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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey has anyone planned a social meet up and been very surprised by what or who turned up xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've always been surprised because even though I've thought they looked hot in pics, in real life they were even better.

My last surprise was his introduction....thank god his arm was around my waist otherwise I'd have been on the ground x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

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By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield

Yeah the first time I met bikerdrew he wasn't on here so hadn't seen any pics, when he unzipped and his monster flopped out I was in shock as said he was big but most guys say that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single."

Shiiit! What happened next?

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By *hyguy187Man
over a year ago

Maybe near to you!


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single."

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By *abswing10Man
over a year ago

hastings


"Yeah the first time I met bikerdrew he wasn't on here so hadn't seen any pics, when he unzipped and his monster flopped out I was in shock as said he was big but most guys say that lol"

May I ask how you met if it wasn’t on here? Was it at a club?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single."

Oh no...hope everything worked out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

Shiiit! What happened next? "

OMG!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg that’s mad did she watch did you carry on ??

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By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield


"Yeah the first time I met bikerdrew he wasn't on here so hadn't seen any pics, when he unzipped and his monster flopped out I was in shock as said he was big but most guys say that lol

May I ask how you met if it wasn’t on here? Was it at a club?"

No one the other school mum's gave him my number

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've been pleasantly surprised when meeting person. That their photo didn't hint at just how lovely they were and how glowing they looked and personality matched mine . first me with one woman we when for a meal and our meals went cold because we were so engaged with each other .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything has been as expected so far.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

Shiiit! What happened next? "

Lots (LOTS) of screaming, I explained he'd specifically told me (twice) he was single then I left them outside still screaming and let myself into the building.

I felt terrible for her, but there was something not quite pukka about the whole thing. How did he not see her in the coffee shop? He drove us back to my flat yet never saw her car following us, how does that work?

All a bit odd, but his profile is still up and he's logged in since, so who knows? Too much drama for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

Shiiit! What happened next?

Lots (LOTS) of screaming, I explained he'd specifically told me (twice) he was single then I left them outside still screaming and let myself into the building.

I felt terrible for her, but there was something not quite pukka about the whole thing. How did he not see her in the coffee shop? He drove us back to my flat yet never saw her car following us, how does that work?

All a bit odd, but his profile is still up and he's logged in since, so who knows? Too much drama for me."

Perhaps some creepy role play they were into.

Hope she leaves you alone and doesn't turn up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey has anyone planned a social meet up and been very surprised by what or who turned up xx"

Surprised that they actually turned up tbh , l know not all women are the same but this place is full of timewasters and ghosters , absolutely no problem at all if not a click but if you'll say'll you'll meet at least have the decency to turn up .Huge Salute to those that do turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey has anyone planned a social meet up and been very surprised by what or who turned up xx

Surprised that they actually turned up tbh , l know not all women are the same but this place is full of timewasters and ghosters , absolutely no problem at all if not a click but if you'll say'll you'll meet at least have the decency to turn up .Huge Salute to those that do turn up. "

I always turn up when I say I’m going to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was surprised that I fell for someone so quickly but then again she was stunning and gets better every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the other person actually turned up

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

Shiiit! What happened next?

Lots (LOTS) of screaming, I explained he'd specifically told me (twice) he was single then I left them outside still screaming and let myself into the building.

I felt terrible for her, but there was something not quite pukka about the whole thing. How did he not see her in the coffee shop? He drove us back to my flat yet never saw her car following us, how does that work?

All a bit odd, but his profile is still up and he's logged in since, so who knows? Too much drama for me.

Perhaps some creepy role play they were into.

Hope she leaves you alone and doesn't turn up again. "

That was my reading, either he was playing her or both were playing me. Not sure whether that's just what I wanted to see because I felt guilty though. Who knows?

Thankfully we were in his car so neither of them know which car is mine, and to get to my flat they'd need to know which number it was (120 flats over two attached blocks!) and then get through two security doors while avoiding the caretaker just to get to my door.

They're full of pensioners so are the most secure flats in the world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

Oh no...hope everything worked out x"

in what way do you hope it worked out? I don’t think the meet carries on with his wife sitting outside on the wall swinging her legs waiting on him coming out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i took her in the woods and stumbled across a teddybears having a picnic

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Losing my watch

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Oh yes, a lot of men claiming on their profile to be 6ft and appear to have shrunk!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I was surprised that I fell for someone so quickly but then again she was stunning and gets better every day "

Aww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy I’d spoken to briefly but got on well. Met at a nice but concealed pub and went for a walk, about half way through I got to thinking that his face reminded me of someone but couldn’t remember who, racked my brains all throughout the walk until I finally said you remind me of someone……. And he said… I am that person. He’d recognised me but wasn’t sure if I recognised him so hadn’t said anything….. I was in total shock, he was a best friends (from years before who I’d lost touch with) ex husband….. being the shy person I was years ago when he was dating my pal I liked him even then but said nothing (why would I?) but he’d admitted he’d liked me back then and realising how shy I was said nothing…… making up for lost time was great even though he had a GF

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

Oh no...hope everything worked out x

in what way do you hope it worked out? I don’t think the meet carries on with his wife sitting outside on the wall swinging her legs waiting on him coming out "

I meant for curriousscouser as in the wife didn't go for her and she managed to get away from the pair of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

Shiiit! What happened next?

Lots (LOTS) of screaming, I explained he'd specifically told me (twice) he was single then I left them outside still screaming and let myself into the building.

I felt terrible for her, but there was something not quite pukka about the whole thing. How did he not see her in the coffee shop? He drove us back to my flat yet never saw her car following us, how does that work?

All a bit odd, but his profile is still up and he's logged in since, so who knows? Too much drama for me."

Bloody hell - too much drama for anyone!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I was surprised I didn’t get a blowey on one. I mean I’d paid my £5er site supporter subscription as well

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By *loud_dancerMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

A totally different woman turned up and told me that her friend couldn’t make it but asked her to come along….hmmm she was dressed for action but no where near as attractive. She seemed to know a lot about our conversation but I didn’t like the deception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was when he walked out on me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A totally different woman turned up and told me that her friend couldn’t make it but asked her to come along….hmmm she was dressed for action but no where near as attractive. She seemed to know a lot about our conversation but I didn’t like the deception. "

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single.

Shiiit! What happened next?

Lots (LOTS) of screaming, I explained he'd specifically told me (twice) he was single then I left them outside still screaming and let myself into the building.

I felt terrible for her, but there was something not quite pukka about the whole thing. How did he not see her in the coffee shop? He drove us back to my flat yet never saw her car following us, how does that work?

All a bit odd, but his profile is still up and he's logged in since, so who knows? Too much drama for me."

Wow...

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm always surprised when they turn up on time and actually look like their photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm always surprised when they turn up on time and actually look like their photos. "

Your stunning so no one would be Late for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes pleasantly surprised

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bucks/London/Oxford


"Hey has anyone planned a social meet up and been very surprised by what or who turned up xx"

I’ve been genuinely, very pleasantly surprised a couple of times - two spontaneous gorgeous meets that spring to mind. I’ve also had two disastrous spontaneous meets, one nothing like her photos, another, paranoid, addict (and that’s only part of the story).

With other meets, I’ve simply been absolutely delighted, especially when we’ve then gone on to meet two or more times afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single."

W T F

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By *erverseintentionsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I was quite surprised last week when his wife followed us from the coffee shop back to my flat, not least because he'd told me he was single."

Brilliant that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A totally different woman turned up and told me that her friend couldn’t make it but asked her to come along….hmmm she was dressed for action but no where near as attractive. She seemed to know a lot about our conversation but I didn’t like the deception. "

How can people just live a serene and peaceful life doing stunts like this ???

Did u bang?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A totally different woman turned up and told me that her friend couldn’t make it but asked her to come along….hmmm she was dressed for action but no where near as attractive. She seemed to know a lot about our conversation but I didn’t like the deception.

How can people just live a serene and peaceful life doing stunts like this ???

Did u bang?"

Ha ha did you bang lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I'm always surprised when they turn up on time and actually look like their photos.

Your stunning so no one would be Late for you x"

You'd be surprised!

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

The wheelchair, I was not expecting a wheelchair at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The wheelchair, I was not expecting a wheelchair at all"

What happened did you fuck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell in love in that first moment

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"The wheelchair, I was not expecting a wheelchair at all

What happened did you fuck ? "

The dozen or so yappy dogs were less of a surprise but a considerable distraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey has anyone planned a social meet up and been very surprised by what or who turned up xx"

Yes, totally. Not by who turned up but that it ended up being the whole day. Was meant to be for a coffee in the morning but ended up being a social until after dinner. So relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I went to a ladies house once omg she had two of the biggest great Dans I’ve ever seen And I was in the kitchen kissing her as they watched and nudged us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went to a ladies house once omg she had two of the biggest great Dans I’ve ever seen And I was in the kitchen kissing her as they watched and nudged us "
naughty dogs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey has anyone planned a social meet up and been very surprised by what or who turned up xx

Yes, totally. Not by who turned up but that it ended up being the whole day. Was meant to be for a coffee in the morning but ended up being a social until after dinner. So relaxed."

That’s nice isn’t it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went to a ladies house once omg she had two of the biggest great Dans I’ve ever seen And I was in the kitchen kissing her as they watched and nudged us naughty dogs "

Hated it they were so big

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By *urhiddendesireCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

One couple we invited to ours after meeting them a few times socially both turned up two days later at our house dressed identically.

We had no idea whatsoever that the hubby was CD

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

No surprises, except that they've turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pretty,funny,shyish girl on here who told me she was single yet kissed the guy that dropped her off outside my house.

She was that pissed that she fell over my coffee table/ threw up in my toilet and then tried to give me a chunky kiss.

Then she asked me if I was going to fuck her or not. Then she went absolutely ballistic at me as I said no your too d*unk. She then went back into the bathroom and loudly called the guy to pick her up. She came out and started screaming that I'm a virgin a time wasting cunt a idiot etc

She then slammed my door and left

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Oh yes, a lot of men claiming on their profile to be 6ft and appear to have shrunk!"

This!! 5’7” seems to be the new 6ft…

Most times I have been pleasantly surprised because people look/are better in person.

But there have been a few times where they are much shorter or older than stated on their profiles.

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

They turn up haha

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Hey has anyone planned a social meet up and been very surprised by what or who turned up xx"

Yes.

It's gone both ways.

We had a lady turn up who didn't match her photos or even the personality of the person we had been talking to. It didn't go well.

On the flip side, we have had what can only be described as "poor photos" sent to us that dont do the sendees justice at all coupled with shy personalitys on here vs really bubbly and fun in real life.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Many moons ago I was chatting to several forumites and had planned a social with one. On the morning of the social the lady I was supposed to meet messaged and said she couldn't make it, but knew I had already met with another lady previously. Between the pair of them they arranged a switcheroo and I had a lovely hotel meet rather than a pub lunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me Saturday just gone. It was awful luckily I was out with mates who bailed me out and pretended there was an emergency or something and we swiftly left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure she wont mind me telling this

At a group social, met a lady off here, we had spoken via pm a few times, I did not recognise her at all until she said her name, I was shocked at how short she was as I dont really look at height at all.

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By *weetHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

A few years ago we were members on another Swing site meeting bi fem couples. After pic swaps and phone calls we arranged a meet with this couple.

We were gobsmacked to the fact that he must have been standing on a box in the pictures ! She was gorgeous but he had small man issues and Hotwife found him to be a bit of a creep.

We declined taking things any further.

Hence why we only meet / play at Chams or PDI , face to face.

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