FabSwingers.com forum: A certain type of man

By *hrisAndKatie OP Couple
over a year ago

stevenage

Hey everyone, hope you are all having a lovely Sunday.

Just a random question (this isn't meant to cause offence)

We get a lot of messaged from black guys, all very respectful and they look great, we have met a gee of them, one just last week.

Over all we get more messages from black guys as opposed to white guys.

So we were wondering if it's something in or profile that appeals more to that demographic?

Again not meant to cause offence, just curious.

Who do get more messages from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who do you get more messages from?"

Fab admin

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Who do you get more messages from?

Fab admin"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to attract a lot of creeps or fuckboys unfortunately, either i get bad vibes from them or theyre persistent and cocky. Ethnicity doesnt really factor in with who i get messaged by, just their general demeanor or attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t found that to be the case in my experience, it can be anyone messaging.

Generally tho, I’d say mine are from white guys aged between 20-45. The occasional older, sometimes black guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly couples wanting to explore “Hotwife” or threesomes for the first time

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Who do get more messages from?"

Female, couple.

That's not a typo. Without me instigating contact first I've had a message from one female and one couple.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Mainly double glazing salesmen trying to sell us new windows

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Older men who want to climb me like a tree

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By *hrisAndKatie OP Couple
over a year ago

stevenage

Haha, I think you are on the wrong site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dickheads

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Hey everyone, hope you are all having a lovely Sunday.

Just a random question (this isn't meant to cause offence)

We get a lot of messaged from black guys, all very respectful and they look great, we have met a gee of them, one just last week.

Over all we get more messages from black guys as opposed to white guys.

So we were wondering if it's something in or profile that appeals more to that demographic?

Again not meant to cause offence, just curious.

Who do get more messages from?"

It's that amazing ass!

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By *hrisAndKatie OP Couple
over a year ago

stevenage

Wow thank you! That's a huge compliment coming from you

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

No one. I only get messages if I've sent one first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cockwombles most of all, and then perfectly lovely men who live 100+ miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seem to attract blank profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to attract what I'm not attracted to: bearded and not tall.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

It’s roughly even between females and couples.

It’s not a lot but it has happened.. honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the messages I get are from forums or from men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the messages I get are from forums or from men. "

Sent x

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I can only speak for myself and I can’t say that there is anything on your profile that screams ‘I like black men’.

On the surface, if that is the type you’re typically attracting I would say it’s the arse and general curvature.

There are probably phrases on the profile that appeal or stand out to some black men, but overall I don’t think it comes across that you are trying to appeal to any particular race/type.

If as you say it’s not an issue and you meet black men, I wouldn’t overthink it too much and continue to meet anyone who fits your criteria at the time and is respectful in their approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the messages I get are from forums or from men.

Sent x"

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

The messages I typically get are from men, TVs and my forum buddies

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I tend to get messages from guys who can’t read and think my knickers just fall off lol

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We get more from white guys than black. Just of late have had a higher increase of militry chaps.

In general top of our messages are from guys who want to watch. Alphas/Doms and guys offering every other day and time than our advertised meets.

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It varies depending on what time of day or night I'm online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forumites aside, I have NEVER had a message from a woman or a couple in 10 years of being here

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Older men who want to climb me like a tree"

......puts back hiking boots in go outdoors

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

TV's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forumites aside, I have NEVER had a message from a woman or a couple in 10 years of being here "

Fixed that for ya

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Cockwombles most of all, and then perfectly lovely men who live 100+ miles away

Ah, shucks....oh, I'm a cockwomble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's dat big botty gyal

No offence intended. It looks good

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I get some lovely messages from people saying 'fuck off fatty'

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I get some lovely messages from people saying 'fuck off fatty'

I hope thats a joke and you don't.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I get some lovely messages from people saying 'fuck off fatty'

Send them one back. Tell em you're not interested anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No messages

At all

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Mixture was far as race is concerned. Mostly cis men but a few couples, cis women and trans women ( yet to ever receive one from a trans man)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be your profile as we haven't looked or it could be down to the size of ethnic grouping in your local area. Here in Daventry we have a number of ethnicities other than white british but white british must be between 70 and 90% of the population so most of our local contact is with white men. Again once we get to Northampton or Milton Keynes, Rugby or Coventry the number of men of colour that contact us increases and yet if we look at Banbury then the number drops. It looks like clustering of population is a major factor though not necessarily the only factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cockwombles most of all, and then perfectly lovely men who live 100+ miles away

Ah, shucks....oh, I'm a cockwomble

No you're not

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Cockwombles most of all, and then perfectly lovely men who live 100+ miles away

Ah, shucks....oh, I'm a cockwomble

No you're not"

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We get a mixture of both

But tend to find a lot just can’t be arsed to read the profile which is why we don’t meet many thesedays

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I get some lovely messages from people saying 'fuck off fatty'

Send them one back. Tell em you're not interested anyway

I send one back that just says: (Blows raspberry)

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I get some lovely messages from people saying 'fuck off fatty'

Send them one back. Tell em you're not interested anyway

I send one back that just says: (Blows raspberry)"

Good man

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I get too many messages from gay guys

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"I get too many messages from gay guys "

I know what you mean ones who like to turn a straight guy gay

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Site support team giving me 5 days monthly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your profile scares off the types of men who can't last more than 2 minutes OP.

I get messages mostly from middle aged men who can't read. Sometimes from fake women profiles who can't read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could be your profile as we haven't looked or it could be down to the size of ethnic grouping in your local area. Here in Daventry we have a number of ethnicities other than white british but white british must be between 70 and 90% of the population so most of our local contact is with white men. Again once we get to Northampton or Milton Keynes, Rugby or Coventry the number of men of colour that contact us increases and yet if we look at Banbury then the number drops. It looks like clustering of population is a major factor though not necessarily the only factor."

Good point about postcode area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to get messages from guys who can’t read and think my knickers just fall off lol "

It's not only real women that get those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get too many messages from gay guys

I know what you mean ones who like to turn a straight guy gay

Block all men is the only way around this. I did that very early on

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