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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Is this where you win £200 in a beauty contest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This website is called fabswingers. Hypothesise based on that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this where you win £200 in a beauty contest? "

Yes, beauty helps to be confused. Or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This website is called fabswingers. Hypothesise based on that?"

Just asking questions - #curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many?

7923

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?

No I haven't. I know it exists

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many?

7923"

Close - well done!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't believe monogamy is a myth, I just don't believe it's as common as its believed or claimed to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see one person at a time.

The fact that I don’t see them for long is immaterial

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?

No I haven't. I know it exists"

This restores my faith! Sharing then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't believe monogamy is a myth, I just don't believe it's as common as its believed or claimed to be. "

Interwebz innit?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?

No I haven't. I know it exists

This restores my faith! Sharing then?"

Sharing what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see one person at a time.

The fact that I don’t see them for long is immaterial "

Lol! They always come back though?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don't believe monogamy is a myth, I just don't believe it's as common as its believed or claimed to be.

Interwebz innit?"

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?

No I haven't. I know it exists

This restores my faith! Sharing then?

Sharing what?"

This is a swingers site, yes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't believe monogamy is a myth, I just don't believe it's as common as its believed or claimed to be.

Interwebz innit?

Eh? "

Code for internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?

No I haven't. I know it exists

This restores my faith! Sharing then?

Sharing what?

This is a swingers site, yes?"

Doesn’t sharing imply belief in possession?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 21/03/22 18:07:26]"

I like this.. possession or bubble?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have I convinced myself that monogamy is a myth?

No I haven't. I know it exists

This restores my faith! Sharing then?

Sharing what?

This is a swingers site, yes?"

Yes it is. Perhaps you could explain your point to me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don't believe monogamy is a myth, I just don't believe it's as common as its believed or claimed to be.

Interwebz innit?

Eh?

Code for internet "

I know I just don't understand.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Well it's more of a concept than a myth, a concept that I dont necessarily agree with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't believe monogamy is a myth, I just don't believe it's as common as its believed or claimed to be.

Interwebz innit?

Eh?

Short for - interwebz open opportunity

Code for internet

I know I just don't understand. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am under no illusion

I know I am a “bad word” and like people to test drive me

And I am all good with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it's more of a concept than a myth, a concept that I dont necessarily agree with."

Believes are a powerful thing, but they kinda seem a very individual thing imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monogamy works for some, not others

I am, however, of the opinion that, if in a relationship, then all those in that relationship should be aware of any attempts to alter any monogamous status quo that exists

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Monogamy works for some, not others

I am, however, of the opinion that, if in a relationship, then all those in that relationship should be aware of any attempts to alter any monogamous status quo that exists"

Yesss

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Monogamy works for some, not others

I am, however, of the opinion that, if in a relationship, then all those in that relationship should be aware of any attempts to alter any monogamous status quo that exists"

Couldn't have put it better myself

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Well it's more of a concept than a myth, a concept that I dont necessarily agree with.

Believes are a powerful thing, but they kinda seem a very individual thing imo"

Like I said, it's a concept. Beliefs dont really come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague "

Im conflicted

I love the idea of monogamy and what it stands and represents but I think majority of people aren’t built for monogamy. (Some do tho)

I certainly aren’t, but I fantasise and romanticise romance and being completely as a whole, for one person only

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague

Im conflicted

I love the idea of monogamy and what it stands and represents but I think majority of people aren’t built for monogamy. (Some do tho)

I certainly aren’t, but I fantasise and romanticise romance and being completely as a whole, for one person only "

This is so beautiful - probably a very reason why asking such question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monogamy works for some, not others

I am, however, of the opinion that, if in a relationship, then all those in that relationship should be aware of any attempts to alter any monogamous status quo that exists"

*claps*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague

Im conflicted

I love the idea of monogamy and what it stands and represents but I think majority of people aren’t built for monogamy. (Some do tho)

I certainly aren’t, but I fantasise and romanticise romance and being completely as a whole, for one person only

This is so beautiful - probably a very reason why asking such question "

HAha just being honest x I think having that extra connection with someone is special and doesn’t come about that easy.

But I think we can feel attraction and wanting to be intimate with a lot of people x and some feel the need to be intimate with different people and that’s okay x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague

Im conflicted

I love the idea of monogamy and what it stands and represents but I think majority of people aren’t built for monogamy. (Some do tho)

I certainly aren’t, but I fantasise and romanticise romance and being completely as a whole, for one person only

This is so beautiful - probably a very reason why asking such question

HAha just being honest x I think having that extra connection with someone is special and doesn’t come about that easy.

But I think we can feel attraction and wanting to be intimate with a lot of people x and some feel the need to be intimate with different people and that’s okay x

"

Ever seen - Love is Blind? Lol

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Pure monogamy isn't for me as per the dictionary. I see the world as a whole spectrum of different kinds of relationships, friendships and encounters. And obviously pretty much all of us on here are not technically monogamous. I'm love variety and my interactions with other people. Yet despite all this I feel monogamous because I have cracked it, I have the woman who is truly my everything and I will always be hers. I've had to live a life and go through a lot to really know the difference in what we have to anything I've had before. The same is true of her. So yes we both enjoy variety and other people and but where it matters we are monogamous and it's always her. And that is a amazing feeling to have freedom to explore from a solid ship that is always securely anchored.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pure monogamy isn't for me as per the dictionary. I see the world as a whole spectrum of different kinds of relationships, friendships and encounters. And obviously pretty much all of us on here are not technically monogamous. I'm love variety and my interactions with other people. Yet despite all this I feel monogamous because I have cracked it, I have the woman who is truly my everything and I will always be hers. I've had to live a life and go through a lot to really know the difference in what we have to anything I've had before. The same is true of her. So yes we both enjoy variety and other people and but where it matters we are monogamous and it's always her. And that is a amazing feeling to have freedom to explore from a solid ship that is always securely anchored."

I'm truly speechless and you are beautiful! I wish you nothing but all the best in your life together! I will still think about - what's your secret??

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"How many convince yourself here it's a myth or not - asking for a colleague "

Sorry, misread the topic. I used to have lovely mahogany sideboards, but only one at a time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not the very popular topic lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I think it suits some people very well.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Suits me. I prefer one at a time. Don’t have the time or inclination for any more than that.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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For me it depends how you're defining monogamy - emotional monogamy is a must for me, but physical monogamy isn't.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Pure monogamy isn't for me as per the dictionary. I see the world as a whole spectrum of different kinds of relationships, friendships and encounters. And obviously pretty much all of us on here are not technically monogamous. I'm love variety and my interactions with other people. Yet despite all this I feel monogamous because I have cracked it, I have the woman who is truly my everything and I will always be hers. I've had to live a life and go through a lot to really know the difference in what we have to anything I've had before. The same is true of her. So yes we both enjoy variety and other people and but where it matters we are monogamous and it's always her. And that is a amazing feeling to have freedom to explore from a solid ship that is always securely anchored."

That is a wonderful post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might be a forum of swingers where most of the answers might be skewed in one direction.

Personally? I believe it exists for those who want to partake in it (each to their own and all that) but it’s not for me.

My personal preference is for emotional monogamy with wild nights of fun and mutual satisfaction with others not from within the relationship.

It might just be me but I actually think it could make some relationships last longer.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"I see one person at a time.

The fact that I don’t see them for long is immaterial "

Never tried a threesome, then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A myth…

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

This is a classic personal choice answer.

Yes there will be individuals who will always be monogamous.

Statistically this is a classic bell curve.

Hard core monogamy on one side, multiple partnered on the other (what could be described perhaps as polyamory). Then you have the others inbetween. The swingers, the cheaters. The one night stands etc.

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

All the women I’ve been in relationships with definitely believe in monogamy. I’m not as much a believer in my older age and just wish to enjoy things before I’m dead

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

And there was me thinking monogamy was a type of wood!

Every day is s school day.lol

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"And there was me thinking monogamy was a type of wood!

Every day is s school day.lol"

7 hours too late. And nobody got it then. Its a tough crowd to amuse.

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent


"And there was me thinking monogamy was a type of wood!

Every day is s school day.lol

7 hours too late. And nobody got it then. Its a tough crowd to amuse."

Oh bugger!!! Best get my coat

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"And there was me thinking monogamy was a type of wood!

Every day is s school day.lol

7 hours too late. And nobody got it then. Its a tough crowd to amuse.

Oh bugger!!! Best get my coat"

Good luck, fella. Bring some teak back with you

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I watched a nature program years ago which said the scrotum size of primates was relative to monogamy. Long story short; Us humans ain't biologically built for it.

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