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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there any women actually seeking submissive men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope so lol

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Prob find them on the other site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt you will find a Dominatrix on here, as it's against site rules to ask for money. And Dommes are as rare as hens teeth. Maybe look on a FETish LIFEstyle sight. But, you will really need to sell yourself as they get inundated with offers from sub guys. You need to be clear on what kinks you seek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me x I’ll treat you right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

You don’t have to be a dominatrix to enjoy CFNM though unless you particularly wanted one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know but like the idea of that also

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Although not my cup of tea, if you are looking for first experiences it may be worth looking out for and attending a femdom event. Of course read the protocols of the event to see that it matches your interests.

Talking to submissive men it is a hard slog to find the right person. Even harder if you are thinking of a relationship, or a sexual relationship.

Possibly, rather than seeking dominatrices you could look into female led relationships. As a relationship of mutual interest may be better than a dominatrix which speaking to people tends to be transactional. But meeting people is always tricky in the fetish world.

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find someone let us know happy to chat as well

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"I doubt you will find a Dominatrix on here, as it's against site rules to ask for money. And Dommes are as rare as hens teeth. Maybe look on a FETish LIFEstyle sight. But, you will really need to sell yourself as they get inundated with offers from sub guys. You need to be clear on what kinks you seek"

Beautifully done. I have tried may variations to get the point across. Executed perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try looking around

Good luck

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, but reliable subs, who aren't incredibly needy, are hard to find! And the ones I've chatted with on here are complete fantasists, all talk and no service.

The other site mentioned, isn't great for trying to search for suitable people, I just gave up with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm looking for a man to give orders to.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

My Domme friend won't meet men who submit easily. She likes a challenge!

C

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seems like a hard circle

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By *ubforfandcoupleMan
over a year ago

pontardawe


"I doubt you will find a Dominatrix on here, as it's against site rules to ask for money. And Dommes are as rare as hens teeth. Maybe look on a FETish LIFEstyle sight. But, you will really need to sell yourself as they get inundated with offers from sub guys. You need to be clear on what kinks you seek"

A dominatrix is not necessary a findom.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I doubt you will find a Dominatrix on here, as it's against site rules to ask for money. And Dommes are as rare as hens teeth. Maybe look on a FETish LIFEstyle sight. But, you will really need to sell yourself as they get inundated with offers from sub guys. You need to be clear on what kinks you seek

A dominatrix is not necessary a findom."

Or a pro Domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a local munch but it will take time to get to know people and them to get to know you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to switch things up. Ladies are welcome to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any women actually seeking submissive men ?"

Yes there are plenty of us on this site in spite of what people think. You need to be clear in what you are looking for.

Like someone already suggested try a munch or maybe a fetish night in a Club.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

I don't charge but not interested in single men. Get out to a munch and meet like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt you will find a Dominatrix on here, as it's against site rules to ask for money. And Dommes are as rare as hens teeth. Maybe look on a FETish LIFEstyle sight. But, you will really need to sell yourself as they get inundated with offers from sub guys. You need to be clear on what kinks you seek

A dominatrix is not necessary a findom.

Or a pro Domme"

Perhaps I should have said A dominatrix is typically a paid professional (pro-domme) as the term dominatrix is little-used within the non-professional BDSM scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a switch. I have never asked for money, had any financial or gift wish lists.

I have absolutely no issues with professional Dom(me)s but it would never be for me.

Part of the lifestyle for me is getting in to someone’s head and vice versa. Opening the vulnerabilities. No play happens until vetting has been done.

I like rules and structure but more importantly I need to know I can trust the person I’m with and they trust me to know where the limits are. It’s almost as if it’s done from a position of love.

The lifestyle, for me, is about 20% kink and 80% nature and nurture. Without one there isn’t the other.

I’m not sure if I would get that from someone I paid or paid me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don’t have to be a dominatrix to enjoy CFNM though unless you particularly wanted one. "

Thats also harder to find in the UK, CFNM fans seem far more popular in the States.

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

A chance would be a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say definitely! We get approached alot but I have My Dom, we also get asked for me to Domme which I find hilarious since our profile explicitly states I'm a masochistic submissive. It's like people think if you just put thigh high boots on and wave a flogger your a Domme! Try fet, always people looking to connect on there.

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Yes, but reliable subs, who aren't incredibly needy, are hard to find! And the ones I've chatted with on here are complete fantasists, all talk and no service.

The other site mentioned, isn't great for trying to search for suitable people, I just gave up with it. "

Same ^^^ I like to talk to people, the other site takes an age to get replies.

I like the verification system on here too

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a dyslexic alpaca mail speaking dismissive slum grill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. "

Hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. "

Is that so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me.

Is that so? "

We’ll he didn’t stutter

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me.

Is that so?

We’ll he didn’t stutter "

...yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be a shite sub. Crap at doing stuff. Id be getting clattered every 10 seconds.

Actually might not be so bad.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me.

Is that so? "

Would I lie to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. "
better you than me animals some of them there women folks

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. better you than me animals some of them there women folks "

Let's not forget the nutters too.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I sometimes dress up as a dom TV mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. better you than me animals some of them there women folks

Let's not forget the nutters too. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me.

Is that so?

We’ll he didn’t stutter

...yet! "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me.

Is that so?

We’ll he didn’t stutter

...yet!

"

Depends on the lady in question.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Yes, but reliable subs, who aren't incredibly needy, are hard to find! And the ones I've chatted with on here are complete fantasists, all talk and no service.

The other site mentioned, isn't great for trying to search for suitable people, I just gave up with it.

Same ^^^ I like to talk to people, the other site takes an age to get replies.

I like the verification system on here too"

Exactly. There's no way of knowing how genuine people are on there.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I might set up a Domme profile on here... See how that goes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. better you than me animals some of them there women folks

Let's not forget the nutters too. "

You called?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. better you than me animals some of them there women folks

Let's not forget the nutters too.

You called?"

And you're my favourite nutter. Mwah. Xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. better you than me animals some of them there women folks

Let's not forget the nutters too.

You called?

And you're my favourite nutter. Mwah. Xx"

Awwwww flattered chunks x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. better you than me animals some of them there women folks

Let's not forget the nutters too.

You called?

And you're my favourite nutter. Mwah. Xx

Awwwww flattered chunks x"

I should write these charming lines down.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. better you than me animals some of them there women folks

Let's not forget the nutters too.

You called?

And you're my favourite nutter. Mwah. Xx

Awwwww flattered chunks x

I should write these charming lines down. "

Hahaha I’ve definitely had that line said to me before a couple of times

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not a sub, but there's a couple of ladies on here that I'd let them do almost anything to me. better you than me animals some of them there women folks

Let's not forget the nutters too.

You called?

And you're my favourite nutter. Mwah. Xx

Awwwww flattered chunks x

I should write these charming lines down.

Hahaha I’ve definitely had that line said to me before a couple of times "

Damn. I'll cross it off the list then.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Youll find alot (not all) women are open to trying new things. You may not get the whip and chains on the first meet but just by being open and honest youll be surprised with the positive responses you get.

Most of my kinks have been lived out, and there have been some weird ones lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to be used as a woman’s sub slut so badly it’s embarrassing

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Are there any women actually seeking submissive men ?"

UNLOS ...

...The OP got whisked away by one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any women actually seeking submissive men ?

UNLOS ...

...The OP got whisked away by one "

Still locked in her dungeon.

Living on carrot cake…

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Are there any women actually seeking submissive men ?

UNLOS ...

...The OP got whisked away by one

Still locked in her dungeon.

Living on carrot cake…"

Ah, the dream huh?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any women actually seeking submissive men ?

UNLOS ...

...The OP got whisked away by one

Still locked in her dungeon.

Living on carrot cake…

Ah, the dream huh?! "

The ultimate fantasy

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

There are a few Dommes on here along with the ever wannabes and timewasters,keeping my glass half full in hope of finding my one...

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

There are some, but I think in general they like to contact you. I've had 2 approaches in that many years (one just the other day), so there is no harm in searching too.

Just a word of warning - some dommes can be super controlling, it's not always exactly what men think!

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago


"I want to be used as a woman’s sub slut so badly it’s embarrassing "

I want ... that's not what submission is about. It's what she wants and that's often why dominant women don't go looking for submissive men on sex lifestyle websites.

Rather than looking to satisfy your sexual wants go to a fetish event and just be a normal person who will go to extra ordinary lengths for their dominant. Be yourself. And don't be a slut be her slut. Throwing yourself at every woman holding a crop makes you less special. Don't play hard to get. Be hard to get. Have standards. Dominating someone who just rolls over for anyone is no fun.

Dominating someone strong and who is your equal that is mind blowing

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There are and I'm talking from personal experience.I met one woman on another site and another woman at a private party.I don't act particularly submissive but both of these woman realised quite quickly that I will happily submit to a dominant woman.

Mike

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I'm asked to do this perpetually!

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