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Would you change what you are looking for, if the person.....

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Isnt looking for exactly what you are looking for, but you both still fancy each other? I think that this is a tricky one. I reckon that ideally both have change abit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t go changing to try to please me.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Happens all the time and is why we don't rely on profiles and messages to meet.bwrve had some great times with people met at socials where, when you look at their profile afterwards, they really aren't what we're looking for and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site I’m open to whatever, it is a swinging site and I came here to find couples interested in swinging/cuckold/hotwife.

Just an old fashioned wife swap scenario

What I’m really after I find elsewhere as Fab has become to vanilla for my appetite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if there’s attraction there then it’s worth perusing. May don’t be too rigid in ticking the boxes of what you’re looking for?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We've*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, so long as certain boundaries aren't crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m attracted to different attributes and only a few things are set in stone for who I look for

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No because what I'm looking for is fluid not with Just one person. However I don't care how much attraction and chemistry we have. If all he wants to do with me is something I really don't like then we are truly Incompatible and I would walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because I don't have a shopping list for the kind of man I might gel with.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Depends but worth considering each scenario x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I think sometimes you can have something in your mind what you're looking for but then something can happen or you meet someone that makes you think totally differently.

It always best to keep an open mind with everything in life or you could miss out on great opportunities.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would not change for anyone. If somebody does not accept me for who I am then he is not for me.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It depends.

If someone is looking for marriage and babies that's not a preference I'm willing to compromise on.

I have few preferences that are truly fixed though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our preferences are set in stone. They might change over time as we get older or we want to try different things but for now there’s no exceptions.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I would compromise on certain aspects and others I wouldn’t.

It really depends what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preferences are sealed up in a time capsule. Never to be known for another 100 years.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't have many things but distance is pretty much set in stone.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

They all tell me what I want to hear so it doesn't matter what I'm after

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you fancy someone doesn't that automatically make them what you're looking for? Or do you mean what you're looking for in terms of sexual preference? I don't think I'd compromise I can't see the point.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If I find a lady that I really get on with and enjoy chatting to, then I'd be relaxed if she didn't have any blue underwear.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't have a prescribed format and content for sex, so I'll decide and potentially enjoy more or different things from my initial expectations. That said, my interests have been developed based on my experience, so I'm biased by that

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"If you fancy someone doesn't that automatically make them what you're looking for? Or do you mean what you're looking for in terms of sexual preference? I don't think I'd compromise I can't see the point."
Yes, that is right as you fancy them, but maibe they dont look for what you are looking for.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"If you fancy someone doesn't that automatically make them what you're looking for? Or do you mean what you're looking for in terms of sexual preference? I don't think I'd compromise I can't see the point.Yes, that is right as you fancy them, but maibe they dont look for what you are looking for."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you fancy someone doesn't that automatically make them what you're looking for? Or do you mean what you're looking for in terms of sexual preference? I don't think I'd compromise I can't see the point.Yes, that is right as you fancy them, but maibe they dont look for what you are looking for."

Oh ok, I understand.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Yes I would. It might be something you hadn't thought about or were nervous about before. And I might even enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They all tell me what I want to hear so it doesn't matter what I'm after "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on what it was and how much I liked them.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If would depend on the situation

If it was age ,I might compromise if I really liked them .

Not if it was that they were married or attached for example .

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yeah I’m attracted to different attributes and only a few things are set in stone for who I look for "
That is also good as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its late and that question has given me a headache! I think I've read it right in my mind though and would comment that I would not change my preferences to suit somebody else but would not discourage them from pursueing what they want to experience either. I'd be disapponted to lose something special but would always be there for them should they need me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take me as I am, flaws and imperfections, or not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt looking for exactly what you are looking for, but you both still fancy each other? I think that this is a tricky one. I reckon that ideally both have change abit "

I think it would fizzle out of its own accord over time as boxes aren't being ticked on both sides.

I didn't change what I was looking for as I knew I wouldn't have been happy.

Given the nature of the site would it bit be best to be honest about it and say it would be fun but not a serious thing?

PW

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm open to everything and nothing.

As my profile says I prefer mutual exploration so there's no bucket list to be changed or amended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and have

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