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What are some reasons you are still single

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Just wondered

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm hideous

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I've been single 7 years, my expectations are way to high to change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s easier than getting hurt again that would probably end me

Also I am a “4 letter bad word” and like to get around and let everyone test drive me

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Because it's the way of living that suits me best. I'm not at all suited to a relationship and I'm aware enough to know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can come and go as I please, no-one has any expectations of me, I can fart as often and as loudly as I please AND I can leave the toilet seat up and not get any grief for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not an easy one to answer. Maybe previous experiences and assuming all are the same. I really don’t like the line “we are not all like that”, although most probably true. I am an adult and I made the wrong choices

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Total minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“ I am an adult and I made the wrong choices”

I think we’ve all been there. My last relationship should have gone no further that a one night stand, but as they say we live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men

That is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men

That is all."

Try dating women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men

That is all.

Try dating women "

Oh God no, they're even worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be arsed with all the getting to know each other bollocks.

That, and also I don't want anyone in my house.

I like not being sleep deprived due to snoring and someone else taking up space in the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love. "

Does the guy you loved have a guide dog and a white stick? Rest assured it’s very much his loss

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Previous experiences have made me very cautious and i have been hurt really bad.

My walls to protect me are up really high.

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

1: I'm a total nightmare

2: far too scared of getting hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love.

Does the guy you loved have a guide dog and a white stick? Rest assured it’s very much his loss "

Aww thank you, that’s kind.

He found me attractive enough to sleep with for 5 years but he doesn’t love me.

Whatever, I’m tired and done.

He’s a huge dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Because I good for fucking but not for relationships.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

A million reasons, but infidelity...it hurts like fuck

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I can't be arsed with all the getting to know each other bollocks.

That, and also I don't want anyone in my house.

I like not being sleep deprived due to snoring and someone else taking up space in the bed.

"

This

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I enjoy my own company and like the space. It's took years to realise that.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It’s too much hard work finding anyone I fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor choices in the past

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Because I was blind and gullible

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Last partner died been single since 2004 prefer to stay this way to old to accomadate another in my life permanently! Fwb is good x

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

Gorgeous men are the reason I am single

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

The women I want a relationship with are those that are "hard work".

This inevitably leads to a break up years down the line when I realise I am better than how they are treating me.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I don't want to join the line to give away half my stuff...and to much drama.

But I'm sure there are women out there that will tell me different reasons.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No one wants me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one wants me "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because being single is great.

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By *just.meMan
over a year ago

hartlepool

Im short, fat, ugly, a small cock, shy, lack of confidence

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon

Because Alexandra Dadario won’t marry me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im short, fat, ugly, a small cock, shy, lack of confidence"

Aww man don't say things like that about yourself.

Even though you aren't those things, plenty of people look deeper than the persons exterior

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Hearing my friends constantly moan about their partners puts me off. That and I’m not the type men want to be seen in public with

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Self preservation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self preservation."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not finding someone I want to be with.

I’d like to meet someone whose company I want to stay in, rather than wonder when I can politely excuse myself to go home and drink tea.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I got my fingers and heart seriously burnt so I just can't bring myself to commit again ..not for the foreseeable

I just want fun and friendship and nothing too heavy

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

So many men, so few that deserve me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hearing my friends constantly moan about their partners puts me off. That and I’m not the type men want to be seen in public with "

This makes me sad. The right man will be proud to have you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a restraining order barring me from being within 100ft of any female. It’s a misunderstanding, honest…

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I don't want to cause more disappointment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a restraining order barring me from being within 100ft of any female. It’s a misunderstanding, honest…"

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.

Baggage not being my words - my kids rock

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

London - till 25th

I was widowed after 23yrs, just pre pandemic.

Not saying there won't be another ltr, but not sure if I could inflict myself on another person in the same way.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.

Baggage not being my words - my kids rock "

I dated a widow, would do again. Some people will find any excuse though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell if I know! One thing is for sure, I've always been taken advantage of and not in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was widowed after 23yrs, just pre pandemic.

Not saying there won't be another ltr, but not sure if I could inflict myself on another person in the same way.

"

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been single 7 years, my expectations are way to high to change that "

Really ?

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Nobody will have me........

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Still happyvafter 4 years being single. Not in any rush to change that

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

London - till 25th


"I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.

Baggage not being my words - my kids rock "

You personal baggage is certainly appealing.

As for weans, they are never baggage. If they can't love you and your family, then you are better off without them.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Lack of time & family comes first, always

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I have a short attention span

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cba to be honest

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.

Baggage not being my words - my kids rock "

You jest I can see a queue forming

Wanting to be with you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep picking the wrong boys for fucks sake!

Also I partially don’t believe in monogamy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a face for radio,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cba to be honest "

Yep, same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for years and now its time to enjoy some headspace and sexual liberation!!

I love men though and my head cant control my heart. Ive fallen in love twice since

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I can't be arsed with all the getting to know each other bollocks.

That, and also I don't want anyone in my house.

I like not being sleep deprived due to snoring and someone else taking up space in the bed.

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Most definitely this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a happy single

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

I’ve been single 7 years this coming august…and I guess It’s due to a mix of becoming more selfish the older I get with an unwillingness to settle for being 2nd best or less then I think I deserve, with maybe a tad too fussy thrown in with a pinch of realism that maybe all the decent ones near me are all ready taken lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have moved up to the North East, so looking to meet a partner in crime.

Been let down in the past, but ever hopeful about meeting that person you click with and have great chemistry with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be single than with the wrong person i won't make do,been there done that. I want my happy ever after not my,you will do for now

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

The front door is open but I don't want anyone forgetting where it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pick the wrong ones…. All good at the start but they soon change…… I enjoy the single life too much to be tied down now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Widowed was the main reason, not sure now ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appear to attract all the wrong men, including the mentally unstable, the married, lying about their identity, commitment phobic, the list goes on haha I literally have no luck with guys at all

I get to the stage where I think I’m the problem. Guys see me as a good time and then move to whoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men do stinky trumps.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Our fwb option is best for me. I've found I love living alone after the kids flew the nest. I have loads of friends, my dog and a good life. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't found someone. And I am a bit in love with the last someone.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have no time for a boyfriend really.

What with looking after my mum, my kids, my dogs, and the OAP cat on top of working, my free time is MY time and I just can’t be arsed with the faff and disappointment that dating brings. Plus that’s hardly making me a catch.

Would rather meet someone suddenly, doing something I/they enjoy than meeting them on a site where they put their best foot forward only for it to turn to disappointment when they are not who I thought them to be and I don’t live up to my profile blurb.

I have nothing to offer anybody except my heart and the occasional Saturday afternoon.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I’m not good enough for the type of girls I fancy

The girls that fancy me aren’t good enough for me

Basically a mismatch of standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being single

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over a year ago

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Quite a few reasons , but mainly because I chose to be the master of my own destiny and it ticks along quite nicely with just me in it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im too demanding and an expensive hobby! I like to be spoiled too much.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

*looks in mirror.

Yup. That

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just works for me

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

I’m guessing am really ugly and fat cos no one seems want me

A few months ago a great person told me no one would like me and only way anyone would spend time or sleep with me would be if I paid.

So I’d like find someone but at moment feel so deflated

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I got my fingers and heart seriously burnt so I just can't bring myself to commit again ..not for the foreseeable

I just want fun and friendship and nothing too heavy

"

So sad

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Hearing my friends constantly moan about their partners puts me off. That and I’m not the type men want to be seen in public with "

oh know that feeling. "I make a good friend, not girlfriend" as one guy once said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite like being single . Having my bed to myself without snoring farting men . Doing what I want when I want , no footie on tv

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I hate being single. Seven years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im too demanding and an expensive hobby! I like to be spoiled too much."

YES GIRL! I think totes legitimate

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It’s quite sad reading the reasons above. Everyone of you is gorgeous and deserves to have happiness in your lives when you’re ready for it. Kids are not baggage. For those that are widowed, I hope you find happiness again.

Personally, I’ve been single for 16 years and have three adult kids at home. I was hurt badly emotionally and don’t what to go through it again. I’ve met some lovely people who wanted a ltr but I’m not ready for one. I like my space and my kids will always come first.

I like having fun on Fab and I’ve made some really good friends. Maybe one day Prince Charming will tick all the right boxes.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like my life comforts to much

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

30 plus years single here and I've often theorised the reasons, still no idea.

I'd like to be significant in someone's life and vice versa.

One day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate being single. Seven years. "

I’m only 14 months , that’s not long is it really . It’s new to me being free and not being controlled by someone

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

UK

i fall in love to quickly then hurt for months when it goes wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve yet to meet someone whose company I enjoy more than my own.

That’s not a stealth boast, as I’m a boring fucker. But I’d imagine many introverts feel the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same bro. I'm loving the bed to myself

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By *ayneKingMan
over a year ago

South East

I’m too clean cut & respectful, women prefer bad boys apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m guessing am really ugly and fat cos no one seems want me

A few months ago a great person told me no one would like me and only way anyone would spend time or sleep with me would be if I paid.

So I’d like find someone but at moment feel so deflated "

I’m sorry you’ve had such an awful experience, people can be just so mean!! Having been in a similar position, my advice is start loving yourself again and the rest will follow naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Circumstances and choice!

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love.

Does the guy you loved have a guide dog and a white stick? Rest assured it’s very much his loss

Aww thank you, that’s kind.

He found me attractive enough to sleep with for 5 years but he doesn’t love me.

Whatever, I’m tired and done.

He’s a huge dickhead."

He’s clearly an Everton fan

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’ve yet to meet someone whose company I enjoy more than my own.

That’s not a stealth boast, as I’m a boring fucker. But I’d imagine many introverts feel the same way."

Exactly this

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"I’m widowed and no one wants a widow with baggage.

Baggage not being my words - my kids rock "

Any man (me included) would be lucky to know you chat and date and the baggage nothing wrong with that everyone has some stuff and kids always rock

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’ve yet to meet someone whose company I enjoy more than my own.

That’s not a stealth boast, as I’m a boring fucker. But I’d imagine many introverts feel the same way."

Your tits are way to nice for just one man’s enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one wants me

Same "

And me

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Marriage broke down, been divorced 10yrs, had few bfs in that time but I've found being single is better n simple, main reason for staying single now is been hurt too many times n i dont trust no one

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I suffer with F Syndrome - Fifty Five, Five Foot Five, Fat and Fugly

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"I appear to attract all the wrong men, including the mentally unstable, the married, lying about their identity, commitment phobic, the list goes on haha I literally have no luck with guys at all

I get to the stage where I think I’m the problem. Guys see me as a good time and then move to whoever "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably, most likely, certainly, definitely.. im just too different

The one thing most ppl tell me, though meant as a compliment, is that im very mysterious, and while some may find that attractive, i feel that for the vast majority, im too mysterious for them to want to approach me. And being so different, i dont tick the right number of boxes, either i have the personality they like but not the looks, or i have the looks but not the personality theyre attracted to

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

There is nothing wrong with being single...

...it's not a disease??!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


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There is nothing wrong with being single...

...it's not a disease??! "

The feeling of wanting something so many people seem to find easily and not being able to get it can definitely make it feel like one

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Hearing my friends constantly moan about their partners puts me off. That and I’m not the type men want to be seen in public with

oh know that feeling. "I make a good friend, not girlfriend" as one guy once said "

I’ve heard that line a lot

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth


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There is nothing wrong with being single...

...it's not a disease??! "

I don’t believe anyone has said there’s anything wrong with it

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"I got my fingers and heart seriously burnt so I just can't bring myself to commit again ..not for the foreseeable

I just want fun and friendship and nothing too heavy

So sad "

Don't feel sad for me ...if it was any other way you two wouldn't have met me ...and without sounding all mushy I'm forever grateful for that .....I'm just going to go off and cry now....lol

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

In the words of the pigeon detectives :

Everybody wants me, everybody wants me, everybody wants me now.

Everybody wants me, everybody wants me, everybody wants me now………….but I just want you !

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I hate being single. Seven years.

I’m only 14 months , that’s not long is it really . It’s new to me being free and not being controlled by someone "

I'm a very social kind of guy. I'm OK on my own, but I end up talking the hind legs off a donkey (random strangers) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There is nothing wrong with being single...

...it's not a disease??! "

Yeah, sometimes I want to ask 'how come you're not single yet'...when I'm asked this by coupled people

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"I’m guessing am really ugly and fat cos no one seems want me

A few months ago a great person told me no one would like me and only way anyone would spend time or sleep with me would be if I paid.

So I’d like find someone but at moment feel so deflated

I’m sorry you’ve had such an awful experience, people can be just so mean!! Having been in a similar position, my advice is start loving yourself again and the rest will follow naturally. "

Thank you I am trying but hard when don’t match with anyone or even fab no meets or socials.

I do think need go club but my anxiety is high since single and worry to fat and hairy and ugly so worry will just feel out place and awkward

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Also I partially don’t believe in monogamy lol x "

I don't really either, it's a lot to ask one person x

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

The guys i like end up starting a relationship with someone else, so its easier not to like anyone. Which is probably why I make a good friend as they always say to me

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

There is no one Ive met that I’d want a relationship with , maybe it’s me, I’ve met a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife died and I have no intention of replacing her

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Who I am and what I want from life don't exist anymore. I'm trying to be content with it but it's hard.

Hopeless romantic hypersexual nympho that loves cooking, music, travelling and sports, yet loves traditional gender roles.. I was raised by my parents who taught me to be self sufficient and self reliant but also to know how to phone in an expert without shame.

I expect a unified approach to our lives together where we give 100% to each other. We are two complete people not trying to compete with society or with each other.

Oh and he's gotta want children to be brought up knowing their dad isn't babysitting them or stuck with them but loves them and can care for them just as mommy can.

Yeah doesn't exist anymore...

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’ve yet to meet someone whose company I enjoy more than my own.

That’s not a stealth boast, as I’m a boring fucker. But I’d imagine many introverts feel the same way."

I’m an extrovert and love company , i like nothing more , I just want them to go home after a day or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divorce hurt to much in 2013 , my choice being single since....less pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man that I love doesn’t love me and for fear of being heartbroken again, I refuse to fall in love ever again. I never want to feel like that for the rest of my life. I won’t even date in case I fall in love. "

I can relate

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By *atriciayoiditTV/TS
over a year ago

hatfield


"Just wondered "
sanity....

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Off putting personality, doughy physique and large hands.

I go on dates but for one reason or another there’s no spark at the moment. Bit of a dry spell!

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I have bad choices in men. The man that I have strong feelings for now doesn't return them but the sex is pretty amazing so what the hell. Some people are just meant to be single I guess

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Off putting personality, doughy physique and large hands.

I go on dates but for one reason or another there’s no spark at the moment. Bit of a dry spell! "

You're kidding, right? You're lovely x

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By *just.meMan
over a year ago

hartlepool


"Im short, fat, ugly, a small cock, shy, lack of confidence

Aww man don't say things like that about yourself.

Even though you aren't those things, plenty of people look deeper than the persons exterior "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are dicks

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Men are dicks "

Not all of us.....well, I hope not x

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Just haven't found the one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An accumulation of things, but I'm perfectly comfortable as I am at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My looks and my personality.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"My looks and my personality."

You're stunning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes would think it's a life style, sometimes not. Being single or not can become normalized, I think lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’m open to a relationship of sorts at some point - but don’t think I’d ever want a 24/7 permanent live in relationship.

For now I’m very happy as I am - me, the kids, the dog, a wider family circle, some fantastic friends and a couple of fab guys who I hope will be good, regular(ish - they’re far away) friends.

When the kids leave home I think I’d like someone significant to spend the weekend (or may be every other weekend) with - who then politely fucks off back to his own place for a few days without being asked - then comes back again refreshed, recharged and happy to see me.

I guess that’d be my ideal - but I’m not sure there’s be any guys out there who want that kind of relationship.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

What frightens me most, is dying, on my own, sat in a pool of my own piss. That would be a pretty tragic way to leave this life

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"What frightens me most, is dying, on my own, sat in a pool of my own piss. That would be a pretty tragic way to leave this life "

If you’re really old you’ll probably be wearing a nappy so it’ll be ok , worry about Putin or inflation instead.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not looking, not interested, and can't be bothered.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Because I don’t believe one man can fulfil everything I desire - because I like solitude and time for myself, because I enjoy different aspects of different people and because I refuse to settle. Unless I met someone who utterly set my soul on fire and allowed me to be me without judgement or jealousy I can’t see my current situation changing nor would I want it too xx

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"Off putting personality, doughy physique and large hands.

I go on dates but for one reason or another there’s no spark at the moment. Bit of a dry spell!

You're kidding, right? You're lovely x"

It was very tongue in cheek

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Off putting personality, doughy physique and large hands.

I go on dates but for one reason or another there’s no spark at the moment. Bit of a dry spell!

You're kidding, right? You're lovely x

It was very tongue in cheek "

....ha...OK.....not feeling stupid now, at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What frightens me most, is dying, on my own, sat in a pool of my own piss. That would be a pretty tragic way to leave this life "

I’ll probably die alone and get eaten by my cats or something

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"What frightens me most, is dying, on my own, sat in a pool of my own piss. That would be a pretty tragic way to leave this life

I’ll probably die alone and get eaten by my cats or something "

That's the spirit x

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Because I never imagined a life without my partner… and he died so suddenly I had no time to “prepare”. Even now (and it’s been 2 years) no one else comes close to him… and I know deep down I write people off too quickly, but it’s still very hard

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Because I never imagined a life without my partner… and he died so suddenly I had no time to “prepare”. Even now (and it’s been 2 years) no one else comes close to him… and I know deep down I write people off too quickly, but it’s still very hard "

I'm really sorry to hear that x

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

[Removed by poster at 20/03/22 20:22:01]

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

Far too picky to attractiveness ratio

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Because no body loves me enough!!

I was in a long term relationship until last September,completely in love,and unbeknownst to me,he was talking to his ex (who had ghosted him 8 months before we got together)…he cruelly dumped me two days after my birthday in September,made their relationship official in October,and got engaged on Christmas Day!!..left me completely heartbroken,so I came back on here to have completely meaningless sex and be the cold hearted bitch that I am!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm too much just for one person x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I'm too much just for one person x"

Are you doing timeshare? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s definitely because no-one deserves me

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I like it.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I enjoy being single too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I've got worms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I poo in the bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lick my plate

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Because no body loves me enough!!

I was in a long term relationship until last September,completely in love,and unbeknownst to me,he was talking to his ex (who had ghosted him 8 months before we got together)…he cruelly dumped me two days after my birthday in September,made their relationship official in October,and got engaged on Christmas Day!!..left me completely heartbroken,so I came back on here to have completely meaningless sex and be the cold hearted bitch that I am!"

Sounds like he is the heartless one, not you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lick my plate in posh restaurants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like frogs more than humans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I poo in the bath"

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Sometimes I poo in the bath"

An enviable quality x

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Because I choose to be.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

9 years single life is precioussimple,less complicated not directed at every woman because are some very sincere.I just have a problem picking the wrong ones so gave up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I ate a whole jar of lazy garlic and I smelt like garlic for a year. That was a bit of a dry patch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a pet rock. Some people think that's weird.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Once I ate a whole jar of lazy garlic and I smelt like garlic for a year. That was a bit of a dry patch. "

I love garlic......Next x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make noises like an otter when I'm doing sexy stuff.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I have a pet rock. Some people think that's weird. "

I bet exercise is a pain x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I make noises like an otter when I'm doing sexy stuff. "

I'm aroused x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have 8 toe nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to eat big bags of cheesy puffs and I don't share

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire


"I make noises like an otter when I'm doing sexy stuff. "

Damn that’s sexy haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to eat big bags of cheesy puffs and I don't share"

As long as you don't eat your toenails it's all good.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Singletons, like introverts, unite. Separately in our own homes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main one is because I want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work full time and part time on top of full-time. Neither jobs have any opportunities to encounter potential partners. Socially it's difficult to go out purely because all my friends are married and have their own thing going on - they don't need a third wheel and looks daft going to the pub on my own though I do go to gigs and cinema myself. As much as I enjoy my own company, I'd enjoy sharing my life with someone special.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Because I have the perfect face for radio.

Literally!

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

T


"Im short, fat, ugly, a small cock, shy, lack of confidence"

Plus my first GF I was with from 19-24 bought a house with got engaged etc cheated on me and got preggers by him just coz she couldn’t wait a year or so to have a kid!! Meant I Lost everything n was destroyed

Been single since as have trust issues,

and also now look after a disabled family member

Love Life couldn’t get more shit tbh

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