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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! " Depends Do you want shit - average sex? Or amazing mind blowing unforgettable sex? | |||
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"300miles pffft. Try different continents " Unless the 3 time gym goer doesn’t bench press my body weight and leave with you. Relatively safe bet. A) he can’t. B) you don’t go to the gym. | |||
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"300miles pffft. Try different continents Unless the 3 time gym goer doesn’t bench press my body weight and leave with you. Relatively safe bet. A) he can’t. B) you don’t go to the gym." | |||
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"Anything more than 40/50 miles would be a bit much for me. " except Manchester. I’d travel there. | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! " Wish we could invest in that sort of distance. We simply cant travel that sort of distance for anyone and don't expect others to travel to us either. | |||
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"I would be scared to travel too far in case they stood me up." I think this is my issue too | |||
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"I’ve had a guy fly to meet me before (not a Fabber). We had a great weekend, but it is quite a pressured situation. I can remember the fear of disappointing, as he had gone to so much effort and expense. Thankfully he wasn’t disappointed, but I don’t think I’d do it again." I've had that go wrong Despite chatting for months beforehand, within minutes of meeting I knew it wasn't right - and that feeling was evidently mutual The most awkward weekend of my life I think 'politely awkward' is the best way of putting it I shudder just thinking about it now | |||
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"I’ve had a guy fly to meet me before (not a Fabber). We had a great weekend, but it is quite a pressured situation. I can remember the fear of disappointing, as he had gone to so much effort and expense. Thankfully he wasn’t disappointed, but I don’t think I’d do it again. I've had that go wrong Despite chatting for months beforehand, within minutes of meeting I knew it wasn't right - and that feeling was evidently mutual The most awkward weekend of my life I think 'politely awkward' is the best way of putting it I shudder just thinking about it now" Oh God, Bussy, what a freaking nightmare. It just goes to show that real life chemistry is everything. And at the end of the day, distance just isn’t practical. | |||
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"I’ve had a guy fly to meet me before (not a Fabber). We had a great weekend, but it is quite a pressured situation. I can remember the fear of disappointing, as he had gone to so much effort and expense. Thankfully he wasn’t disappointed, but I don’t think I’d do it again. I've had that go wrong Despite chatting for months beforehand, within minutes of meeting I knew it wasn't right - and that feeling was evidently mutual The most awkward weekend of my life I think 'politely awkward' is the best way of putting it I shudder just thinking about it now" Oh god I had a similar situation once, ended with me wanking while he lay next to me playing candy crush on his phone. He'd only flown from the Isle of Man to Liverpool but I could hardly wait for his flight back home again. On the other end of the spectrum I flew several hundred miles out of my way to stay with someone I'd been chatting to in America and that was completely amazing. I also had an american FB who used to fly to London for work, I'd get the train down there and we'd have the most glorious weekends together. | |||
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"I’ve had a guy fly to meet me before (not a Fabber). We had a great weekend, but it is quite a pressured situation. I can remember the fear of disappointing, as he had gone to so much effort and expense. Thankfully he wasn’t disappointed, but I don’t think I’d do it again. I've had that go wrong Despite chatting for months beforehand, within minutes of meeting I knew it wasn't right - and that feeling was evidently mutual The most awkward weekend of my life I think 'politely awkward' is the best way of putting it I shudder just thinking about it now Oh god I had a similar situation once, ended with me wanking while he lay next to me playing candy crush on his phone. " Oh that's had me howling I think that may have been preferable tbh | |||
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"I’ve had a guy fly to meet me before (not a Fabber). We had a great weekend, but it is quite a pressured situation. I can remember the fear of disappointing, as he had gone to so much effort and expense. Thankfully he wasn’t disappointed, but I don’t think I’d do it again. I've had that go wrong Despite chatting for months beforehand, within minutes of meeting I knew it wasn't right - and that feeling was evidently mutual The most awkward weekend of my life I think 'politely awkward' is the best way of putting it I shudder just thinking about it now Oh god I had a similar situation once, ended with me wanking while he lay next to me playing candy crush on his phone. Oh that's had me howling I think that may have been preferable tbh" I still got my jollies and that's all that matters | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! " I had a great relationship with a woman for a year she lived in Lisbon, we made time and saw each other regularly. Distance is only an obstacle if you can’t make time for one another | |||
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"I used to do 220 miles each way...thankfully now down to just over 100 odd. If the connection is there and feels right then to me, distance is not an obstacle. For me I love it because as each mile passes I get more excited and my butterflies go haywire knowing where my journey leads and what is in store x" I'm with you on this, Sparkle, excitement and not expectation, a few saucy messages or sneaky photos makes the journey pass that much more quickly. | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! " No. I wouldn't even be chatting to them. | |||
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"I’ve had a guy fly to meet me before (not a Fabber). We had a great weekend, but it is quite a pressured situation. I can remember the fear of disappointing, as he had gone to so much effort and expense. Thankfully he wasn’t disappointed, but I don’t think I’d do it again." Dieu, you never leave your postcode! | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! I had a great relationship with a woman for a year she lived in Lisbon, we made time and saw each other regularly. Distance is only an obstacle if you can’t make time for one another " Distance is an obstacle if you can't afford the travel or the time to see the person. Some of us have families and commitments. My money goes to my kids' needs not mine. | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! I had a great relationship with a woman for a year she lived in Lisbon, we made time and saw each other regularly. Distance is only an obstacle if you can’t make time for one another Distance is an obstacle if you can't afford the travel or the time to see the person. Some of us have families and commitments. My money goes to my kids' needs not mine. " I appreciate I'm in a privileged position and I never assume other people are in the same situation. | |||
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"I used to do 220 miles each way...thankfully now down to just over 100 odd. If the connection is there and feels right then to me, distance is not an obstacle. For me I love it because as each mile passes I get more excited and my butterflies go haywire knowing where my journey leads and what is in store x" Love this! | |||
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"Distance isn't an issue if you have a connection. I'd travel for the guy I like and plan on doing so in the near future " I'm thinking do it! See what happens! | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! I had a great relationship with a woman for a year she lived in Lisbon, we made time and saw each other regularly. Distance is only an obstacle if you can’t make time for one another Distance is an obstacle if you can't afford the travel or the time to see the person. Some of us have families and commitments. My money goes to my kids' needs not mine. I appreciate I'm in a privileged position and I never assume other people are in the same situation." Ah I know. I guess I find it frustrating that so many men have tried to argue with me about distance over the last couple of years. I am really clear when they contact me if they're too far away. And then they start negotiating about MY boundaries. | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! " It's a train ride or a flight so sit back, relax, and let the excitement build, absolutely love it. | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! Depends Do you want shit - average sex? Or amazing mind blowing unforgettable sex? " Definitely the mind blowing! Which I know it will be! | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! Depends Do you want shit - average sex? Or amazing mind blowing unforgettable sex? Definitely the mind blowing! Which I know it will be! " Woohoo, you go for it! | |||
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"I used to do 220 miles each way...thankfully now down to just over 100 odd. If the connection is there and feels right then to me, distance is not an obstacle. For me I love it because as each mile passes I get more excited and my butterflies go haywire knowing where my journey leads and what is in store x I'm with you on this, Sparkle, excitement and not expectation, a few saucy messages or sneaky photos makes the journey pass that much more quickly." We build up through the week with phonecalls etc, by the time it comes to see him his slightest touch sets me off x | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! Depends Do you want shit - average sex? Or amazing mind blowing unforgettable sex? Definitely the mind blowing! Which I know it will be! " Worth it then | |||
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"I used to do 220 miles each way...thankfully now down to just over 100 odd. If the connection is there and feels right then to me, distance is not an obstacle. For me I love it because as each mile passes I get more excited and my butterflies go haywire knowing where my journey leads and what is in store x I'm with you on this, Sparkle, excitement and not expectation, a few saucy messages or sneaky photos makes the journey pass that much more quickly. We build up through the week with phonecalls etc, by the time it comes to see him his slightest touch sets me off x" Now that is what I call aroused, you must be a dead giveaway on the train on the way there. . . . | |||
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"I used to do 220 miles each way...thankfully now down to just over 100 odd. If the connection is there and feels right then to me, distance is not an obstacle. For me I love it because as each mile passes I get more excited and my butterflies go haywire knowing where my journey leads and what is in store x I'm with you on this, Sparkle, excitement and not expectation, a few saucy messages or sneaky photos makes the journey pass that much more quickly. We build up through the week with phonecalls etc, by the time it comes to see him his slightest touch sets me off x Now that is what I call aroused, you must be a dead giveaway on the train on the way there. . . . " I drive....its quicker x | |||
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"I used to do 220 miles each way...thankfully now down to just over 100 odd. If the connection is there and feels right then to me, distance is not an obstacle. For me I love it because as each mile passes I get more excited and my butterflies go haywire knowing where my journey leads and what is in store x I'm with you on this, Sparkle, excitement and not expectation, a few saucy messages or sneaky photos makes the journey pass that much more quickly. We build up through the week with phonecalls etc, by the time it comes to see him his slightest touch sets me off x Now that is what I call aroused, you must be a dead giveaway on the train on the way there. . . . I drive....its quicker x" And a fair few speeding tickets worth it when you have such a delicious time with the very fortunate chap. | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! " I love to travel. If there is a connection sure I’ll give it a go combining with some sightseeing | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! Depends Do you want shit - average sex? Or amazing mind blowing unforgettable sex? Definitely the mind blowing! Which I know it will be! Worth it then " Exactly!! | |||
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"I used to do 220 miles each way...thankfully now down to just over 100 odd. If the connection is there and feels right then to me, distance is not an obstacle. For me I love it because as each mile passes I get more excited and my butterflies go haywire knowing where my journey leads and what is in store x I'm with you on this, Sparkle, excitement and not expectation, a few saucy messages or sneaky photos makes the journey pass that much more quickly. We build up through the week with phonecalls etc, by the time it comes to see him his slightest touch sets me off x Now that is what I call aroused, you must be a dead giveaway on the train on the way there. . . . I drive....its quicker x And a fair few speeding tickets worth it when you have such a delicious time with the very fortunate chap. " I know where all the speed cameras are now lol x | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! Depends Do you want shit - average sex? Or amazing mind blowing unforgettable sex? Definitely the mind blowing! Which I know it will be! Worth it then Exactly!! " See you at Waverley Station. . . . | |||
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"I might meet someone who's a distance away if I have time on my hands for a wee adventure But I'm only likely to have connected on a fairly superficial level " Plane or train? | |||
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"I used to do 220 miles each way...thankfully now down to just over 100 odd. If the connection is there and feels right then to me, distance is not an obstacle. For me I love it because as each mile passes I get more excited and my butterflies go haywire knowing where my journey leads and what is in store x I'm with you on this, Sparkle, excitement and not expectation, a few saucy messages or sneaky photos makes the journey pass that much more quickly. We build up through the week with phonecalls etc, by the time it comes to see him his slightest touch sets me off x Now that is what I call aroused, you must be a dead giveaway on the train on the way there. . . . I drive....its quicker x And a fair few speeding tickets worth it when you have such a delicious time with the very fortunate chap. I know where all the speed cameras are now lol x" You do think of everything! | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! " I personally wouldn't travel that far but if your happy travelling that diastance I'd say there's no harm in continuing to pursue it | |||
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"This is the fab curse isn't it? Because you're kinda forced to keep up building that intimacy online - until if you can and will meet. So it builds extra pressure and expectation as you're less likely to travel across the country for a swift, 1hr coffee.. but if the chemistry is there in person then it'll be amazing!! More of a risk but definitely worth it I say " Says the woman in Great Yarmouth, if the chemistry was there I'd fly to Norwich as long as you promise. . . . .to pick me up at the Airport. Let the rest follow as we find it! | |||
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"No sorry I wouldn't. I wouldn't bother chatting too long to them as I would be concerned about whether or not they were just winding me up x" From where? Great Yarmouth is a challenge but Glesca is just down the road | |||
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"No sorry I wouldn't. I wouldn't bother chatting too long to them as I would be concerned about whether or not they were just winding me up x" And with that jacket potato awaiting, the suitors will be crashing your door down. . . | |||
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"No sorry I wouldn't. I wouldn't bother chatting too long to them as I would be concerned about whether or not they were just winding me up x And with that jacket potato awaiting, the suitors will be crashing your door down. . ." I wish... | |||
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"No sorry I wouldn't. I wouldn't bother chatting too long to them as I would be concerned about whether or not they were just winding me up x And with that jacket potato awaiting, the suitors will be crashing your door down. . . I wish... " You make it and bake it, I'll take it! | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! " It's 300 miles to the place or 300 miles round trip ? either way it's a long way BUT if both click well why not ..it's a yes from me | |||
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"So you are chatting to someone and get a connection! It's the distance! Do you persevere and see what happens? It's like over 300 miles! It's 300 miles to the place or 300 miles round trip ? either way it's a long way BUT if both click well why not ..it's a yes from me " 300 miles from Northumberland has you dating a fish! Or someone in Cornwall. . . .jeez, he must have something awesome for you. | |||
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"No sorry I wouldn't. I wouldn't bother chatting too long to them as I would be concerned about whether or not they were just winding me up x And with that jacket potato awaiting, the suitors will be crashing your door down. . . I wish... You make it and bake it, I'll take it! " | |||
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"No sorry I wouldn't. I wouldn't bother chatting too long to them as I would be concerned about whether or not they were just winding me up x And with that jacket potato awaiting, the suitors will be crashing your door down. . . I wish... You make it and bake it, I'll take it! " | |||
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