FabSwingers.com forum: No sexual contact

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all I've been in a relationship for 10 years and the sex died off 3 years ago. I've stayed as we still love each other in the greater scale but no sex. I've dreamed daily yearning for some sort of attention here and been very unlucky or my approach has been terrible. Searching and messaging here has only unfortunately added to the lonely feeling. I've had profile's and been successful here before but this time nothing. Even just starting conversations seem impossible. Are there any women open to chatting via messages. Please for the love of God someone give me something to think about other then just pornhub which let's face it is horrible when your sexlife has taken a dive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've been in a relationship for 10 years and the sex died off 3 years ago. I've stayed as we still love each other in the greater scale but no sex. I've dreamed daily yearning for some sort of attention here and been very unlucky or my approach has been terrible. Searching and messaging here has only unfortunately added to the lonely feeling. I've had profile's and been successful here before but this time nothing. Even just starting conversations seem impossible. Are there any women open to chatting via messages. Please for the love of God someone give me something to think about other then just pornhub which let's face it is horrible when your sexlife has taken a dive. "

I'm in a similar situation. No sex life for 10 years now. The only difference is she's got a disability that's worsened over time. I'm here with her blessing.

One thing I have noticed is that thanks to some unscrupulous guys we are all treated with suspicion.

I've been honest and I don't think it goes down to well. The moment it's mentioned I'm assumed to be lying just to get my rocks off and that's the end of that.

I don't really know what to tell you. I'd say be honest but that's going to count against you a lot of the time, but then if you lie and get caught out you end up in the same position.

I've often wondered if there are groups that cater towards people in my situation. We are both still very much in love but I have a physical need that she just can't provide me, she understands that, so I guess I'm lucky, but also cursed at the same time.

I'm not sure what to tell you. Maybe someone here will have a solution, or as I'm slowly starting to think is that maybe there just isn't one.

I guess the most obvious question is have you tried talking to her about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it could be that you have no public pictures for people to see op. I’d give that a try and see how you get on

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Maybe you could ask some of your previous meets to verify you? Some people won't meet unverified people. Also some public photos may help

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I don't do this because I don't like being used as a wank bank for someone, finding connections to meet is hard enough without having lots of time spent on people purely looking for sex chat.

Maybe try the cams chat for some OP

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