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"I just tell them the things I really don't enjoy " Sounds good. And no always mean, fucking no! | |||
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"I just say what I don’t like. That’s it. The list is short." To the point x | |||
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"I just play 2 unlimited. Gets the message across. " Niche | |||
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"Discuss boundaries and a safe word if it gets too extreme " Make sure your safe word is “fuck me”. Trust me…. | |||
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"I say, “see those fingers, that dildo and your tongue… keep them away from my arse and we’ll be good” " Succinct. I'm stealing that. Ta! | |||
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"Before a meet, we tend to use bdsm-limits.com as a way to start discussions about limits and consent. It's a bit over the top but we find it reveals kinks we all share and it helps us quickly rule out hard limits people don't remember off the top of their heads. Not everyone will be as nerdy as us, but does anyone else do this? Maybe with a different site? Any other approaches that work well for you?" I'm going to get you guys Cards Against Humanity: BDSM Edition for your birthday. Few hours of that and boundaries will be clearly marked, safe words/codes/signals will be memorised AND it's just fun | |||
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"I say, “see those fingers, that dildo and your tongue… keep them away from my arse and we’ll be good” Succinct. I'm stealing that. Ta! " Might get that tattooed on my backside | |||
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"I say, “see those fingers, that dildo and your tongue… keep them away from my arse and we’ll be good” Succinct. I'm stealing that. Ta! Might get that tattooed on my backside " No entry sign? | |||
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"I say, “see those fingers, that dildo and your tongue… keep them away from my arse and we’ll be good” Succinct. I'm stealing that. Ta! Might get that tattooed on my backside No entry sign? " That would probably be a cheaper tattoo. | |||
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"I say, “see those fingers, that dildo and your tongue… keep them away from my arse and we’ll be good” Succinct. I'm stealing that. Ta! Might get that tattooed on my backside No entry sign? That would probably be a cheaper tattoo." | |||
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"I've never come across this before but looks like a good idea tbh thanks OP" It's really good for promoting discussion pre-meet - e.g. "oh yeh, I like face-fucking but not deep-throating" or "actually I don't really enjoy people going down on me, but it's not a limit". Doesn't replace discussion, of course - but it can enhance it | |||
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"I'm going to get you guys Cards Against Humanity: BDSM Edition for your birthday. Few hours of that and boundaries will be clearly marked, safe words/codes/signals will be memorised AND it's just fun " ..does that really exist? That would be awesome | |||
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"I'm going to get you guys Cards Against Humanity: BDSM Edition for your birthday. Few hours of that and boundaries will be clearly marked, safe words/codes/signals will be memorised AND it's just fun ..does that really exist? That would be awesome " ...upon further research and GoogleBoogling, I have discovered that I, in fact, dreamed it one time. Let's patent it. Consent Against Humanity. Nerds need defined lines too. | |||
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"I'm going to get you guys Cards Against Humanity: BDSM Edition for your birthday. Few hours of that and boundaries will be clearly marked, safe words/codes/signals will be memorised AND it's just fun ..does that really exist? That would be awesome ...upon further research and GoogleBoogling, I have discovered that I, in fact, dreamed it one time. Let's patent it. Consent Against Humanity. Nerds need defined lines too. " Seems like an excellent ice-breaker for a kinky camping weekend | |||
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