taking a look at law of attraction. You attract what you put out there. Positively or negatively

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great question OP and I think I know what you are getting at as I’ve send lots of men comment they have dropped their standards for fab just to get a shag.

Personally I come down to self worth and self value. This in turn breeds self confidence.

I would suggest that taking a look at law of attraction. You attract what you put out there. Positively or negatively "

Yes this is what I'm getting at.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Is this a 'women are up their own arse' thread?

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"That men should up there game , and up their standards. What I mean is; ladies often feel like they are the superior and men have to chase them to get any attention. Shouldn't men stop chasing and think the same. *All views are my own*. "

Absolutely.

I see so many forum threads from men,"no messages","no meets", they are just not playing the game.

Either that they just don't understand the rules of the game.

Yet most think they know what the offside rule is!!!

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"That men should up there game , and up their standards. What I mean is; ladies often feel like they are the superior and men have to chase them to get any attention. Shouldn't men stop chasing and think the same. *All views are my own*.

As a couple we prefere to meet single guys and weve found the better looking the guy is there more hard work to get a meet .. basically good really looking guys love them selfs more than a stunning woman . Our opinion only !! "

Hi waving ugly guy here

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It would really help if they all filled out their profiles.

Gives me some idea of if I'd want to make first contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would really help if they all filled out their profiles.

Gives me some idea of if I'd want to make first contact."

Will fill in later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely don't like being chased

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