FabSwingers.com forum: Profile makeover

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been on a few dates with people that claim their dating profile or bits of their profiles were written by friends/ housemates.

Would you let someone else write your fab profile?

(I know we used to do threads offering to write other people’s but would anyone do it seriously?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god no, they might make me sound approachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need it's already perfection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no.

Imagine they wrote something nice!!

Ugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Three of the best answers I could’ve hoped for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy for someone to try as long as they don’t get offended if I question it afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh god no, they might make me sound approachable."

All women are approachable to men. No matter what. Men are relentless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We took some advice from a fellow forum user before we rewrote ours.

Our old bio had just became a list of donts to stop the one line, boring question messages. It didn’t work anyway so took some advice and wrote what we have now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No need it's already perfection "

Few would disagree.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I would but only very few and they would have to have know about grammar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God no.

Imagine they wrote something nice!!

Ugh. "

They can try Jon. They can try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god no, they might make me sound approachable.

All women are approachable to men. No matter what. Men are relentless. "

I'm the exception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three of the best answers I could’ve hoped for "

The more positive people will be along shortly.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Absolutely not. I don't trust anyone to do my writing for me

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Oh god no, they might make me sound approachable.

All women are approachable to men. No matter what. Men are relentless.

I'm the exception. "

This sounds like a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god no, they might make me sound approachable.

All women are approachable to men. No matter what. Men are relentless.

I'm the exception.

This sounds like a challenge

Good luck with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I can't be arsed writing my own.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The only other person I would trust to write my profile, is my husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I can't be arsed writing my own. "

Just squiggle something down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not write my profile but I do have a FB that edit and chooses my photos/videos that I put on my profile. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh god no, they might make me sound approachable.

All women are approachable to men. No matter what. Men are relentless.

I'm the exception. "

I bet there’s a 99 year old that would try

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not. I don't trust anyone to do my writing for me"

I have potential.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'd let someone give suggestions but I like my profile already and it should really be written by yourself anyway I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I can't be arsed writing my own. "

I concur. I talk until someone throws a titty in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would be happy for someone to try as long as they don’t get offended if I question it afterwards "

Fair enough. Would you question it if it was all lively things or only if there were things you felt weren’t true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would but only very few and they would have to have know about grammar. "

Rules most of out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I can't be arsed writing my own. "

. You might get some offers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The only other person I would trust to write my profile, is my husband. "

Same. He could write mine any day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not write my profile but I do have a FB that edit and chooses my photos/videos that I put on my profile. X"

Do you think he does a good job?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"The only other person I would trust to write my profile, is my husband.

Same. He could write mine any day. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've helped a friend update theirs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd let someone give suggestions but I like my profile already and it should really be written by yourself anyway I think "

I agree it should. I think it’s interesting though the way friends describe people on dating apps. It weirdly feels just as honest but also intriguing. I don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I can't be arsed writing my own.

I concur. I talk until someone throws a titty in my mouth "

Been like that since you were a wee boy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've helped a friend update theirs"
did you oversell? I always oversell

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Absolutely not. I don't trust anyone to do my writing for me

I have potential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be happy for someone to try as long as they don’t get offended if I question it afterwards

Fair enough. Would you question it if it was all lively things or only if there were things you felt weren’t true "

If it was written with a different personality coming across. I feel it would be inauthentic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would almost certainly

I’d let someone have complete control of my profile text.

Anyone up for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've helped a friend update theirs did you oversell? I always oversell"

No, I wrote the truth and things that he didn't think about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn’t let someone take control of mine. I couldn’t handle any spelling mistakes for a start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I wouldn’t let someone take control of mine. I couldn’t handle any spelling mistakes for a start!

Nice to see someone else who is borderline OCD about spelling and grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I wouldn’t let someone take control of mine. I couldn’t handle any spelling mistakes for a start!

Wat spellin misticks wld they b?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I wouldn’t let someone take control of mine. I couldn’t handle any spelling mistakes for a start!

Wat spellin misticks wld they b?

R u kidin me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I wouldn’t let someone take control of mine. I couldn’t handle any spelling mistakes for a start!

Nice to see someone else who is borderline OCD about spelling and grammar

Dealbreaker

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"No, I wouldn’t let someone take control of mine. I couldn’t handle any spelling mistakes for a start!

Nice to see someone else who is borderline OCD about spelling and grammar

Dealbreaker

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I wouldn’t let someone take control of mine. I couldn’t handle any spelling mistakes for a start!

Nice to see someone else who is borderline OCD about spelling and grammar

Dealbreaker

Nothing to be embarrassed about. Text speak in particular gets my eye twitching…….JUST NO!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I wouldn’t let someone take control of mine. I couldn’t handle any spelling mistakes for a start!

Nice to see someone else who is borderline OCD about spelling and grammar

Dealbreaker

Nothing to be embarrassed about. Text speak in particular gets my eye twitching…….JUST NO!! "

I couldn’t agree more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wot u say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my fab profile I wouldn’t but my tinder profile has been written by my friend who is a woman. I think it’s better for a woman’s point of view on a dating site but as this isn’t that kind of site it needs to come from you personally no matter how bad you are at wording things like myself lol

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I’d let someone write my fab profile. It would need to be funny though. I change my profile every few weeks anyway!

I wrote Jo and Ds for them off the back of a thread and it was hilarious if I do say so myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d let someone write my fab profile. It would need to be funny though. I change my profile every few weeks anyway!

I wrote Jo and Ds for them off the back of a thread and it was hilarious if I do say so myself "

AS IF anyone could do a better job than you currently do.

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