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By *ack2202 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I find that as I don't have a verification on my profile I don't get replies, but due to that, how am I meant to get a verification if I can't get a reply lol. Any ideas?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Be yourself and dont be creepy. Unless being creepy is being yourself, in which case dont be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t need a verification to get a ‘meet’.

There’s kinda two avenues open….

Either go down the messaging people, decent messages, don’t act like a dick, profile on point, good pics, etc.

Or, go to a club/social/event.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I find that as I don't have a verification on my profile I don't get replies, but due to that, how am I meant to get a verification if I can't get a reply lol. Any ideas?"

How do you know *that* is the reason? Surely there are multiple reasons why somebody might not reply to a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verification = instant sex.

Get one quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She knows. ^

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By *ack2202 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I get what you mean but alot of people seem to say in there profile, no verification no reply but its a sticky one haha

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'll chat with people and go on a social if they're not verified. They just have to be decent and match what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her ladyship agreed to meet me without a verification and she hadn't even seen a face pic.

Either I managed to convince her what a lovely person I am just by chatting through messages or (and this is a real possibility) she's a terrible judge of personality. 6 years on she still thinks I'm amazing and I'm still not sure which option is true.

Point being you don't need a veri. You honestly get much better results in life when you don't look for external reasons for not achieving what you want*

*Yes, I know sometimes external reasons can't be avoided.

Mr

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Cam rooms here x

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Your age probably has something to do wth it. I would suggest going to a club

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Probably not the lack of verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll help you.

1). Grow a beard.

2). That it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification won’t guarantee you anything just a heads up

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By *ack2202 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'll take all your suggestions on board lol, I've only been looking for a meet recently so I'm still technically new round here so learning the ropes

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"Verification = instant sex.

Get one quick!"

Does this actually work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll help you.

1). Grow a beard.

2). That it."

D’ya know something, your right.

Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll help you.

1). Grow a beard.

2). That it.

D’ya know something, your right.

Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven. "

People underestimate the power of the beard.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'll meet you for a bj in the fountain OP

Seriously though OP, there's no rush. when you meet the lady of your choice, or she accidentally bumps into you, then all will be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll help you.

1). Grow a beard.

2). That it.

D’ya know something, your right.

Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven.

People underestimate the power of the beard."

And tattoos actually.

OP…. Slight amendment,

1). Grow a beard.

2). Get tattoos (Not the shit ones).

3). That is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Her ladyship agreed to meet me without a verification and she hadn't even seen a face pic.

Either I managed to convince her what a lovely person I am just by chatting through messages or (and this is a real possibility) she's a terrible judge of personality. 6 years on she still thinks I'm amazing and I'm still not sure which option is true.

Point being you don't need a veri. You honestly get much better results in life when you don't look for external reasons for not achieving what you want*

*Yes, I know sometimes external reasons can't be avoided.

Mr"

TG agreed to meet me and like you I didn’t have a veri and only found out later that she had never seen a face pic of mine either before agreeing to meet. 6 + months on now

We must be a right couple of smooth talkers

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Go to a club x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Her ladyship agreed to meet me without a verification and she hadn't even seen a face pic.

Either I managed to convince her what a lovely person I am just by chatting through messages or (and this is a real possibility) she's a terrible judge of personality. 6 years on she still thinks I'm amazing and I'm still not sure which option is true.

Point being you don't need a veri. You honestly get much better results in life when you don't look for external reasons for not achieving what you want*

*Yes, I know sometimes external reasons can't be avoided.

Mr

TG agreed to meet me and like you I didn’t have a veri and only found out later that she had never seen a face pic of mine either before agreeing to meet. 6 + months on now

We must be a right couple of smooth talkers "

Love hearing how people got together like this and it lasting. Heartwarming

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Go to a social event or a club, you may come away with a few verifications. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll help you.

1). Grow a beard.

2). That it.

D’ya know something, your right.

Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven.

People underestimate the power of the beard.

And tattoos actually.

OP…. Slight amendment,

1). Grow a beard.

2). Get tattoos (Not the shit ones).

3). That is all."

You could just say look hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll help you.

1). Grow a beard.

2). That it.

D’ya know something, your right.

Nobody looked twice at me when I were clean shaven.

People underestimate the power of the beard.

And tattoos actually.

OP…. Slight amendment,

1). Grow a beard.

2). Get tattoos (Not the shit ones).

3). That is all.

You could just say look hard."

True.

OP…. Another amendment,

1.) look like me.

2.) that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Her ladyship agreed to meet me without a verification and she hadn't even seen a face pic.

Either I managed to convince her what a lovely person I am just by chatting through messages or (and this is a real possibility) she's a terrible judge of personality. 6 years on she still thinks I'm amazing and I'm still not sure which option is true.

Point being you don't need a veri. You honestly get much better results in life when you don't look for external reasons for not achieving what you want*

*Yes, I know sometimes external reasons can't be avoided.

Mr

TG agreed to meet me and like you I didn’t have a veri and only found out later that she had never seen a face pic of mine either before agreeing to meet. 6 + months on now

We must be a right couple of smooth talkers "

Mr

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

You look kinda moody in your photos buddy in all honesty, maybe freshen them up at bit so look more approachable.

Took me a bit of time to get my first meet but I have to fight them off now and I hold weekly mud fights to help me pick who I'm spending time with

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"You look kinda moody in your photos buddy in all honesty, maybe freshen them up at bit so look more approachable.

Took me a bit of time to get my first meet but I have to fight them off now and I hold weekly mud fights to help me pick who I'm spending time with "

I hope you offer a free shower down after!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"You look kinda moody in your photos buddy in all honesty, maybe freshen them up at bit so look more approachable.

Took me a bit of time to get my first meet but I have to fight them off now and I hold weekly mud fights to help me pick who I'm spending time with

I hope you offer a free shower down after! "

Yes but only for the winner

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Verification = instant sex.

Get one quick!

Does this actually work "

Only if he changed sex as well

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By *aulj69Man
over a year ago

dunstable

Tough one this, I've had meets but some people like to be discreet when it comes to veri's so choose not to post? Start posting more in the forums and maybe answer them privately, get to know people and be yourself . Club meets are by far the best way however but single guys do find it hard to pluck up the courage to go, try and find someone, even a guy on a bi night would be an idea? Best of luck and do let us know how things work out. Paul xx

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Verification = instant sex.

Get one quick!

Does this actually work

Only if he changed sex as well "

Buy cake x

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By *ack2202 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Verification = instant sex.

Get one quick!

Does this actually work

Only if he changed sex as well "

I wouldn't be in this forum if I was the other sex lol

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By *aulj69Man
over a year ago

dunstable

PS go in the chat room you can get verified this way.

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