FabSwingers.com forum: Men, let’s talk about your wiener

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

I had a few convos with guys who are considered well endowed and majority just told me they were oblivious and only really realised when being told by partners or maybe even friends (say communal shower situation in the gym or whatever)

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

For everyone else, how do you feel about your Willy? Do you have any quirks that you were self aware about? Maybe a bend, or too much foreskin? Or maybe you were cut and that made you feel a certain way?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really feel anything about my penis. It’s alright. Does what I need it to. I have terrible self esteem but strangely the only part of my body Im not bothered about -positive or negative- is my penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mine, it’s the only one I’ll have, and I can’t change anything about it. I had one or two compliments that suggest it’s nicely thick, rather than long.

Me and my penis, we’re besties for life. I love the little fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since going to clubs I’ve realised that there isn’t that many big ones about and mines pretty much similar to anybody else’s.

I did worry for a bit when I was with a woman who couldn’t climax from penetration but after talking to her I found out that it’s fairly common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't need to read thread to realise it was created by Kylie...she dickmatised on a daily basis these day's

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

I always thought I was average sized when younger but thought I might be bigger when friends at the boxing club would say size of your knob when we showered.

Through adolescence I assumed I was doing sex wrong when girls would say your big your hurting me so I got a bit self conscious about it all.

Not until I ventured into swing & kink that I actually noticed and accepted my girth and that it’s appreciated.

I’m told I have a very attractive dick which also does wonders for one’s sexual prowess.

Mr J (aka Goldenpole)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do feel a little envy on occasion of guys with bigger cocks, mostly with girth than length, im like an average 6 i think, i havent measured. But i dont have girth. I only really noticed my size when i started watching porn but my size was never really on my mind much

What i can be thankful for though is that i get rock hard, and have a little curve going on, not odd looking banana curve though. My ex told me that cos it gets so hard and has the curve it pushed up and rubbed against her which made it so pleasurable, and the rib around my tip would rub against her g-spot

So i guess, despite my size, it has its quirks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked out was larger at school in the showers as was twice as long as the other guys, rumors spread to the girls and I became very popular with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought mine was small maybe average. Partners have said its a good size. But i figured they were being nice. One finally measured it a few months back. 7".

Doesn’t look that big!!

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By *abswing10Man
over a year ago

hastings

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

I think most people are oblivious until they get repeatedly told.. if everyone you meet says how big it is then over time you will start to think it is

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

"I do feel a little envy on occasion of guys with bigger cocks, mostly with girth than length, im like an average 6 i think, i havent measured. But i dont have girth. I only really noticed my size when i started watching porn but my size was never really on my mind much

So i guess, despite my size, it has its quirks"

Let’s see this magic curve my good man....cockmatise Kylie with your shape

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

As average as can be (well slightly more than average) 6" give or take I guess. Can't really recall when I even noticed myself. I've had many a compliment about it.

Sure if there was a quick, easy, and simple way to change it, I'd make it a little bigger, an extra inch.

Otherwise I don't really pay much attention to how it looks or its size. It is what it is and it's not going to change (for the better, it can always get worse though...

) I'm stuck with it so might as well accept and just deal with it.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

I’ve always thought of myself as under average /average but recently sent a newish picture to a lady friend of mine and she seems to think otherwise

Hey ho either way it’s the disco stick I was blessed with . I make the best music with what I’ve got

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Many definitely are oblivious. I slept with a guy a few years ago who thought he had erectile dysfunction. The condoms were just too tight. I brought a few sizes around and he needed the biggest ones you can buy that aren't specially made. Yet he didn't think he was very big. He was about 6ft 5 though so maybe in comparison to him and his giant hands it didn't seem very big to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really measured mine so not sure if I'm above average bit I don't think I'm below average. I wouldn't mind it being a little thicker but the size of it isn't something I'm really worried about because it's not like I can change that. How it performs is more my priority

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't need to read thread to realise it was created by Kylie...she dickmatised on a daily basis these day's

so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just realized I have no opinion of my penis, it's just there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Worked out was larger at school in the showers as was twice as long as the other guys, rumors spread to the girls and I became very popular with them

I mean, that does look huge

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just realized I have no opinion of my penis, it's just there

HOW THO

how can you not have an opinion about ur life companion?

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By *lbethereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I was totally oblivious until around 27, had a long term partner until then a few here and there before.

I remember after splitting with that girl friend sleeping with one girl and she kept saying, ‘you have a great body’ to be fair I was over weight at the time and just thought ‘really’? After a time i came to realise she was talking about my cock lol I knew this girl from my local area and suddenly became quite popular with the ladies in that area!! They do talk! Great for me lol

I look back now and can see how I just think my size was average when it is not, like In the showers you are looking down on yourself so it isn’t as obvious as you think. Another thing porn films actors just seemed to be well just like mostly normal too, I’d hear about male’s feeling intimidated by the actors size and wonder why. Obviously i do remember a few and thinking thats a big one and thought they’d be on about those lol but they be like 12 inches etc.

After all it did s just part of you and you are just another person, so you just (or I did) think you’re normal. And something I have spoken about to ex’s is they say it is always viewable what ever I wear, i have to say a couple of my ex’s have got me laid a good few times, i like to think it other things to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a late bloomer sexually......always had an interest but couldn't pull for love nor money.

After I got a little experience I dated a friend of a friend and I was besotted with her. Absolutely besotted.

When we broke up she was quite venomous, you'll never amount to anything, your worthless, you've got a little dick. I'm fairly thick skinned. I knew I'd achieve what I would set my mind to, I knew my self worth......but for the last 20 odd years despite me being above average that venomous "you've got a little dick" has always played on my mind. Despite other women commenting on it saying it's big, or huge (but most saying nothing) I think that they are being nice and trying to boost the ego. There is always that doubt that it is small, and that will always plague my thoughts.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I like my penis but it needs to calm down a bit, it tends to excited really easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm as average and normal as you get really.

Average length and width, no bends, circumcised so no foreskin complaints.

I've been told by many women that I'm 'the perfect fit for their pussy' so that makes me feel good.

I've been with two women who needed a lot more than I could offer which did make me stop and question myself and with how common 'big cocks only, 9inch plus or don't bother messaging, size queen' stuff you see on fab can be intimidating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm as average and normal as you get really.

Average length and width, no bends, circumcised so no foreskin complaints.

I've been told by many women that I'm 'the perfect fit for their pussy' so that makes me feel good.

Works the other way though as just as many want Mr average and run from plus sizes

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Partners kept saying I had an amazing thick cock.

Also watching some amateur porn and fairly frequently thinking "I am both bigger and could give better than this dude...it's half flaccid and shes super hot common bro" lol

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I'm as average and normal as you get really.

Average length and width, no bends, circumcised so no foreskin complaints.

I've been told by many women that I'm 'the perfect fit for their pussy' so that makes me feel good.

Works the other way though as just as many want Mr average and run from plus sizes"

Indeed. I've said before more often than not the Size Queens tend to be the more vocal and make it blatantly clear that is what they want while those who tend to prefer smaller or not care at all don't mention it and make it a thing. This often makes it seem like men with larger penis are in much more demand than they actually are.

The vocal and loudest often seem like the majority when the majority is usually the "silent"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought my knob was on the small side - judging by some on here, it is

However, when I was meeting randoms with regularity, it was always my cock that got the veri not me

So, I assume it must be alright

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Penis size is still one of the only body shaming things that’s completely acceptable in most of society

It’s no surprise so many men struggle with penis size issues

It’s gross how acceptable it is to openly mock it.

I’m extremely average. It does the job, I’ve never had complaints. I’ve been turned down on here by people looking for hung. I’ve turned people down because I’ve seen them with hung guys in their pictures and worried I wouldn’t be able to compete. I’ve also had insults related to size thrown at me so many times in my life I can’t count. From angry girlfriends, to friends joking, to complete strangers (mostly women) looking for the fastest way to try to bruise my ego.

It’s gross.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can’t juggle, walk a tightrope or hula hoop and would therefore be be shit in a circus.

If I was to list all the problems with my penis they’d definitely be the top 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

All my life I’ve been vanilla. I’ve always considered myself small in that department. I had nothing but porn to compare to. I even call him Little Tony.

But I found fab and then clubs, it was only them that I realised that I wasn’t as small as I thought.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

My first real GF told me her previous guy was bigger than me and that always gave me a little insecurity complex about it.

That lasted until a couple of years ago when I became a lot more comfortable in my life and my body, only took 20+ years lol

I'm more than happy being a smidgen above average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought I wasn’t big, I’m also a grower not a shower. Also being told so by a toxic ex.

I’ve had several partners since compliment me on the old fella, saying it’s has good girth, a good balance of girth/length and also been told it’s gorgeous lol

A huge confidence booster, but has also helped me feel brave enough to visit a club as a single male for the first time.

In the end it doesn’t matter to me as long as it’s all fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only see it from above, on the whole, which is the worst angle for making it look more diminutive. I'd say Im average, but I've had people say I'm bigger than normal, but tbh I guess that is only based on what their prior experience is, so on the whole I just don't really give a shit, knowing as all men do anyway that you have good days and bad days, I've had the occasional boner to make a porn star wince, and I've had plenty of half assed can't be bothered I didn't want to get out my pants today ones also.

I do have a sneaking suspicion that the size matters thing is really poorly worded, and maybe, perhaps, if not having a big one that's important to some, it's more having one that fits OK, shall we say.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm as average and normal as you get really.

Average length and width, no bends, circumcised so no foreskin complaints.

I've been told by many women that I'm 'the perfect fit for their pussy' so that makes me feel good.

Works the other way though as just as many want Mr average and run from plus sizes

The vocal and loudest often seem like the majority when the majority is usually the "silent" "

Personally I've never wished someone I had sex with had a bigger penis. I have wished a few were smaller though. Vaginal tears aren't fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just a standard winky its funny tho as its been grown up sized since i was 12 so as a kid everyone thought it huge but as an adult its just normal sized and does what i need it to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Penis size is still one of the only body shaming things that’s completely acceptable in most of society

It’s no surprise so many men struggle with penis size issues

It’s gross how acceptable it is to openly mock it.

It’s gross. "

I admit I used to look out for bigger sized guys. Until I stopped caring too much, and yes maybe bigger size can make you feel more

But ultimately, it’s not that important at all. Maybe I’ve matured

who knows …

I think if I’m attracted to him, and knows how to fuck. Then fuck the size! X it really doesn’t matter

I’ve had amazing standard sized ones. So now if he’s bigger, I see it as a total bonus and not a “requirement”

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

It’s a funny one but when I was younger I always thought I had a small cock although I’d never had any complaints.

Since joining fab however I have had quite a lot of people say I have a nice good sized cock.

They must have small hands.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It’s a funny one but when I was younger I always thought I had a small cock although I’d never had any complaints.

Since joining fab however I have had quite a lot of people say I have a nice good sized cock.

They must have small hands.

Looks like it still needs a little ripening though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm told I'm above average, so will assume this to he true rather than just ego massaging

It wasn't until I first joined fab. Both from seeing pics (don't often see a guy hard outside of porn!) and then having the same compliment on a frequent basis.

Before that my reference was porn. That's like comparing ones height at a basketball match!

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By *m NormalMan
over a year ago

Telford

Your doctor friend is correct, 5 inches is average.

My cock is 6.5 inches, when very aroused its 7 in.

Been told I'm big but I think that is flattery.

If I could change its size another inch or more would make f*****g in some positions easier. I think it's thick enough, room for more lol

I'm at the gym 3x a week no exercise make my cock any bigger

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Great thread OP. Really good to see many of our experiences are as average as our chaps. It is shocking that it's such an acceptable form of shaming, and can feel defeating when most of what you see is the more vocal size specifists.

Personally, as average, I'd love more, but that may be more to suit myself as for the most part I've only had compliments, been saved as Lord Thickdick (!) in a fwb's phone & even bottomed/topped out with another. So it's an entirely personal and interpersonal thing. I'd rather rely on my connection with the other person and my oral & manual skills, which I think are probably much better.

(I've only ever had one semi-snide comment which didn't actually bother me cos it is what it is & she was bigger than me so go figure, and even stopped me from making her cum & squirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine’s average. I like the way it looks but I don’t fret about the size. I can change that as much as I can change my height so it’s a wasted emotion.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think mine is completely magic. It changes so rapidly and dramatically to the prevailing situation. Fully erect and solid its nothing special in length, but it's nice and wide (especially in the middle of the shaft) and I have a lot of comments that it a very nice looking cock and feels good. So I'm in all honesty proud to have such an aesthetically pleasing cock. And if I'm honest I agree and like the look of it my self. After all cocks can be any size but not all of them look beautiful, same a vaginas. Apparently my balls are very nice too. Before this game I didn't realise so many women where such connoisseurs when it come to testicles. But like I said it have a wide size range. If I am just chilled an relax, it just isn't anything to write home about and dangles. And when it's cold or I'm doing some sort of dangerous or sporting activity it just disappears and bunkers down until the cold or hazard has passed. To be fair I don't blame it and I prefer it this way. Better it stays safe in theses times for use at better time. I would say I'm definitely in the grower not shower camp. And as you can guess I'm very happy with it. From a practical point an extra inch would be handy for a couple of possition, especially because I like larger women.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I think a lot of men are a bit oblivious to the actual size of other men's weiners, having not been up close and personal with them. I think the default is to assume that their own is average or small. But what they forget is that lady bits are all different shapes and sizes, and what feels too big to be comfortable to one woman, could feel too small to another woman.

I made a replica dildo of my favourite penis, and when he could actually look at it more closely, not attached to his body, it dawned on him just how large it is, and he understood why I like the bend so much.

Personally, there are only extreme ends of the size spectrum that don't work for me, and I've only ever seen one at each end in over 20 years on the swinging scene.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Mine would be considered medium size or average, but as I have got older it's grows a bit bigger in length and girth. Now this has surprised me but could be down to it being under used. At my age I'm happy with it

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I think a lot of men are a bit oblivious to the actual size of other men's weiners, having not been up close and personal with them. I think the default is to assume that their own is average or small. But what they forget is that lady bits are all different shapes and sizes, and what feels too big to be comfortable to one woman, could feel too small to another woman.

Personally, there are only extreme ends of the size spectrum that don't work for me, and I've only ever seen one at each end in over 20 years on the swinging scene. "

Even with those clone a willy things, it's hard to get it in the mould all the way to the base. My partner did one for a long distance friend and it looked smaller than the real thing. Definitely a good way to see other details though like the girth and the shape.

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By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield

Being on the curvier side of things I just prefer bigger

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I've had complements and happy with what I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally, there are only extreme ends of the size spectrum that don't work for me, and I've only ever seen one at each end in over 20 years on the swinging scene. "

It seems to be that way!! Like from what it seems, loads seem to be thinking everyone else is bigger. The big guys think they are average or just about average when in fact, they are pretty big guys x

I love that you made a clone of your fave penis

such a sluteeee!

I admit I have a copy of one of my faves x

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

To be honest I don’t really worry or think about what others have, I’m happy with mine. When hard it’s rock solid and can be used as a catapult I hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

I knew right away in my teenage years, the environment I was in you will sort of know. That is another story.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them"

Are you suggesting we all wank in the mirror to remind ourselves?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Actually there is one thing I'd change about him.

He's too vertical.

As much as I love reverse cowgirl it just can't happen much or for long as he just doesn't go that way!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them"

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

And the crazy thing is, the majority of women are absolutely fine with average. Yet there seems to be a strong stigma around penises being too small, it’s the go to insult when you want to hurt a guys ego.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them"

Angles do play a big part when viewing a cock for length but girth certainly shows regardless as does a nice huge helmet.

I’m interested to know how different cocks feel to women once inside your pussy’s....can you feel the vain pulsing ones more than the smoother throbbing type.

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve never really had any issues with my todger. I think VWE or similar terminology is subjective. I am genuinely interested in knowing what others think of my length though - I’d say it’s pretty average really!! I like my cock - it’s a good friend.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

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By *lbethereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally, there are only extreme ends of the size spectrum that don't work for me, and I've only ever seen one at each end in over 20 years on the swinging scene. "

This comment is spot on, the only way you know is unless you frolic around with naked men all day lol Is when women tell you and het the tape measure out!!

I had an ex who bought one of those clone things and wanted a clone. I said no way, now she’s and ex and would have had my cock for ever!! To show to who ever

or do with it what she wanted, Nah i of had to take it with me lol So I took the real thing and never made it lolit She kept the whatever it was tube lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

I mean I can’t say anything about what you said and you made very valid points.

But have to say, avarage isn’t small! But don’t know if guys feel they are made to think avarage is small and not good for women.

Hmmm.

Is it a very similar argument about smaller boobs and bigger boobs? Like to a degree.

Playing devil’s advocate here

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’ve been told mines nice and girthy x I’d like it to be slightly bigger but hey ho !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I big? You can be the judge of that if it really matters just don’t hurt my feelings

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

I mean I can’t say anything about what you said and you made very valid points.

But have to say, avarage isn’t small! But don’t know if guys feel they are made to think avarage is small and not good for women.

Hmmm.

Is it a very similar argument about smaller boobs and bigger boobs? Like to a degree.

Playing devil’s advocate here

No, because woman’s bodies are naturally celebrated in general. There’s no such things as “big boob energy”. There’s plenty of “a handful is perfect”.

There’s almost no body positivity aimed at penis sizes. I’d say there’s zero. But there might be some, but we certainly don’t have entire companies devoting their message of “all bodies are beautiful” aimed at mens issues

I’d honestly say it’s not even close. And I think it runs deeper that mens body issues just aren’t taken seriously in society. To the point that celebrities can basically Shame penis sizes and it’s met openly with laughter, cheers and applauds.

Women have seen a revolution on body positivity in the last 20-30 years. Men have seen very little, and in some aspects it’s even gone backwards.

I’d like to see body positivity in everyone, in every aspect. But we are very inconsistent in what we celebrate and what we find acceptable to mock. There was even a thread last week about putins cock, with several posts making jokes that he must have a small penis. Because obviously anyone with a small penis must be a bad person deep down?

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By *abswing10Man
over a year ago

hastings

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

I mean I can’t say anything about what you said and you made very valid points.

But have to say, avarage isn’t small! But don’t know if guys feel they are made to think avarage is small and not good for women.

Hmmm.

Is it a very similar argument about smaller boobs and bigger boobs? Like to a degree.

Playing devil’s advocate here

I think the common perception of ‘small’ isn’t actually small due to almost everyone claiming to be average or above! It’s definitely down to opinion though. Some people don’t like them too big anyway! I personally don’t like huge boobs I prefer smaller nicely shaped boobs personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just realized I have no opinion of my penis, it's just there

HOW THO

how can you not have an opinion about ur life companion?

I guess I wish he didn't try to think for me sometimes but other than that he's working fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

I mean I can’t say anything about what you said and you made very valid points.

But have to say, avarage isn’t small! But don’t know if guys feel they are made to think avarage is small and not good for women.

Hmmm.

Is it a very similar argument about smaller boobs and bigger boobs? Like to a degree.

Playing devil’s advocate here

No, because woman’s bodies are naturally celebrated in general. There’s no such things as “big boob energy”. There’s plenty of “a handful is perfect”.

Women have seen a revolution on body positivity in the last 20-30 years. Men have seen very little, and in some aspects it’s even gone backwards.

I see that, or the classic joke…

If he’s driving a huge expensive SUV or just an expensive car then he must have a small dick for sure to compensate cos he wouldn’t be like that if he had a big dick?

Where does that shit come from? Why do we say these things?

Regarding body positivity, reminds me, fat positivity and how no man seems to be in that “movement”??

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

I mean I can’t say anything about what you said and you made very valid points.

But have to say, avarage isn’t small! But don’t know if guys feel they are made to think avarage is small and not good for women.

Hmmm.

Is it a very similar argument about smaller boobs and bigger boobs? Like to a degree.

Playing devil’s advocate here

No, because woman’s bodies are naturally celebrated in general. There’s no such things as “big boob energy”. There’s plenty of “a handful is perfect”.

Women have seen a revolution on body positivity in the last 20-30 years. Men have seen very little, and in some aspects it’s even gone backwards.

As with the answer to most "why is there X and not Y?" questions, it comes down to the fact that people in X group have created a movement for themselves and people in Y group haven't.

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By *fabMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

Well I like my brown friend it’s a healthy size and listens to me when I tell it to stand up or sit down lol, also I’m cut and yeh that was something I found different when in showers at school but mine always looks tidy when it’s sleeping or working lol also I have a curve on it that touches different nerves in the vagina and anal that will defo make you orgasm, have been refused by many saying it’s to big but it’s only a 8 1/2 inches that’s not huge is it? Recently have learnt the art of edging (amazing) and have dick control so can last forever

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Feel embarrassed about the size it seems small so very self concious

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

I mean I can’t say anything about what you said and you made very valid points.

But have to say, avarage isn’t small! But don’t know if guys feel they are made to think avarage is small and not good for women.

Hmmm.

Is it a very similar argument about smaller boobs and bigger boobs? Like to a degree.

Playing devil’s advocate here

No, because woman’s bodies are naturally celebrated in general. There’s no such things as “big boob energy”. There’s plenty of “a handful is perfect”.

Women have seen a revolution on body positivity in the last 20-30 years. Men have seen very little, and in some aspects it’s even gone backwards.

I see that, or the classic joke…

If he’s driving a huge expensive SUV or just an expensive car then he must have a small dick for sure to compensate cos he wouldn’t be like that if he had a big dick?

Where does that shit come from? Why do we say these things?

Regarding body positivity, reminds me, fat positivity and how no man seems to be in that “movement”??

I’d imagine the big dick stuff comes from thousand of years of mysticism. The biggest, toughest guys were generally leaders and so big become synonymous with the best. And dicks were all about fertility and passing on life.

I dunno why it’s still around now. And I dunno why we are so open and accepting of mocking it when other things are so clearly frowned upon.

Much like height. “What do you call a guy under 6ft? A friend” is a common mentality. I’m all for preferences, it’s the shaming that comes with it I don’t like. And when it’s aimed at men there seems to be very little resistance. I’ve seen guys get abused and assaulted for commenting on a woman’s weight. I’ve never seen a single repercussion for the million small dick jokes/insults.

There’s even gonna be people reading this thinking I must be a wimp with a small dick for caring.

Change won’t happen over night, it takes time. I try to call it out when I see it, and it’s shocking how little support you’ll receive for doing so

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Also someone who was quite big mentioned about one of my first dildos saying it was huge. And when I said. You are actually a bit bigger.

That took him by surprise and just didn’t see it.

Was surreal x

So I guess self awareness of own bits might be a tad distorted ? As u can see it only from looking down or In the mirror but even then, you can’t comprehend exactly the size, maybe?

Am I talking shite?

Ooh Also, my boobs don’t look so big when i look down at them

I think it’s partly true but it’s minimising the issue that penis shaming is so common and so accepted. That’s where most of these issues come from.

It’s a little sad to hear things like that when we all know fully well how much penis size is critiqued in society. Big dick energy is good. Small is bad. The bigger the better.

Let’s not turn the issue into “it’s mens fault for not knowing how to properly measure their dick” and instead ask why it’s so acceptable to be so judgemental over size

I mean I can’t say anything about what you said and you made very valid points.

But have to say, avarage isn’t small! But don’t know if guys feel they are made to think avarage is small and not good for women.

Hmmm.

Is it a very similar argument about smaller boobs and bigger boobs? Like to a degree.

Playing devil’s advocate here

No, because woman’s bodies are naturally celebrated in general. There’s no such things as “big boob energy”. There’s plenty of “a handful is perfect”.

Women have seen a revolution on body positivity in the last 20-30 years. Men have seen very little, and in some aspects it’s even gone backwards.

I see that, or the classic joke…

If he’s driving a huge expensive SUV or just an expensive car then he must have a small dick for sure to compensate cos he wouldn’t be like that if he had a big dick?

Where does that shit come from? Why do we say these things?

Regarding body positivity, reminds me, fat positivity and how no man seems to be in that “movement”??

I dunno why it’s still around now. And I dunno why we are so open and accepting of mocking it when other things are so clearly frowned upon.

There’s even gonna be people reading this thinking I must be a wimp with a small dick for caring.

Change won’t happen over night, it takes time. I try to call it out when I see it, and it’s shocking how little support you’ll receive for doing so "

Broadly agree, however looking at ancient sculptures you notice the men's genitals are diminished - at least around that time, intelligence was more important and those with large penises were often seen as dumb & brutish (for thinking with them).

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over a year ago

I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter” "

Oh it's widespread, see it all the time on dating apps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After comparing to average size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter” "

I've heard men say women say this joke.

I've also seen the preference on profiles (here and elsewhere)

But I've been in plenty of dates with women who have said this in public, but who I then found out had boyfriends who were shorter than 6ft. By a fair few inches.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter” "

To be fair you might be biased since you’d not be in the receiving end

They are widespread, common, brutal. Recently they’ve gotten a lot more common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter” "

Height makes a difference to cock size - not literally, but in how it looks

I once had an MFMF with a friend who us 6ft5 and commented to him I was surprised he didn't have a bigger cock

This ended up with a measuring session and our cocks were pretty much exactly the same size

On me, at 5ft6 it looks pretty big, on him at 6ft5, it looked a bit on the small side

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I’d imagine the big dick stuff comes from thousand of years of mysticism. The biggest, toughest guys were generally leaders and so big become synonymous with the best. And dicks were all about fertility and passing on life.

I dunno why it’s still around now. And I dunno why we are so open and accepting of mocking it when other things are so clearly frowned upon.

There’s even gonna be people reading this thinking I must be a wimp with a small dick for caring.

Change won’t happen over night, it takes time. I try to call it out when I see it, and it’s shocking how little support you’ll receive for doing so "

Romans considered large penis as a grotesque trait. Used on images of Satyrs and other monsters, ugly old men, and barbarians.

Obviously that goes in the opposite direction but is still body shamining - point is just like with lots of things (men wearing makeup or "feminine" clothing) there was a point when things changed and such things were flipped and went to the other extreme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be what's considered a grower. I'm very self aware of my size when its flacid and it takes me time to build confidence with someone before I let them see it that way.....then I can let them watch it grow to a size I'm happy with

Over the years I've accepted that it is how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

To be fair you might be biased since you’d not be in the receiving end

They are widespread, common, brutal. Recently they’ve gotten a lot more common "

I've never heard that joke. What a load of bollocks. My eldest is 18 and about 5' 7". I'm angry on his behalf for what's to come.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I dunno why it’s still around now. And I dunno why we are so open and accepting of mocking it when other things are so clearly frowned upon.

There’s even gonna be people reading this thinking I must be a wimp with a small dick for caring.

Change won’t happen over night, it takes time. I try to call it out when I see it, and it’s shocking how little support you’ll receive for doing so.

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I don't usually comment on threads like this but I wanted to say I agree with you. Personal preferences is one thing, outright ridicule is totally another and has no place in public forums where unfortunately narcissism as well as indiscriminate abuse and double standards are in abundance. Everyone is different, everyone likes different things. Small, big, showers, growers, slim, ample or large,or whatever, it's just what the world is all about and the better we all are for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was quite late losing my virginity - 19 and she first said about it. Apparently my package in the joggers I wore to the gym was well discussed.

I'm certainly not huge and don't consider myself large at all but I guess I kind of know I must be above average from the number of people who have mentioned it and since becoming a swinger actually seeing others. I certainly wouldn't want to be any larger, being aware that in certain positions it's too much for some means that not hurting my partner is always at least a background thought if not an outright concern.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

Oh it's widespread, see it all the time on dating apps"

Okay I didn’t know they made jokes about it , maybe thought they were stating they liked taller guys.

Personally I do love tall guys, and they are my preference.

Like a 6’4” guy would catch my attention easier.

But I’ve met with guys who were 5’10” and up and absolutely no problem. So long as they are a bit taller than me

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

Oh it's widespread, see it all the time on dating apps

Okay I didn’t know they made jokes about it , maybe thought they were stating they liked taller guys.

Personally I do love tall guys, and they are my preference.

Like a 6’4” guy would catch my attention easier.

But I’ve met with guys who were 5’10” and up and absolutely no problem. So long as they are a bit taller than me

As with cocks then, girth is usually more important than length/height

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

Height makes a difference to cock size - not literally, but in how it looks

I once had an MFMF with a friend who us 6ft5 and commented to him I was surprised he didn't have a bigger cock

This ended up with a measuring session and our cocks were pretty much exactly the same size

On me, at 5ft6 it looks pretty big, on him at 6ft5, it looked a bit on the small side"

Also that, very true. Proportions can be deceiving .

I think that’s why some male porn actors, look like they have MONSTER dicks. And yes maybe they are big, but look even bigger because they are maybe 5’8” x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

To be fair you might be biased since you’d not be in the receiving end

They are widespread, common, brutal. Recently they’ve gotten a lot more common

I've never heard that joke. What a load of bollocks. My eldest is 18 and about 5' 7". I'm angry on his behalf for what's to come.

There will always be those who don't like what you have but the best thing you can do is concentrate on those who do and don't let it become a bigger issue than it is. I'm personally not bothered about height but it bothers me when a man is insecure about his height and tries to stop me wearing heels because of it. I've also had female friends who I see as awe inspiring amazon goddesses who are insecure about being tall because men won't date them because they're taller than them. I went to college with a couple who were a tall woman and a man who was probably a bit below average height and honestly it was so attractive that he was totally confident and comfortable with her wearing whatever height heels she wanted and admiring how stunning she looked in them rather than worrying about being shorter than her.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen. "

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

According to a couple of posts above, 5 inch is average. That's certainly made me feel a lot better

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

To be fair you might be biased since you’d not be in the receiving end

They are widespread, common, brutal. Recently they’ve gotten a lot more common

I've never heard that joke. What a load of bollocks. My eldest is 18 and about 5' 7". I'm angry on his behalf for what's to come.

Just to point out I'm not disagreeing or dismissing what you say about either side, men or women.

But from experience seeing/hearing it said and witnessing it with friends and just most people it tends to be women that are more conscious about wanting/needing a man taller than them, than a man who is worried about being shorter than women he is interested in.

Maybe it's again more to do with the minority being vocal and seeming to be the majority. And the reality is the standard everyone is insecure because of what the vocal group are judging what we should or should not like or be okay with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

Maybe do the cock mould thing and that might put things into perspective haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Penis size is still one of the only body shaming things that’s completely acceptable in most of society

It’s no surprise so many men struggle with penis size issues

It’s gross how acceptable it is to openly mock it.

It’s gross. "

What he said^^

I've been insulted in person about the size of mine, it's not nice. Despite knowing I'm a little above average, it stays with you and still terrifies me seeing someone new for the first time, wondering what they will think.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

Maybe do the cock mould thing and that might put things into perspective haha

Cock mould?

Appart from sounding grim, I have no idea what that is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

Maybe do the cock mould thing and that might put things into perspective haha

Cock mould?

Appart from sounding grim, I have no idea what that is. "

A copy of your cock

they do kits and you can have a replica

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

I'd like to have more volume when it's flaccid. I'm definitely a grower, not a shower! I thought I was the small side of average but I've been told that it's a more than acceptable size and girthy when standing to attention. I dunno, I'm certainly not VWE. I've seen smaller and I've seen a lot bigger too.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

To be fair you might be biased since you’d not be in the receiving end

They are widespread, common, brutal. Recently they’ve gotten a lot more common

I've never heard that joke. What a load of bollocks. My eldest is 18 and about 5' 7". I'm angry on his behalf for what's to come.

Just to point out I'm not disagreeing or dismissing what you say about either side, men or women.

As I said, preferences aren’t an issue. I like short girls

It’s the abuse and insults that follow and are accepted in society that I’m against. It might be a minority doing it, but they do it unopposed and think it’s completely acceptable. It shouldn’t be. Other women should be calling them out, telling each other body shaming isn’t acceptable. Even when it’s aimed at men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

To be fair you might be biased since you’d not be in the receiving end

They are widespread, common, brutal. Recently they’ve gotten a lot more common

I've never heard that joke. What a load of bollocks. My eldest is 18 and about 5' 7". I'm angry on his behalf for what's to come.

Just to point out I'm not disagreeing or dismissing what you say about either side, men or women.

As I said, preferences aren’t an issue. I like short girls

If I see I, I'd call it out. You know what a loud mouth I am.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Just a thought from reading these posts, and apologies for going off on a tangent Kylie, but the same poster mentioned both the body positivity movement and how widely that is accepted and championed, and also the negativity surrounding men under 6ft. Do you think they're interconnected?

What I mean by that is, with society being encouraged to be positive about more voluptuous figures, are there still some ingrained societal beliefs that men should be the protectors to the "delicate little women", and are they seeking even taller men so they still have a "protector" when they're larger themselves? Is one feeding the other?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

Maybe do the cock mould thing and that might put things into perspective haha

Cock mould?

Appart from sounding grim, I have no idea what that is.

A copy of your cock

they do kits and you can have a replica "

Oh, like you can do the clone a cock thing and make a dildo out of it.

I thought about that once

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Just a thought from reading these posts, and apologies for going off on a tangent Kylie, but the same poster mentioned both the body positivity movement and how widely that is accepted and championed, and also the negativity surrounding men under 6ft. Do you think they're interconnected?

I'm big/fat and height isn't something that is important to me. I may worry about being with someone very slim that I may crush them under my weight. And in general probably make me feel a bit more insecure about my weight. But the height of a man I fancy isn't something my own weight has an impact on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

Maybe do the cock mould thing and that might put things into perspective haha

Cock mould?

Appart from sounding grim, I have no idea what that is.

A copy of your cock

they do kits and you can have a replica

Oh, like you can do the clone a cock thing and make a dildo out of it.

I thought about that once

And??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Could squash a man with the boobs but don't think his height will save him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are all these people talking about my wiener

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

Maybe do the cock mould thing and that might put things into perspective haha

Cock mould?

Appart from sounding grim, I have no idea what that is.

A copy of your cock

they do kits and you can have a replica

Oh, like you can do the clone a cock thing and make a dildo out of it.

I thought about that once

And?? "

I read a review which made it sound horrible! You have to mix up a gel, and at exactly the right time (there is a 2 min window), you have to stick your errect cock into it, then keep it errect and still for 5 mins.

Getting your cock erect at the right time and keeping it that way for that long whilst doing something so utterly unsexy isn't exactly easy.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Honestly, I think it just comes down to badly raised children who don’t know how to express their preferences without insulting other people. It’s a discussion we have on here every month. You can like tall guys, short girls, enhanced breasts, bigger woman, or huge penises.

And you can like all those things without making people that don’t fit into that criteria feel bad.

I’m guilty of it too. I had to get told off on the forums when I 1st started talking on here. And when you get called out on it, it makes sense. You don’t need to be mean to express what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assumed I was on the small size of average.

It's only in the last year that people are actually telling me I'm above average... which was a nice surprise.

I think my opinion is because I'm a grower not a shower, so it always seemed small in comparison to others I'd seen.

Still not 100% convinced I'm above average though tbh.

No cock pics for anyone to confirm, but there are a few bulge ones if you wanted to

Maybe do the cock mould thing and that might put things into perspective haha

Cock mould?

Appart from sounding grim, I have no idea what that is.

A copy of your cock

they do kits and you can have a replica

Oh, like you can do the clone a cock thing and make a dildo out of it.

I thought about that once

And??

Getting your cock erect at the right time and keeping it that way for that long whilst doing something so utterly unsexy isn't exactly easy."

Yeah that doesn't sound very sexy. I was thinking naked man and plaster of Paris...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be concerned about it when I was younger and in particular growing up. Now I just accept that it is what it is and there’s nothing I can do to change it. I think I’m just about average size, maybe a little thinner, but as I say it’s not something that I really worry about any more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s interesting but I think the “delicate little women” ideology might be true. We might have gotten used to this standard of a man should be X and a woman should be Y

Obviously that’s not the case and we know that men are different, women are different but there’s definitely some stuff we carry from those concept, no matter what.

Personally, I admit that a man who is 6’2+ makes me feel more feminine and delicate , but I’ve got dysphoria so my mind feeds and plays tricks on these things.

If he’s short like me (I’m about 5’5/6” so I’d guess avarage for a woman, but I’m not super short) then my brain would make me feel too tall. But then again I know its my brain cos I’m on constant battle of “ I feel like my shoulders are too big , and my arms aren’t thin enough for a woman, and so forth”

It’s a constant battle but I recognise it’s on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are three parts to this thread here.

1) are there preferences that are more often seen than others?

2) are the absence of those traits used as insults?

3) should people go after those that miss these traits

Id say 1) is yes. 2) is yes (it's similar to using slut as an insult for women). It's not right either and 3) absolutely not. That's bullying.

There probably a 2.5. Which is people will use a trait as an isult against someone they don't like rather than it be an unlroviked attack. Still not acceptable but it's not quite the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think there are three parts to this thread here.

1) are there preferences that are more often seen than others?

2) are the absence of those traits used as insults?

3) should people go after those that miss these traits

Id say 1) is yes. 2) is yes (it's similar to using slut as an insult for women). It's not right either and 3) absolutely not. That's bullying.

There probably a 2.5. Which is people will use a trait as an isult against someone they don't like rather than it be an unlroviked attack. Still not acceptable but it's not quite the same. "

It somehow evolved when the original idea was very simple.

What do men think about their own penis, and are they aware they are avarage, or big or small? And are they secure with their size?

As I feel most men are not totally objective about their own penis.

But anyway, it’s good that it opened other discussions I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there are three parts to this thread here.

1) are there preferences that are more often seen than others?

2) are the absence of those traits used as insults?

3) should people go after those that miss these traits

Id say 1) is yes. 2) is yes (it's similar to using slut as an insult for women). It's not right either and 3) absolutely not. That's bullying.

There probably a 2.5. Which is people will use a trait as an isult against someone they don't like rather than it be an unlroviked attack. Still not acceptable but it's not quite the same.

It somehow evolved when the original idea was very simple.

What do men think about their own penis, and are they aware they are avarage, or big or small? And are they secure with their size?

As I feel most men are not totally objective about their own penis.

But anyway, it’s good that it opened other discussions I guess

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fair. There are three parts to the thread (as it has evolved). Plus the original question

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't consider myself well endowed but when my now ex wife first grabbed it she was in shock at my girth and she said wow you're thick.

I still remember the look on her face now

My most recent ex didn't think it would fit either, it did though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally....

Just downloaded the pdf of thoughts about my weiner.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't consider myself well endowed but when my now ex wife first grabbed it she was in shock at my girth and she said wow you're thick.

I still remember the look on her face now

My most recent ex didn't think it would fit either, it did though

So you are big

I think majority of well endowed men, don’t consider themselves big by any means.

How can you not objectively think… yes that’s kinda big , is just beyond me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Finally....

Just downloaded the pdf of thoughts about my weiner....."

And are you gonna share them thoughts about your weiner with us or are you gonna gatekeep?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I don't consider myself well endowed but when my now ex wife first grabbed it she was in shock at my girth and she said wow you're thick.

I still remember the look on her face now

My most recent ex didn't think it would fit either, it did though

So you are big

I think majority of well endowed men, don’t consider themselves big by any means.

How can you not objectively think… yes that’s kinda big , is just beyond me

Well I've measured it since and it's 6 inches around at it's fattest point so it's not exactly small

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't consider myself well endowed but when my now ex wife first grabbed it she was in shock at my girth and she said wow you're thick.

I still remember the look on her face now

My most recent ex didn't think it would fit either, it did though

So you are big

I think majority of well endowed men, don’t consider themselves big by any means.

How can you not objectively think… yes that’s kinda big , is just beyond me

Well I've measured it since and it's 6 inches around at it's fattest point so it's not exactly small

Such a flex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been surprised how surprised people are with mine its only 7 "

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

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probably slightly above average..fond of a pee a few times in the middle of the night and barely needs 1 when I am awake.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I don't consider myself well endowed but when my now ex wife first grabbed it she was in shock at my girth and she said wow you're thick.

I still remember the look on her face now

My most recent ex didn't think it would fit either, it did though

So you are big

I think majority of well endowed men, don’t consider themselves big by any means.

How can you not objectively think… yes that’s kinda big , is just beyond me

Well I've measured it since and it's 6 inches around at it's fattest point so it's not exactly small

Such a flex

I think the problem is that most of us grow up comparing ourselves to the guys in porn that have enough cock to make 2 guys well endowed

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By *ammy_xMan
over a year ago

Reading

Very self-conscious of my cock and body in real life, but seems online I'm very happy to strip off and let it all hang out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't consider myself well endowed but when my now ex wife first grabbed it she was in shock at my girth and she said wow you're thick.

I still remember the look on her face now

My most recent ex didn't think it would fit either, it did though

So you are big

I think majority of well endowed men, don’t consider themselves big by any means.

How can you not objectively think… yes that’s kinda big , is just beyond me

Well I've measured it since and it's 6 inches around at it's fattest point so it's not exactly small

Such a flex

I think the problem is that most of us grow up comparing ourselves to the guys in porn that have enough cock to make 2 guys well endowed

That’s a good topic, and it is interesting that you brought that up.

I think tho there’s a lot of camera angles and good proportion. And yes obviously a big penis but it probably looks huge cos it’s not attached to you!

Also, professional porn selects the big ones only for the camera

Hence why I guess i was also gob smacked at the 13cm UK avarage stat , with the surgeon who talked about Vajeen depth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had the chat with him, he’s content the way he is though from what I can gather and I’m happy with his work

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I don't consider myself well endowed but when my now ex wife first grabbed it she was in shock at my girth and she said wow you're thick.

I still remember the look on her face now

My most recent ex didn't think it would fit either, it did though

So you are big

I think majority of well endowed men, don’t consider themselves big by any means.

How can you not objectively think… yes that’s kinda big , is just beyond me

Well I've measured it since and it's 6 inches around at it's fattest point so it's not exactly small

Such a flex

I think the problem is that most of us grow up comparing ourselves to the guys in porn that have enough cock to make 2 guys well endowed

That’s a good topic, and it is interesting that you brought that up.

I think tho there’s a lot of camera angles and good proportion. And yes obviously a big penis but it probably looks huge cos it’s not attached to you!

Also, professional porn selects the big ones only for the camera

Hence why I guess i was also gob smacked at the 13cm UK avarage stat , with the surgeon who talked about Vajeen depth

Thing is as long as you're average and good in bed it doesn't really matter anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My average size girthy one seems to do the job OK, I am lucky to have no complaints yet

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

"My average size girthy one seems to do the job OK, I am lucky to have no complaints yet

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no woman has ever moaned with me either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve never had the chat with him, he’s content the way he is though from what I can gather and I’m happy with his work

Poor wiener!!! I think it’s only healthy to have a convo every now and again

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By *omoxfordMan
over a year ago

leeds

Mine is nothing special on slack but it does grow

Mines a grower not a show er

Guy a used to work with used to have a show er he would get it out a helicopter it

I once said to him if its that big on slack must be massive on hard his answer no it just points up.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I hadn’t thought about my cock size until I joined FAB!

I don’t have any problems in terms of the size of it…it’s bigger than average, it’s fairly girthy and I can get balls deep and that to me is ideal and just as importantly is perfect for C.

I wouldn’t want to be bigger or smaller. I couldn’t care less if another guy is bigger that C plays with. If I couldn’t make C cum and they could, then maybe it would play on my mind but I don’t have that issue.

So I’m fully happy with mine…he says like a proud parent

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By *d StrakerMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Being very short for a guy, I always thought my cock was small as everything else was, but as I got older I realised Im an average size, but on my relatively small frame it looks bigger in comparison and I've had a few fair blokes tell me on here I've got a great big cock, but I immediately go back to them and say it's just average and won't meet them because I know they'll be disappointed

On a more serious note several people in this thread have mentioned height and this has been the bane of my life particularly where women are concerned, and has made me extremely insecure and even depressed at times. In this day of body shaming the one area where you are still allowed to make people feel shit is mocking short men. I still see it all time on TV "Tom Cruise is a midget" etc

. A guy on here basically implied I was lying about my height and that there couldn't possibly be anyone my size so I just blocked the fucker. Sorry, rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hadn’t thought about my cock size until I joined FAB!

I don’t have any problems in terms of the size of it…it’s bigger than average, it’s fairly girthy and I can get balls deep and that to me is ideal and just as importantly is perfect for C.

So I’m fully happy with mine…he says like a proud parent

Agree it's more a prominent subject on here naturally. Feel v happy with my size.

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By *jb1811Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Smaller side of average here. Occasionally at a party or similar a comment may be made that dies make me a bit conscious of it.

However ultimately, I can't change it, and I'm very, very good with my tongue and fingers and I've found due to that no one has cared about the size of my penis.

Plus, found people far more willing to do anal with a guy that isn't huge, and I do like that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is nothing special on slack but it does grow

Mines a grower not a show er

Guy a used to work with used to have a show er he would get it out a helicopter it

I once said to him if its that big on slack must be massive on hard his answer no it just points up."

So as a grower, did that make you feel concious being smaller when not aroused ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is nothing special on slack but it does grow

Mines a grower not a show er

Guy a used to work with used to have a show er he would get it out a helicopter it

I once said to him if its that big on slack must be massive on hard his answer no it just points up.

So as a grower, did that make you feel concious being smaller when not aroused ? "

In settings where you were say. In a communal shower or whatever

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

It's such a small subject, it's hardly worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am a larger guy, 8 inches and thick. First realised when i was younger but when the penny really dropped was my first meet with a couple!!]

And yes have been turned down twice

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By *ad66Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

If a woman (or man) isn't impressed by the size just say "it'll fill a pram"

When me & the Mrs have been in clubs & been chatting to others they confirmed what we'd noticed, that the guys with huge cocks never got properly hard like the average / smaller guys do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never had the chat with him, he’s content the way he is though from what I can gather and I’m happy with his work

Poor wiener!!! I think it’s only healthy to have a convo every now and again

I suppose I should, it would balance out the slapping about that goes on

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"It's such a small subject, it's hardly worth the effort"

You say that but from what I have seen has resulted in some indepth discussion of the matter. It's Monday and obviously a distraction from cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For 30 years I just thought everyone's was this size

Then when I became more sexually enabled I realised that when girls little said Waoa that he wasn't normal sized lol

He has a kink too as those who are looking can see in this profile pic... Well he's the og banana in a hammock and that's all there is

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By *appy nakedMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Always thought I was average until I started swinging and got a few comments particularly about my girth. Still seems normal to me.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don’t feel tho there’s many height jokes. Maybe I’m wrong but never heard the

“You are a friend if you are 6’ or shorter”

To be fair you might be biased since you’d not be in the receiving end

They are widespread, common, brutal. Recently they’ve gotten a lot more common

I've never heard that joke. What a load of bollocks. My eldest is 18 and about 5' 7". I'm angry on his behalf for what's to come.

Just to point out I'm not disagreeing or dismissing what you say about either side, men or women.

I think it's two sides of the same coin. If you experience rejection for it you can develop a complex about it. I was saying to try not to let that happen and your confidence around it will make you more attractive to those who don't seek tall partners. I hope that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a woman (or man) isn't impressed by the size just say "it'll fill a pram"

When me & the Mrs have been in clubs & been chatting to others they confirmed what we'd noticed, that the guys with huge cocks never got properly hard like the average / smaller guys do. "

Maybe because it needs more blood flow into the penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still think I am average on here

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Obviously a very important matter to some it seems. Worddata has all the average stats by country for those with a keen interest. You might get a few surprises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

My last partner loved my size to the point where she was getting obsessed, and was really shocked when she saw me hard for the first time. She loved riding me and squirting like a hydrant.

I do get attention and comments when I've played on cam before too, but to me it's just my cock, very happy with him too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

My last partner loved my size to the point where she was getting obsessed, and was really shocked when she saw me hard for the first time. She loved riding me and squirting like a hydrant.

I do get attention and comments when I've played on cam before too, but to me it's just my cock, very happy with him too!"

Did u dickmatise her?

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

Well it seems at 7" I'm above average. Never thought about it going through life till a work colleague who saw me in the showers was laughing about me advertising for a partner and putting HLD on it. I had no idea what that meant till he explained 'hung like donkey' pmsl. A bit of an overestimate in my opinion. Cherry loves Mr Wiggly and thinks he's perfect, length and girth. 7" was too long for an ex though and I once bruised her uterus

. I have a foreskin but not overwhelming or tight, never had a complaint. Also relatively straight, some have said its tasty too

?. Yes there are smaller ones on FAB, yet some much bigger too

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

My last partner loved my size to the point where she was getting obsessed, and was really shocked when she saw me hard for the first time. She loved riding me and squirting like a hydrant.

I do get attention and comments when I've played on cam before too, but to me it's just my cock, very happy with him too!

Did u dickmatise her?

I just changed my profile photo to see if I can dickmatise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

My last partner loved my size to the point where she was getting obsessed, and was really shocked when she saw me hard for the first time. She loved riding me and squirting like a hydrant.

I do get attention and comments when I've played on cam before too, but to me it's just my cock, very happy with him too!

Did u dickmatise her?

I just changed my profile photo to see if I can dickmatise

That certainly looks thick, sir

those lovers of yours didn’t lie

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

I hate my penis,I am extremely aware of its size or lack of.

I lack any self confidence and self esteem.

Mostly stem's from 2 things.

1: being told I'm a worthless dunderhead by my dad.

2:my small penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

My last partner loved my size to the point where she was getting obsessed, and was really shocked when she saw me hard for the first time. She loved riding me and squirting like a hydrant.

I do get attention and comments when I've played on cam before too, but to me it's just my cock, very happy with him too!

Did u dickmatise her?

I just changed my profile photo to see if I can dickmatise

U gonna swing it back and forth for us ladies, like a pendulum ?

Hahah

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm on the small side, but fuck it, not much I can do about that, just have to good with my fingers

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By *isterDennyMan
over a year ago

colchester

Lol I was mid twenties before I had any idea about the size (thickness) of mine having been with the same girlfriend from 15! It’s been uphill all the way from there

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

My last partner loved my size to the point where she was getting obsessed, and was really shocked when she saw me hard for the first time. She loved riding me and squirting like a hydrant.

I do get attention and comments when I've played on cam before too, but to me it's just my cock, very happy with him too!

Did u dickmatise her?

I just changed my profile photo to see if I can dickmatise

U gonna swing it back and forth for us ladies, like a pendulum ?

Hahah

I don't do things like that and it's impossible with mine if I'm hard as he stands proud and he's too small soft

Best I can do is slap from side to side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look at mine think it just a penis & it's average

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

My last partner loved my size to the point where she was getting obsessed, and was really shocked when she saw me hard for the first time. She loved riding me and squirting like a hydrant.

I do get attention and comments when I've played on cam before too, but to me it's just my cock, very happy with him too!

Did u dickmatise her?

I just changed my profile photo to see if I can dickmatise

That certainly looks thick, sir

those lovers of yours didn’t lie

I'm sure they did, just not about that

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Mines alright. I'm happy with it.. it does the job. Although it could do with more regular employment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea if mine is big or not haha

Never had complaints and had a couple say it is a good size but I have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't really give my cock size much thought until my late 20's when I found out the average size. Tho some did comment it was big and some said they would definitely not do anal.

You mentioned foreskin. Mine is on the tight sice but looser now with age (use).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men, let me probe your brain a little, once again

And topic of the conversation… your wiener!

If you are a larger kind of guy, when did you become self aware of being above avarage and big? Did you just know or were you just assuming that everyone was your size? When did the penny drop?

Were you ever turned down by a woman (or a man If into men) because of your size?

If on the smaller size, is it something that makes you self aware? Or have you learnt to love your size?

Apparently I’ve been told by a doctor who was discussing Vajeen depth with me, that the U.K. avarage penis size is 13cm. I was like. “Huuuh, Is that so?”

Anyway, I’m gonna grab some pop corns, and hopefully read some good comments x

Never had a problem about my size, at the beginning of a relationship, you do tend to get praised lol, but i know I'm not big, but enough for most girls I've had intimate times with! But will say, on a cold Feb day, after ninety mins playing footie , there is hardly anything poking out, in that department lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's a wiener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pen8s is no different than my foot..both are as big as they are , and most woman moan about them ...that sounds really bad....

Truth is, it's never really occurred to me before you asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My pen8s is no different than my foot..both are as big as they are , and most woman moan about them ...that sounds really bad....

Truth is, it's never really occurred to me before you asked."

Hopefully I pushed you to be more concious about your companion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My pen8s is no different than my foot..both are as big as they are , and most woman moan about them ...that sounds really bad....

Truth is, it's never really occurred to me before you asked.

Hopefully I pushed you to be more concious about your companion x

You did.

He just ordered new socks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like mine. no choice really. some partners have said its big in the past but that doesnt really mean anything to me - there is always bigger and better - and always smaller too.

but its got a good girth. so im told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been told mine is very girthy and when i have been to group meets or couple meets from fab there are usually comments about my ‘trunk’. Ive never thought it was anything special but ive been told i have good length but very girthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im average. Im happy with what I've got.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have received a lot of positive responses to my cock, but I never thought I was anything other than average? I am very happy with how it looks, and it’s size, and also the fact most ladies love how much I cum, which it turns out is also more than average……

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

When I became sexually active, I was told I had a big cock by a few people. But to be accurate, I think I have a slightly longer cock than some, but a fairly average girth.

If I'm honest, if I was designing it, I'd sacrifice a bit of the length for girth. (Well to be brutally honest, I'd keep the length and add the girth!!).

Happy to get feedback if anyone is looking at pics!

Gbat

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Like a nerd I just checked and at full erection 6.5" with 6" girth ..dunno if that is average above or below..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember a girl pacing around the bed when I was in my early 20’s, naked having stripped each other. I was lying face up on the bed, stroking it and she couldn’t take her eyes off it.

“You’re not putting that in me” she said, with a quiver of fear in her voice. I waited until she calmed down and got on the bed, eventually she straggled me and sank down on to it gingerly. It wasn’t long before she came and my obsession with orgasms began.

As long as I can make a woman orgasm then I’m happy with my size. What ever the size of the cock though, in my opinion making a woman orgasm is less about the cock size (although it’s undeniable that it can help) it’s more about decoding her mind. When a man can do that, he has the key to the rest of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good wieners everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really sure, I think I'm a bit above average after going on several mmf meets I've always been the biggest there. Certainly don't think I'm really big though just over 7" would loveca bit more girth really though.

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