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"I agree. I prefer being the hunter not the hunted. " Would be very happy for you to hunt me down... I will give you a run for your money though | |||
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"I agree. I prefer being the hunter not the hunted. Would be very happy for you to hunt me down... I will give you a run for your money though " You'd better be quick. I'm fast. | |||
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"We personally think the problem lies in all the needy desperate men that don’t take no for an answer . Plus sadly men are 80%+ of the members on the site . There are genuine ones out there, however they get missed because of all the fakers ect . If we have been bombarded with messages from men all day that have clearly no read our bio or just send “meet now” messages we simply ignore all the others too as it becomes monotonous trying to reply to them all and filter out the good from bad . It’s not all doom and gloom tho , there’s a couple or person for everyone on here just takes time. " | |||
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"We hear sob stories all the time about men asking for meetings and getting turned down on a regular basis. So, why do we bother asking? The women here know what they want, when they want it, where they want it. TS TV are included in this. We can just sit back and wait for a suitable partner to come along. After all the chances of getting a date are just as good waiting as they are hunting. What's your opinion? " This technique would be terrible for job hunters ... | |||
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"We personally think the problem lies in all the needy desperate men that don’t take no for an answer . Plus sadly men are 80%+ of the members on the site . There are genuine ones out there, however they get missed because of all the fakers ect . If we have been bombarded with messages from men all day that have clearly no read our bio or just send “meet now” messages we simply ignore all the others too as it becomes monotonous trying to reply to them all and filter out the good from bad . It’s not all doom and gloom tho , there’s a couple or person for everyone on here just takes time. " Are those stats legit? I would love to know the actual ratios, where did you find them? | |||
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"I agree. I prefer being the hunter not the hunted. " Let me put my fox tail on | |||
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"I agree. I prefer being the hunter not the hunted. Would be very happy for you to hunt me down... I will give you a run for your money though You'd better be quick. I'm fast. " I'm more endurance me... ultra marathons and long distance triathlons... Stamina is a good thing right?! | |||
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"If we search 20mins in our local radius for single men results are 300+ if we do the same for women it’s 30 . Couples are even less . Countless threads on here regarding the same . Plus we now don’t bother with the who’s mobile nearby section as it’s once in a blue moon that there’s a single female or couple on there " Ah, okay, I thought you might have had an insight to the site numbers | |||
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"We hear sob stories all the time about men asking for meetings and getting turned down on a regular basis. So, why do we bother asking? The women here know what they want, when they want it, where they want it. TS TV are included in this. We can just sit back and wait for a suitable partner to come along. After all the chances of getting a date are just as good waiting as they are hunting. What's your opinion? " But, I can't be bothered to scroll through hundreds of profiles. I want to be hunted, cos I'm lazy | |||
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"Well as the saying goes you can’t win the lottery if you don’t buy a ticket " This isn't really relevant, because reading the information about the ticker doesn't help you get a successful outcome (reading profiles does). Also using your analogy, some tickets are never going to win (no point a single guy messaging a guy lady who says no men!). So clearly there are some.tickets that are never going to be successful (so don't waste time messaging profiles that explicitly say they are not interested in you). And finally, building a rapport first greatly increases the chances of a success on fab, I tried the same approach with my lottery ticket seller, and I still didn't even win a tenner! | |||
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"I generally stopped searching, because for multiple reasons it is almost pointless. By that I mean I'm not what they want, I'm just ignored, I'm lost in their thousands of messages, they have a better option. I'm not bitter or feeling sorry for myself. It's just overall easier and less disheartening to be found (or never found) than continue to search and get nowhere. Again, that's not a complaint it is understanding the nature of how this place works. I'm here, if somebody bothers to look and takes an interest great. If not, that's of no concern to me. Shockingly despite being here, my life does not revolve around having to find somebody to fuck. " I've stopped looking too. And I know other women who've stopped. Because it's not worth the hassle of having my time constantly wasted and being lied to. So I guess doesn't matter which side of Fab you are - it doesn't work that well for many. | |||
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"Not all things are equal . Each man is in control of his destiny here - How much effort he'll invest How he learns to use the site to good effect - & if he does or not If he's adaptable, uses the scene too, etc We're biased to think that it's all 'Oh woe is me' for single men but that's because some of them post it up. Others get on with making life get better Nobody ought to think that social and sexual engagement is easy for all. It's unrealistic. Posting a nob pic and a clueless 'fill in later' for months, etc isn't likely to win advertising awards. People do bother because there are great people here and there's broad scope of interests. Plus it's the best site " So true. And I've never seen a forum thread "single males getting loads of meets", because you just wouldn't shout about it. But there are many guys that are. I for one cannot complain! | |||
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"Honestly, my male partners do better than me. " Who would say no to you | |||
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"Well as the saying goes you can’t win the lottery if you don’t buy a ticket This isn't really relevant, because reading the information about the ticker doesn't help you get a successful outcome (reading profiles does). Also using your analogy, some tickets are never going to win (no point a single guy messaging a guy lady who says no men!). So clearly there are some.tickets that are never going to be successful (so don't waste time messaging profiles that explicitly say they are not interested in you). And finally, building a rapport first greatly increases the chances of a success on fab, I tried the same approach with my lottery ticket seller, and I still didn't even win a tenner!" Think it is relevant as it’s only a response relaying that if you don’t try you can’t succeed (in anything). But thanks for stating the obvious with previous post | |||
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"Not all things are equal . Each man is in control of his destiny here - How much effort he'll invest How he learns to use the site to good effect - & if he does or not If he's adaptable, uses the scene too, etc We're biased to think that it's all 'Oh woe is me' for single men but that's because some of them post it up. Others get on with making life get better Nobody ought to think that social and sexual engagement is easy for all. It's unrealistic. Posting a nob pic and a clueless 'fill in later' for months, etc isn't likely to win advertising awards. People do bother because there are great people here and there's broad scope of interests. Plus it's the best site " Yes that would be the equivalent of a man turning up to the pub having made no effort to bathe or brush his teeth and then wonder why he can't pull. | |||
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"I generally stopped searching, because for multiple reasons it is almost pointless. By that I mean I'm not what they want, I'm just ignored, I'm lost in their thousands of messages, they have a better option. I'm not bitter or feeling sorry for myself. It's just overall easier and less disheartening to be found (or never found) than continue to search and get nowhere. Again, that's not a complaint it is understanding the nature of how this place works. I'm here, if somebody bothers to look and takes an interest great. If not, that's of no concern to me. Shockingly despite being here, my life does not revolve around having to find somebody to fuck. I've stopped looking too. And I know other women who've stopped. Because it's not worth the hassle of having my time constantly wasted and being lied to. So I guess doesn't matter which side of Fab you are - it doesn't work that well for many. " I've stopped searching and sending first messages. I like the group socials I've been to from this site though, they've been great. | |||
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"I generally stopped searching, because for multiple reasons it is almost pointless. By that I mean I'm not what they want, I'm just ignored, I'm lost in their thousands of messages, they have a better option. I'm not bitter or feeling sorry for myself. It's just overall easier and less disheartening to be found (or never found) than continue to search and get nowhere. Again, that's not a complaint it is understanding the nature of how this place works. I'm here, if somebody bothers to look and takes an interest great. If not, that's of no concern to me. Shockingly despite being here, my life does not revolve around having to find somebody to fuck. I've stopped looking too. And I know other women who've stopped. Because it's not worth the hassle of having my time constantly wasted and being lied to. So I guess doesn't matter which side of Fab you are - it doesn't work that well for many. I've stopped searching and sending first messages. I like the group socials I've been to from this site though, they've been great." I'm attending my first in a few weeks too and looking forward to meeting lots of forumites. | |||
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"I generally stopped searching, because for multiple reasons it is almost pointless. By that I mean I'm not what they want, I'm just ignored, I'm lost in their thousands of messages, they have a better option. I'm not bitter or feeling sorry for myself. It's just overall easier and less disheartening to be found (or never found) than continue to search and get nowhere. Again, that's not a complaint it is understanding the nature of how this place works. I'm here, if somebody bothers to look and takes an interest great. If not, that's of no concern to me. Shockingly despite being here, my life does not revolve around having to find somebody to fuck. " Exactly this mate! Couldn't have said it any better myself. | |||
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"We hear sob stories all the time about men asking for meetings and getting turned down on a regular basis. So, why do we bother asking? The women here know what they want, when they want it, where they want it. TS TV are included in this. We can just sit back and wait for a suitable partner to come along. After all the chances of getting a date are just as good waiting as they are hunting. What's your opinion? " If a guy clicked with a woman here or visa versa , great , if they don't , no harm , the most important thing for both is the fun is never taken out of things here , most important. | |||
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" Horniness affects cognitive performance. " ^^^ we have it in writing ... spring doesn't help either I suspect | |||
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"We hear sob stories all the time about men asking for meetings and getting turned down on a regular basis. So, why do we bother asking? The women here know what they want, when they want it, where they want it. TS TV are included in this. We can just sit back and wait for a suitable partner to come along. After all the chances of getting a date are just as good waiting as they are hunting. What's your opinion? " Bit lazy that opp. Let others do all the work whilst you sit back. Lol. | |||
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" Horniness affects cognitive performance. ^^^ we have it in writing ... spring doesn't help either I suspect " Definitely not when the summer dresses come out | |||
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"I take this same approach with the lottery. Stopped buying tickets and chasing it. It can come to me. I am also still shocked I’ve not won." I see what Youre saying here, but there's one big difference. None of us that "stopped buying tickets" are shocked (or in my case at least, even care) that we havent won. | |||
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"I take this same approach with the lottery. Stopped buying tickets and chasing it. It can come to me. I am also still shocked I’ve not won. I see what Youre saying here, but there's one big difference. None of us that "stopped buying tickets" are shocked (or in my case at least, even care) that we havent won. " Wait, you took this as a metaphor? No, I am actually shocked I haven’t won the lottery even though I make no effort to win the lottery. | |||
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"I take this same approach with the lottery. Stopped buying tickets and chasing it. It can come to me. I am also still shocked I’ve not won. I see what Youre saying here, but there's one big difference. None of us that "stopped buying tickets" are shocked (or in my case at least, even care) that we havent won. Wait, you took this as a metaphor? No, I am actually shocked I haven’t won the lottery even though I make no effort to win the lottery. " Yes I did - which it was. And no, you aren't. | |||
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"We hear sob stories all the time about men asking for meetings and getting turned down on a regular basis. So, why do we bother asking? The women here know what they want, when they want it, where they want it. TS TV are included in this. We can just sit back and wait for a suitable partner to come along. After all the chances of getting a date are just as good waiting as they are hunting. What's your opinion? " This approach would only work if all men did the same. If you don't try but every other man does then you're a lot less likely to be picked. If all men sat back and waited it wouldn't be long before someone realised that being proactive suddenly got them a lot more attention and then everyone else would begin to copy until you're back where we are now. Mr | |||
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"I take this same approach with the lottery. Stopped buying tickets and chasing it. It can come to me. I am also still shocked I’ve not won. I see what Youre saying here, but there's one big difference. None of us that "stopped buying tickets" are shocked (or in my case at least, even care) that we havent won. Wait, you took this as a metaphor? No, I am actually shocked I haven’t won the lottery even though I make no effort to win the lottery. Yes I did - which it was. And no, you aren't. " Err yes, yes I am. | |||
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"I agree. I prefer being the hunter not the hunted. Let me put my fox tail on " Kinky | |||
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"Take out Wuu2 Fancy fun? I’m near you 2pm Weds can I fuck you Hi Wanna watch me wank on Skype? And the rest of that ilk and the amount of messages which stand a chance are relatively small. " This is true ..and then folk wonder why we end up doing the bulk-delete | |||
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"I take this same approach with the lottery. Stopped buying tickets and chasing it. It can come to me. I am also still shocked I’ve not won. I see what Youre saying here, but there's one big difference. None of us that "stopped buying tickets" are shocked (or in my case at least, even care) that we havent won. Wait, you took this as a metaphor? No, I am actually shocked I haven’t won the lottery even though I make no effort to win the lottery. Yes I did - which it was. And no, you aren't. Err yes, yes I am. " Youre shocked you haven't won tbe lottery even though you make no effort to win the lottery. Ok then! Give it up though fella, its obvious you're just trying to wind people up. Is it working? Maybe a little bit! But go ahead and have the last word though if you'd like (need) to. Have a smashing day. | |||
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"I take this same approach with the lottery. Stopped buying tickets and chasing it. It can come to me. I am also still shocked I’ve not won. I see what Youre saying here, but there's one big difference. None of us that "stopped buying tickets" are shocked (or in my case at least, even care) that we havent won. Wait, you took this as a metaphor? No, I am actually shocked I haven’t won the lottery even though I make no effort to win the lottery. Yes I did - which it was. And no, you aren't. Err yes, yes I am. Youre shocked you haven't won tbe lottery even though you make no effort to win the lottery. Ok then! Give it up though fella, its obvious you're just trying to wind people up. Is it working? Maybe a little bit! But go ahead and have the last word though if you'd like (need) to. Have a smashing day. " Thanks for the permission to have the last word on my own post. Do feel free to not reply in future chief. Enjoy your afternoon. | |||
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"Scenario: the man's profile is clean and reasonably well-written, devoid of any vulgarities and crass: tick His public photographs are presentable and tasteful: tick He's read the "bio": tick He's aligns with most of the woman's criteria/requirements which serves as the impetus to write a message: tick He's sent a polite, unique and handcrafted introductory message: tick He's omitted the cock photograph: tick The message remains unread for days/weeks. It's a numbers game, pure and simple. It's about the law of averages and probability. I seldom make first contact with anyone outside of these forums. Women have it hard on here. Men have it hard on here. You'll find yourself running with the fox and chasing with the hounds. The only solution is to persevere. " And sadly sometimes well written messages get missed or bull deleted | |||
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"We hear sob stories all the time about men asking for meetings and getting turned down on a regular basis. So, why do we bother asking? The women here know what they want, when they want it, where they want it. TS TV are included in this. We can just sit back and wait for a suitable partner to come along. After all the chances of getting a date are just as good waiting as they are hunting. What's your opinion? " You can only make decisions for yourself... I wish guys on fab would understand that they are worth more than just an option, more than just a guy fighting against hundreds of other guys for the attention of a woman...but that's not how most men operate, especially when they are horny...they just start to scroll through fab with their penis in their hand, sending the same message to all women they come across (" I am so fucking horny, fancy a meet?" - and of course attaching the dic pic to showcase the lady how horny they are)...the lack of self control and discipline of some men is rather pathetic (sorry, not sorry). I made the conscious decision not to message first...it doesn't matter how attractive I am to a woman that comes across my profile, if I message first, I'm just another guy fighting for her attention (and my attractiveness will diminish simply because I message first- I understand that there will be many of you that disagree with this, however that's the conclusion I came to, based on my experience) Not messaging first works for me...that doesn't mean it would work for others... | |||
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"It’s like fishing I guess ??" Well then that very much leads us down the path of what type of rods and bait are being used?! ...and what you are trying to catch?! | |||
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"It’s like fishing I guess ?? Well then that very much leads us down the path of what type of rods and bait are being used?! ...and what you are trying to catch?! " • Cakes. Fish cakes to be precise. | |||
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"Scenario: the man's profile is clean and reasonably well-written, devoid of any vulgarities and crass: tick His public photographs are presentable and tasteful: tick He's read the "bio": tick He's aligns with most of the woman's criteria/requirements which serves as the impetus to write a message: tick He's sent a polite, unique and handcrafted introductory message: tick He's omitted the cock photograph: tick The message remains unread for days/weeks. It's a numbers game, pure and simple. It's about the law of averages and probability. I seldom make first contact with anyone outside of these forums. Women have it hard on here. Men have it hard on here. You'll find yourself running with the fox and chasing with the hounds. The only solution is to persevere. " If the majority, heaven forebid everyone, did as you list there would be substantial less messages, I think | |||
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"I agree. I prefer being the hunter not the hunted. " Oooft | |||
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"As there is so many man. You're average non athletic average cocked bloke is just thinking there is a hench, hung fuck machine about to message the person you're talking to. But, I guess just trying to be chill about it works. We all have days where we get frustrated and think what's the Point. If that's the case, take a break, no point making yourself feel worthless. " You're a good looking bloke and a human too! Don't let the site make you feel worthless. | |||
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"As there is so many man. You're average non athletic average cocked bloke is just thinking there is a hench, hung fuck machine about to message the person you're talking to. But, I guess just trying to be chill about it works. We all have days where we get frustrated and think what's the Point. If that's the case, take a break, no point making yourself feel worthless. You're a good looking bloke and a human too! Don't let the site make you feel worthless. " I hope that was aimed at me Outsider. Lol | |||
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"As there is so many man. You're average non athletic average cocked bloke is just thinking there is a hench, hung fuck machine about to message the person you're talking to. But, I guess just trying to be chill about it works. We all have days where we get frustrated and think what's the Point. If that's the case, take a break, no point making yourself feel worthless. " Not everyone is looking for hench, hung fuck machines. But then if they are, good on them. I know our preferences preclude a lot of people that message us. If people want a guaranteed shag, put your money where your mouth is and get yourself sorted. | |||
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"As there is so many man. You're average non athletic average cocked bloke is just thinking there is a hench, hung fuck machine about to message the person you're talking to. But, I guess just trying to be chill about it works. We all have days where we get frustrated and think what's the Point. If that's the case, take a break, no point making yourself feel worthless. Not everyone is looking for hench, hung fuck machines. But then if they are, good on them. I know our preferences preclude a lot of people that message us. If people want a guaranteed shag, put your money where your mouth is and get yourself sorted." Oh I know not everyone is, haha. If it was I'd still be a virgin. Haha | |||
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"As there is so many man. You're average non athletic average cocked bloke is just thinking there is a hench, hung fuck machine about to message the person you're talking to. But, I guess just trying to be chill about it works. We all have days where we get frustrated and think what's the Point. If that's the case, take a break, no point making yourself feel worthless. You're a good looking bloke and a human too! Don't let the site make you feel worthless. I hope that was aimed at me Outsider. Lol" Yes! | |||
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"It’s like fishing I guess ?? Well then that very much leads us down the path of what type of rods and bait are being used?! ...and what you are trying to catch?! • Cakes. Fish cakes to be precise. " Deep ... or shallow fried ... if you say grilled there will be bother!? | |||
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"It’s like fishing I guess ?? Well then that very much leads us down the path of what type of rods and bait are being used?! ...and what you are trying to catch?! • Cakes. Fish cakes to be precise. Deep ... or shallow fried ... if you say grilled there will be bother!? " Poached, even worse than grilled or pickled | |||
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"As there is so many man. You're average non athletic average cocked bloke is just thinking there is a hench, hung fuck machine about to message the person you're talking to. But, I guess just trying to be chill about it works. We all have days where we get frustrated and think what's the Point. If that's the case, take a break, no point making yourself feel worthless. You're a good looking bloke and a human too! Don't let the site make you feel worthless. I hope that was aimed at me Outsider. Lol Yes! " Aww. Thank you Outsider | |||
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"I find it hard getting noticed by people, and due the shear amount of messages women in here receive on a daily basis, makes it harder, and it’s a shame for all us good guys out there " Forget about other peoples messages, if the person wants to meet you they make an effort. As such focus on what you can control, your profile, your photos, your messages, the persona you portray on here. | |||
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"Some men are happy to sit back and wait for messages and some are pro-active. I just wish some of the pro-active ones would learn to read a profile but sadly most seem controlled by their penis! x" Not all men are controlled by their penis. Ladies get so many messages with there being 80% more men | |||
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"We hear sob stories all the time about men asking for meetings and getting turned down on a regular basis. So, why do we bother asking? The women here know what they want, when they want it, where they want it. TS TV are included in this. We can just sit back and wait for a suitable partner to come along. After all the chances of getting a date are just as good waiting as they are hunting. What's your opinion? You can only make decisions for yourself... I wish guys on fab would understand that they are worth more than just an option, more than just a guy fighting against hundreds of other guys for the attention of a woman...but that's not how most men operate, especially when they are horny...they just start to scroll through fab with their penis in their hand, sending the same message to all women they come across (" I am so fucking horny, fancy a meet?" - and of course attaching the dic pic to showcase the lady how horny they are)...the lack of self control and discipline of some men is rather pathetic (sorry, not sorry). I made the conscious decision not to message first...it doesn't matter how attractive I am to a woman that comes across my profile, if I message first, I'm just another guy fighting for her attention (and my attractiveness will diminish simply because I message first- I understand that there will be many of you that disagree with this, however that's the conclusion I came to, based on my experience) Not messaging first works for me...that doesn't mean it would work for others..." Well said, handsome I for one am drawn to profiles that make clear what they want and that they don’t bombard women with generic messages. | |||
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"I find it hard getting noticed by people, and due the shear amount of messages women in here receive on a daily basis, makes it harder, and it’s a shame for all us good guys out there As such focus on what you can control, your profile, your photos, your messages, the persona you portray on here." • It's a moot point. Whatever he may focus on becomes a futile effort. Because it will typically remain unread in the recipient's InBox. | |||
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"Some men are happy to sit back and wait for messages and some are pro-active. I just wish some of the pro-active ones would learn to read a profile but sadly most seem controlled by their penis! x Not all men are controlled by their penis. Ladies get so many messages with there being 80% more men" I said most, not all x | |||
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"I find it hard getting noticed by people, and due the shear amount of messages women in here receive on a daily basis, makes it harder, and it’s a shame for all us good guys out there As such focus on what you can control, your profile, your photos, your messages, the persona you portray on here. • It's a moot point. Whatever he may focus on becomes a futile effort. Because it will typically remain unread in the recipient's InBox." I disagree. I think we all have to focus on what WE can control. Having a good profile / photos etc means that if the message is read or you get chatting to someone in the forum - it's more likely the other person will be happy to continue. There are often times I get a good message but the profile lets them down and I decline. Or I like the look of someone in the forum but they have 16 pics of their dick. | |||
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"I find it hard getting noticed by people, and due the shear amount of messages women in here receive on a daily basis, makes it harder, and it’s a shame for all us good guys out there As such focus on what you can control, your profile, your photos, your messages, the persona you portray on here. • It's a moot point. Whatever he may focus on becomes a futile effort. Because it will typically remain unread in the recipient's InBox. I disagree. I think we all have to focus on what WE can control. Having a good profile / photos etc means that if the message is read or you get chatting to someone in the forum - it's more likely the other person will be happy to continue. There are often times I get a good message but the profile lets them down and I decline. Or I like the look of someone in the forum but they have 16 pics of their dick. " They have 16 dicks? Ha ha. | |||
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"Although I haven't been in in ages, it's good to try the forums, as it's a bit more natural. Like being in a bar chatting. Imagine if you went into a bar, showed someone youre face and cock and asked 'How are you' lol" • I wouldn't say that's a wholly accurate analogy. The analogy would be to walk into a bar, get into the long and slow-moving queue of people leading to one specific person. The majority of those in the queue are standing there with their cocks hanging out but one or two are looking presentable and with honourable intentions. | |||
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"I find it hard getting noticed by people, and due the shear amount of messages women in here receive on a daily basis, makes it harder, and it’s a shame for all us good guys out there As such focus on what you can control, your profile, your photos, your messages, the persona you portray on here. • It's a moot point. Whatever he may focus on becomes a futile effort. Because it will typically remain unread in the recipient's InBox. I disagree. I think we all have to focus on what WE can control. Having a good profile / photos etc means that if the message is read or you get chatting to someone in the forum - it's more likely the other person will be happy to continue. There are often times I get a good message but the profile lets them down and I decline. Or I like the look of someone in the forum but they have 16 pics of their dick. They have 16 dicks? Ha ha. " | |||
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"I find it hard getting noticed by people, and due the shear amount of messages women in here receive on a daily basis, makes it harder, and it’s a shame for all us good guys out there As such focus on what you can control, your profile, your photos, your messages, the persona you portray on here. • It's a moot point. Whatever he may focus on becomes a futile effort. Because it will typically remain unread in the recipient's InBox. I disagree. I think we all have to focus on what WE can control. Having a good profile / photos etc means that if the message is read or you get chatting to someone in the forum - it's more likely the other person will be happy to continue. There are often times I get a good message but the profile lets them down and I decline. Or I like the look of someone in the forum but they have 16 pics of their dick. " • "if the message is read" - and therein lies the perceived frustration: the messages are rarely opened, let alone responded to. | |||
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" • It's a moot point. Whatever he may focus on becomes a futile effort. Because it will typically remain unread in the recipient's InBox. I disagree. I think we all have to focus on what WE can control. Having a good profile / photos etc means that if the message is read or you get chatting to someone in the forum - it's more likely the other person will be happy to continue. There are often times I get a good message but the profile lets them down and I decline. Or I like the look of someone in the forum but they have 16 pics of their dick. They have 16 dicks? Ha ha. " Imagine cleaning the bathroom. Haha. Though it would be a more literal golden shower. Haha | |||
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