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By *ewby01327 OP   Man
over a year ago

Daventry

Random question,

How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?

I’m wondering whether many are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and never have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet,but I have thought about joining some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was for a while, but I decided I prefer being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but if i was i wouldnt say so too many nosey buggers about so i may or may not be lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never used dating sites, but I am thinking about it, though no clue which ones to even join

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I have been on Dating sites in the past but now only looking for swinging

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By *ewby01327 OP   Man
over a year ago

Daventry

I have used them and are currently on one at the moment but wouldn’t tell the potential girl straight away in case they aren’t into this lifestyle. Some people are funny I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have in the past and had more one nighters than on here lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I was on Bumble for awhile, had some great dates. Met my current Lady through a blind date though.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes tinder and Badoo but with enm on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Just as pointless as this place though

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Yes I'm on straight dating sites, and it never ceases to amaze me how many people have profiles on straight dating sites and on here, and take on a totally different persona, where butter wouldn't melt in their mouths, on those sites as opposed to here. I just love it when I pull someone off a straight dating site who doesn't even acknowledge me on here. If you are reading this, I'm sure that you all know who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on bumble and have have some lovely dates from there in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and they are soul destroying ha

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes been on a couple of dating sites. It's usually been single sentence answers from them after a while though. Hard work but had a few meets which went very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been (and no doubt will again).

This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I have in the past, the odd date nothing more.

Very doubtful I will use again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumble and tinder, no luck though

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Yes but I just seem to attract 30y olds from the states, suspecting bots

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

I find it much easier on dating sites than on here

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

A bit of a waste of time if you are an inveterate swinger. If you do meet a person you fall for but who isn't involved and resistant to the idea of the lifestyle there is a great risk that it will lead to tensions.

In the end it's two people left miserable.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Used to be on POF...had tinder but just for the anthropological interest.

I met a few ladies and was enjoying it, but they didn't understand the phrase "Nothing Serious".

Thats how I ended up on here where I get that...minus the serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been (and no doubt will again).

This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?"

I'm really careful with this as it does tend to mean guys just think I'm just going to sleep with anyone.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Yeah they are pretty good for meets if you can put together a few nice pics and actually have good chat

I’ve had countless fwb type things from them and I’ve met more couples on tinder then I have on here

As a single guy they are probably your best bet for meets. Don’t let stuff like “no hook ups” on profiles deter you. Most mean “don’t treat me like a warm hole”. In my experience, most are open to some kind of fwb situation if you approach it properly

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By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Haven't been on a dating site for years and won't be returning to one anytime soon.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Yeah, but don't heavily invest in them as I find what I'm after easier here tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been (and no doubt will again).

This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?

I'm really careful with this as it does tend to mean guys just think I'm just going to sleep with anyone. "
male privalage

Although I suspect many will see this as meaning am an immature fuck boy having a midlife crisis.

But that just says they aren't for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.

But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on a couple, not much success though this time around. Previously I had a few relationships, one gif 3 years so they can work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been (and no doubt will again).

This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?

I'm really careful with this as it does tend to mean guys just think I'm just going to sleep with anyone. male privalage

Although I suspect many will see this as meaning am an immature fuck boy having a midlife crisis.

But that just says they aren't for me. "

You and your privilege!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.

But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!"

Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nope, been there, done that and got the man sat smoothing a tiger t-shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.

But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!

Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS. "

Well that's just rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.

But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!

Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.

Well that's just rude."

I know! Honestly can't get the dick these days - I blame Brexit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dip in and out of this and the swipey one.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

What precisely is a "non-lifestyle" dating site?

I'm thinking about joining a knitting club; would that count?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I still have an OKCupid profile but I don't really use it much.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have been (and no doubt will again).

This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?"

I agree, it just saves everyone time. There's a lot of discussion about it in polyamory groups as guys often say they get hardly any matches if they put it on their profile but I think that getting those matches is pointless if they lose interest when you tell them and by then you'll both have invested at least some time and hope into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What precisely is a "non-lifestyle" dating site?

I'm thinking about joining a knitting club; would that count?"

Well obvs knitting is a lifestyle Nero! So it doesn't count. Yeesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.

But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!

Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.

Well that's just rude.

I know! Honestly can't get the dick these days - I blame Brexit. "

Stuck with English dick.

Unreliable and work shy....

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"What precisely is a "non-lifestyle" dating site?

I'm thinking about joining a knitting club; would that count?

Well obvs knitting is a lifestyle Nero! So it doesn't count. Yeesh. "

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Mea culpa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.

But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!

Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.

Well that's just rude.

I know! Honestly can't get the dick these days - I blame Brexit.

Stuck with English dick.

Unreliable and work shy.... "

It's a burden I have to bear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be and will again.

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By *ereagainlolMan
over a year ago

Lerwick


"I'm not really ready for a guy to tell me how much he likes me etc etc just to fuck me and disappear into the night.

But when I am, normal dating sites it is!!

Last time, didn't even get to the fucking stage. FFS.

Well that's just rude.

I know! Honestly can't get the dick these days - I blame Brexit. "

I'd definitely be interested lol

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Im on tinder at the moment, find it pretty rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on 5 dating sites but I don't tell them I'm on here.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just deleted them all... Kept finding people I'd chatted to on here lol no point if it's all the same people.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I have been (and no doubt will again).

This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?

I agree, it just saves everyone time. There's a lot of discussion about it in polyamory groups as guys often say they get hardly any matches if they put it on their profile but I think that getting those matches is pointless if they lose interest when you tell them and by then you'll both have invested at least some time and hope into it. "

Yep, pointless trying to connect with someone that isn't right for you or you them. Well unless you are just trying to decieve them for a quick fuck, then your just a dick.

For ENM dating there is Feeld

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

None now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and I never have been. I think I'd be very dubious and cynical from the very start if I ever had to join a dating site. I have heard a couple of success stories but I've heard more nightmares.

I'm not sure I could ever date if something ever happened to my husband anyway. I'd be devastated beyond words.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have been (and no doubt will again).

This time I will be a lot clearer on my ENM preferences. Why hide it ?

I agree, it just saves everyone time. There's a lot of discussion about it in polyamory groups as guys often say they get hardly any matches if they put it on their profile but I think that getting those matches is pointless if they lose interest when you tell them and by then you'll both have invested at least some time and hope into it.

Yep, pointless trying to connect with someone that isn't right for you or you them. Well unless you are just trying to decieve them for a quick fuck, then your just a dick.

For ENM dating there is Feeld"

I've tried Feeld but I never really got on that well with it. I prefer OK Cupid as it has options for non-monogamy and to put that you're partnered and I've also found plenty of other ENM people on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on one, it’s fucking soul destroying and I really hate it

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Yep I was, saw a hell of a lot of them on there on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm on other "dating" sites

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I go on pof and bumble for about two weeks, get disheartened about how it makes me feel.

So I hide my profile agin for another few months. Not sure what I am trying to achieve but at some point it would be nice for Cupid to poke an arrow in my bottom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None cos no matter which one i use anyone i end up matching with is a human pin cushion of red flags

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Lots are lots aren't. Same answer every time someone posts this question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single since before covid and never felt worth doing, starting to feel less slothy so may give them a go.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"None cos no matter which one i use anyone i end up matching with is a human pin cushion of red flags "

But you me

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Nope. I was but it’s bloody hard work. At least here I know what most peoples intentions are without all the childish games and rules.

Happy enough single thanks, just want a few more hugs and butt squeezes

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"Random question,

How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?

I’m wondering whether many are."

I am! I like corrupting newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was but had a bad experience so never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None cos no matter which one i use anyone i end up matching with is a human pin cushion of red flags

But you me "

Ahah you know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its quite amusing how if you role back time 10 years that if you was on a dating site you was considered a saddo, these days it's common place and socially accepted as the normal. However, I am on POF with little to no activity other than the daily plethora of likes

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Random question,

How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?

I’m wondering whether many are.

I am! I like corrupting newbies "

Such a bad role model! But I love you

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Nope. I was but it’s bloody hard work. At least here I know what most peoples intentions are without all the childish games and rules.

Happy enough single thanks, just want a few more hugs and butt squeezes "

Can I join the queue for bum squeezes? Seems like great job, with good rewards x

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Random question,

How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?

I’m wondering whether many are.

I am! I like corrupting newbies

Such a bad role model! But I love you "

Anyways…. When are we next partying?!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Random question,

How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?

I’m wondering whether many are.

I am! I like corrupting newbies

Such a bad role model! But I love you

Anyways…. When are we next partying?! "

With custard I hope x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"None cos no matter which one i use anyone i end up matching with is a human pin cushion of red flags

But you me

Ahah you know it "

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Random question,

How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?

I’m wondering whether many are.

I am! I like corrupting newbies

Such a bad role model! But I love you

Anyways…. When are we next partying?!

With custard I hope x"

There he is, my little banana to my custard! Hahaha

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Random question,

How many of you are on non-lifestyle dating sites?

I’m wondering whether many are.

I am! I like corrupting newbies

Such a bad role model! But I love you

Anyways…. When are we next partying?!

With custard I hope x

There he is, my little banana to my custard! Hahaha"

Well, you know. I live in hope x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m on one, not one of the popular ones. It’s okay I do about 2 or 3 dates a month and have met some really nice people and a few nutters , so just like here

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yup can’t remember my log in details but I made a start!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"Nope. I was but it’s bloody hard work. At least here I know what most peoples intentions are without all the childish games and rules.

Happy enough single thanks, just want a few more hugs and butt squeezes

Can I join the queue for bum squeezes? Seems like great job, with good rewards x"

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just left the one that’s similar to a plank of wood if you get my drift haha. It was shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried most of them (I think). Waste of time.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Nope. I was but it’s bloody hard work. At least here I know what most peoples intentions are without all the childish games and rules.

Happy enough single thanks, just want a few more hugs and butt squeezes

Can I join the queue for bum squeezes? Seems like great job, with good rewards x

Of course! "

Yay! I'll warm my hands and trim my nails x

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