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By *he Devil rides out OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hey hive mind. If a person politely asked you for feedback on their profile after you've looked at it, good or bad, what would you normally do? Would you give them some feedback or just ignore it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who it was and how they asked.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to but it wasn’t always taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”. "

To be fair, it's impossible to do all that's advised as it's usually contradictory depending on who posted their thoughts.

Cock pics... but no cock pics.

Pics of man hanging put of a woman... none of these pics.

Etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person

One or two profiles can trigger me a bit you’d never guess although.

Try to be fair and honest if its someone asking for help with their profile.

One thing I will say

No cock pics in public

No visual instruction manuals.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”. "

Speaking personally I much prefer to see profiles before they ask for advice because they are usually a much better reflection of the person behind them than any generic boxticking creation.

There's no point taking advice on those threads if all they do is give a false perception and you aren't able to live up to any of it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It would depend who it was

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If they asked then I’d give them my feedback. They did ask after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tell them the forums are the right place for that. It’s a bit presumptuous to ask a complete stranger to review your profile in the private messages.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”.

To be fair, it's impossible to do all that's advised as it's usually contradictory depending on who posted their thoughts.

Cock pics... but no cock pics.

Pics of man hanging put of a woman... none of these pics.

Etc "

Yes that’s very true. There is no perfect template! Close ups and messy action shots are certainly not for me but some people clearly love them on their profile. I guess the main thing is have some pictures and a bit about yourself.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"Depends on who they are. They could ask in the forum and get loads of feedback. Some people get all the feedback and don’t bother changing the profile, which I guess are a form of “look at me posts”.

Speaking personally I much prefer to see profiles before they ask for advice because they are usually a much better reflection of the person behind them than any generic boxticking creation.

There's no point taking advice on those threads if all they do is give a false perception and you aren't able to live up to any of it. "

Good point, I definitely agree with you.

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By *erverseintentionsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It would depend who it was"

Mods should be unbiased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how shit their profile is.

Grammar, pictures etc etc.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I wouldn't say as I'm only telling them my prefences after all.

Instead I advise them to look at their profile as it being their portfolio and let them carry on from there.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I'd probably offer it, especially if they've asked politely as you say, OP.

Can't say I've ever been asked though, LOL! It's almost as if guys might message women for "advice" as a way of manufacturing/prolonging a chat! Surely not?

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